Husband wants me to see a older black gentleman

I think your husband is a wise man. He obviously loves you very much and knows that you would feel awkward with him being there. I believe that you would like him to be there so you were sure he was ok with it, again because you love him, his feelings are of paramount importance to you. My wife and I were like this at the start she really had to be convinced that I was ok with it. I managed to convince her and now after many times we love each other even more. I also believe your husband would be a bit uncomfortable being there for the first few times. You need to get to know this guy first. Meet a few times on your own and then progress to the bedroom. Then your boyfriend would be comfortable and then your husband could watch if that is what you both want. My wife started with her ex, she found this easier because they had been intimate before, mind you that was 20 years before. Good luck, I know you both will be richer for the experience, and love each other even more, as we do.
 
I think your husband is a wise man. He obviously loves you very much and knows that you would feel awkward with him being there. I believe that you would like him to be there so you were sure he was ok with it, again because you love him, his feelings are of paramount importance to you. My wife and I were like this at the start she really had to be convinced that I was ok with it. I managed to convince her and now after many times we love each other even more. I also believe your husband would be a bit uncomfortable being there for the first few times. You need to get to know this guy first. Meet a few times on your own and then progress to the bedroom. Then your boyfriend would be comfortable and then your husband could watch if that is what you both want. My wife started with her ex, she found this easier because they had been intimate before, mind you that was 20 years before. Good luck, I know you both will be richer for the experience, and love each other even more, as we do.

Thank you so much for your input! It really means a lot to me. What you have told is the same thing the gentleman I'm going to see has been telling me
 
I'm Gracelyn,
I'm twenty five, married for five years together for eight. About a year ago we bought a house. In the attic we found boxes of porn pictures, toys, videos, DVD and memory cards. We started looking and watching them and to our surprise a lot of the pictures and videos were taken in our house. Most of them are of four different young women and a half dozen older black men. In some there are young men sitting in a chair watching what's happening on the bed. After a couple of months of watching them my husband told me he had a fantasy of watching me do this. At first I didn't want anything to do with this.

After a month or so he told me that he had been going into forums talking with people about this. He is telling me that it's very common now.
Well? Are you still around???
 
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hi Gracelyn x

Thanks for sharing hunny, you are an inspiration x
I also just recently was blacked, it originally was my hubbys idea.
I like you, once the idea was put in my head became very aroused.
I'm glad to say the experience was AMAZING!!!! hubby watched and loved it too.
definitely doing it lots' more lol xx

hope your older bbc, looked after you well chick xx

Jules x
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hi Gracelyn x

Thanks for sharing hunny, you are an inspiration x
I also just recently was blacked, it originally was my hubbys idea.
I like you, once the idea was put in my head became very aroused.
I'm glad to say the experience was AMAZING!!!! hubby watched and loved it too.
definitely doing it lots' more lol xx

hope your older bbc, looked after you well chick xx

Jules x
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.... Lovely pic. Grace enjoy the first time... Ginger glad you got it done. Would like to know more
 
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I've been off the forum for a while, but I like how this started. I think it's really important that you're taking it upon yourself to look into it, because if it's going to be something you both enjoy, then you have to know what you're getting yourself into. Hopefully, there is an update, since this post was made a few months ago.
 
I did this for my husband. It was with a guy he met at a auto repair shop. He was the main mechanic there and did some work on my car. We all became friends and started hanging out together. One night we were drinking on our deck after dinner and I had way too much to drink. We went to bed, I remember Mike telling him our king size bed was big enough for 3. I don’t remember falling asleep, but I remember waking up to Derek, our older black friend, with his hand up my night shirt. It was the start of some fun times!
 
I did this for my husband. It was with a guy he met at a auto repair shop. He was the main mechanic there and did some work on my car. We all became friends and started hanging out together. One night we were drinking on our deck after dinner and I had way too much to drink. We went to bed, I remember Mike telling him our king size bed was big enough for 3. I don’t remember falling asleep, but I remember waking up to Derek, our older black friend, with his hand up my night shirt. It was the start of some fun times!

Would love to hear more.
 
Yes I have become very curious now! I'm a waitress and my husband comes in to the restaurant where I work on his day off to eat and hang out at the bar and watch sports. There is a fifty year old black gentleman that comes in and they have been talking
Would I appeal to you x
 
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