How to guard against regret?

[ocmtgg]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

 

[Hwcouple702]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

Well, how are you going to "guard against regret" of never having had experiences in life sharing her with other men...and how will she do the same
when she realizes that for no reason at all..she kept her body to herself and didn't pursue anything else? Seriously. Like it or not, whether you enter the sharing lifestyle, infidelity, bi sexual play, hotwifing...or not...your life and your sex life in particular WILL CHANGE. FACT. It many cases, rather than being enhanced by new sexual experiences and desire, most couples will lose their sexual desire and function without some sort of
outside stimulus...not necessarily lifestyle, but it normally helps...as long as you are both cut out for it.

 

[Cuntfister]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

Give her to me she’s Sexy as fuck

 

[NcCoupleFun]

I talked it up with my wife to let a guy massage her naked in front of me,and the fact that if it progressed to sex that would be ok,and she agreed. We set it up,guy was nice,made her laugh,and they hit it off great. She had some wine,and he started. 5 minutes in he was fingering her,5 minutes later he was fucking her with a 8+ really thick cock for about 30 minutes. She came, he put two loads in her,I put one after he finished,and we showed and got some food. Later that afternoon she got mad at me because the guy fucked her! She finally calmed down,didn’t want to talk about it anymore and we haven’t.

 

[WNY3somecple]

There really is no way to prevent regret, you can only do what you can to make sure you have communicated with each other, trust each other, continue to communicate with each other, set your rules/guidelines, choose as wisely as you can.

You both need to feel safe and confident enough to even put the brakes on. Ie if you set a rule that says first time will not include penetration, then stick to it. Even if it means one of you has to say no in the heat of the moment. Or at least pause to ask each other if you are okay with going further

The partner(s) you pick have to be given and agree to very precise guidelines/rules. And you need to stop if they won't respect them and you both.

Never agree to something ONLY to make your spouse/partner happy. Others will disagree, but this can easily lead to regret, them blame.

But end of the day, once you take the plunge, one or both might regret it fjr a variety of reasons. It sucked. It was great and one of you was not prepared to see the other enjoy it that much. Reality doesn't match fantasy. Etc etc etc

 

[NcCoupleFun]

Hard to guarantee that,talked my wife isn’t it ,met a nice guy,he made her laugh,and she did it with us and orgasmed a lot and now she’s mad at me!

 

[WifeBreeder]

I talked it up with my wife to let a guy massage her naked in front of me,and the fact that if it progressed to sex that would be ok,and she agreed. We set it up,guy was nice,made her laugh,and they hit it off great. She had some wine,and he started. 5 minutes in he was fingering her,5 minutes later he was fucking her with a 8+ really thick cock for about 30 minutes. She came, he put two loads in her,I put one after he finished,and we showed and got some food. Later that afternoon she got mad at me because the guy fucked her! She finally calmed down,didn’t want to talk about it anymore and we haven’t.

She got three loads of white nectar, where’s the down side? Shes a whore, maybe her problem is she always was and now truth surfaced

 

[KevinNewell]

She got three loads of white nectar, where’s the down side? Shes a whore, maybe her problem is she always was and now truth surfaced

Nothing wrong with a woman who loves sex from as many men as she can get it from, why should we women be ashamed of loving sex and wanting to have lots of partners?

 

[paracufz]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

Once you clean her pussy after he has cum in it she will see the light.

 

[WifeAdmirer]

Hard to guarantee that,talked my wife isn’t it ,met a nice guy,he made her laugh,and she did it with us and orgasmed a lot and now she’s mad at me!

How long ago was this?

 

[andysmith]

some girls do regret it after they allow themselves to be shared the first time, but most get over it next time there is a chance

 

[Anon321]

You have to make sure that neither of you take the experience too seriously. It shouldn't really be seen as a big deal. It's not like you're the only guy she had sex with (I assume) and vice versa.

As far as regret, it's a natural emotion, so I don't think you can block it but you can control it. Keep in mind, the flip side of regretting the experience is also having regret to have never had tried the experience. Either way, there will be some level of regret whether you go through with it or not. But if you go through with it, you just have to control your own level of regret.

 

[thebeginner]

Hi all -
My wife is on the journey to let another guy fuck her with me. She is at the point where she is telling me what she wants to happen when we are having sex. She is pretty vanilla and shy IRL but I feel she will love it when it comes down to being fucked by two guys. I just worry that once she has gone down the path, one of us might regret it and there will not no "winding back". The idea of another guy making her cum and filling her is a massive turn on as I love it when she loses control with me....
Any tips?
George and Sarah x

As with most most things in life, you can't expect rewards without taking any risk. That said, you can reduce total disaster by ensuring you and your wife are on the same page with what you want, and what you expect. You'll also want to ensure the 'guy' to be aligned with what you and your wife want. Take your time and select the right person - it's not much different than regular dating. Best to meet first, have a drink/coffee before jumping in the sack. It can mean the difference between a great experience and wanting to continue, and ending it from the start. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

 

[Shesoaksu]

The regret won't be an issue. After it happens you'll fuck her like you never have before and you will both want more.

 

[thebeginner]

The regret won't be an issue. After it happens you'll fuck her like you never have before and you will both want more.

So true!