how to proceed

My wife in early 40s but looks in early 30s. very attractive. We have been amrried for 15 years. We have watched porn together . initially FMF which is not interested in . However she enjoys when one girl and multiple male partners including DP and IR gang bangs. She had a big black dildo that I use occasionally while watching porn. We have talked during sex if she would enjoy another dick and always says she like that. However after sex is done, all is back to where we started. Not sure if she is into role play alone or wants to experience another dick. what do you think
 
Remember men and women are different. she would do it all if aroused. She said so herself. Once her arousal has been satisfied she is again playing the role of faithful wife. So arousal is the first step to get her going. Be positive and make sure she knows your genuine interest and permission for her to do it and you love and admire her if she did.
 
Remember men and women are different. she would do it all if aroused. She said so herself. Once her arousal has been satisfied she is again playing the role of faithful wife. So arousal is the first step to get her going. Be positive and make sure she knows your genuine interest and permission for her to do it and you love and admire her if she did.

but what would I do next to know her real interest? She is not the open type
 
You need to get her talking. Do this by leading, talk yourself share and look up online info on talking to people and find out more about her and share your own ideas and she will share hers.
 
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You need to get her talking. Do this by leading, talk yourself share and look up online info on talking to people and find out more about her and share your own ideas and she will share hers.
I agree, communication is the only way to make it happen
 
Yes she will follow your lead if you do it right.
Remember context is all important. Go one step at a time and she will follow you there.
To protect her image she will need for you to make it happen for her in a way that she can follow without going too fast.
 
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We are into mfm with a guy we know pretty regularly now. We're not stingers at all. We are very conservative and normal. Early 50s. Long boring story on ow it all started but we've been into it for about 4 years off and on, same guy.
First times were fun I guess but awkward as hell, after it was quickly over wife cried and apologized to me over and over. But we kept doing it.
We got more and more comfy with him and enjoyed more each time.
My classy, upscale and conservative wife goes into full fuck slut mode when he's with us. She gets so turned on she wants sex all night, we take turns doing her and she gets hornier each session. Then she's on fire horny for a good week after.
She won't talk about what we (she) does when he's with us at all other than ... it's fun.
Looking back it's easy to see she was into the kink from the start but had (still does) some guilt feelings, I do too.