How to guard against regret?

[ocmtgg]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

 

[Hwcouple702]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

Well, how are you going to "guard against regret" of never having had experiences in life sharing her with other men...and how will she do the same
when she realizes that for no reason at all..she kept her body to herself and didn't pursue anything else? Seriously. Like it or not, whether you enter the sharing lifestyle, infidelity, bi sexual play, hotwifing...or not...your life and your sex life in particular WILL CHANGE. FACT. It many cases, rather than being enhanced by new sexual experiences and desire, most couples will lose their sexual desire and function without some sort of
outside stimulus...not necessarily lifestyle, but it normally helps...as long as you are both cut out for it.

 

[Cuntfister]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

Give her to me she’s Sexy as fuck

 

[NcCoupleFun]

I talked it up with my wife to let a guy massage her naked in front of me,and the fact that if it progressed to sex that would be ok,and she agreed. We set it up,guy was nice,made her laugh,and they hit it off great. She had some wine,and he started. 5 minutes in he was fingering her,5 minutes later he was fucking her with a 8+ really thick cock for about 30 minutes. She came, he put two loads in her,I put one after he finished,and we showed and got some food. Later that afternoon she got mad at me because the guy fucked her! She finally calmed down,didn’t want to talk about it anymore and we haven’t.

 

[WNY3somecple]

There really is no way to prevent regret, you can only do what you can to make sure you have communicated with each other, trust each other, continue to communicate with each other, set your rules/guidelines, choose as wisely as you can.

You both need to feel safe and confident enough to even put the brakes on. Ie if you set a rule that says first time will not include penetration, then stick to it. Even if it means one of you has to say no in the heat of the moment. Or at least pause to ask each other if you are okay with going further

The partner(s) you pick have to be given and agree to very precise guidelines/rules. And you need to stop if they won't respect them and you both.

Never agree to something ONLY to make your spouse/partner happy. Others will disagree, but this can easily lead to regret, them blame.

But end of the day, once you take the plunge, one or both might regret it fjr a variety of reasons. It sucked. It was great and one of you was not prepared to see the other enjoy it that much. Reality doesn't match fantasy. Etc etc etc

 

[NcCoupleFun]

Hard to guarantee that,talked my wife isn’t it ,met a nice guy,he made her laugh,and she did it with us and orgasmed a lot and now she’s mad at me!

 

[KevinNewell]

Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years, we have never regretted it one bit. I was seeing four other guys when we began dating, he knew about them and I said if we became serious I’d stop seeing them. By the time we became serious hubby loved that I was having sex with other guys, love to clean and have sex with me afterwards and we then progressed to swinging and due to hubby’s tiny cock and him being a bi sub bottom cuckolding suited us better.

So 30 years down the road, too many sexual adventures and people to mention, we are completely open and honest with each other, family, friends and neighbours and we have no regrets at all.

Life is too short for regrets, it’s the things you want to do and don’t that you regret. Xx