A really good friend of my husbands recognized me and I have no idea what to do. He has asked me not to say anything to my husband, which is probably for the best, but I’d feel guilty if I kept it from him. What should I do?!
Husbands friend recognized me…what to do?
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For me it does not matter we are an open couple if a friend seen me on a site and asked we’d ask him if he enjoyed the view or if he or them were interested. We have no secrets from each other. But you failed to answer the question. What would you want or expect your wife to do?
The answer is simple.
Walk up to him, push him against the wall. DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO SPEAK! Shut down any attempt he makes to utter a word.
Once you have that control, drop to your knees in front of him while at the same time yanking his pants down to his ankles.
Let him know that the first word spoken ends the scenario.
Release his cock while taking it into your hand. Massage and stroke it before flicking your tongue over the head. Give him a moment for the reality of this situation to sink in then take as much cock into your throat as you can handle. Let your head push his ass against the wall.
At this moment you own him. Don’t stop until you feel his seed releasing into your throat.
Before returning to your feet make sure you let him know that your pussy is available as long as he keeps his mouth silent.
Rise up to your feet, unbutton your blouse, then ask him if understands.
In that moment you control everything about him. Take his wallet if you want. I doubt he would object. In fact, if you search his wallet and find a condom, you make sure he sees you throw it away. Tell him he won’t be needing it.
Just about then he won’t know what to do or say so it’ll be up to you to fit his cock into your cunt.
Same rules, don’t allow him to speak under threat of ending this and walking away.
Have fun.
Walk up to him, push him against the wall. DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO SPEAK! Shut down any attempt he makes to utter a word.
Once you have that control, drop to your knees in front of him while at the same time yanking his pants down to his ankles.
Let him know that the first word spoken ends the scenario.
Release his cock while taking it into your hand. Massage and stroke it before flicking your tongue over the head. Give him a moment for the reality of this situation to sink in then take as much cock into your throat as you can handle. Let your head push his ass against the wall.
At this moment you own him. Don’t stop until you feel his seed releasing into your throat.
Before returning to your feet make sure you let him know that your pussy is available as long as he keeps his mouth silent.
Rise up to your feet, unbutton your blouse, then ask him if understands.
In that moment you control everything about him. Take his wallet if you want. I doubt he would object. In fact, if you search his wallet and find a condom, you make sure he sees you throw it away. Tell him he won’t be needing it.
Just about then he won’t know what to do or say so it’ll be up to you to fit his cock into your cunt.
Same rules, don’t allow him to speak under threat of ending this and walking away.
Have fun.
No, that just popped into my head.
However, I did have a married couple working for me many years ago. I found their swingers ad complete with pictures of her.
At the first opportunity I could arrange in my office I mentioned that to them. She looked horrified. He looked excited.
When she got up the nerve to ask what I was going to do with this new found information, my reply was simple… Depends on the two of you. I didn’t even wait for a response. I reached under her blouse and bra. At that moment it was more about seeing their reaction and to see how far and adventurous they were.
Once I saw her eyes close and his become focused, I didn’t hesitate.
After opening her blouse and guiding her to her knees the only words needed was “You know what to do “ she was sucking my cock in less than a minute.
I eventually bent her over her husband sitting inna chair and let my cock find her pussy. I didn’t pretend I was going to pull out. Didn’t ask if she was on birth control (though later found out she was not)
This and more went on for months before she told me she was pregnant. Wasn’t sure who the daddy was for quite some time but eventually realizing the boy had to be mine.
We fucked for years but she went on birth control. Though I am fairly certain I could have stopped that with little difficulty if I had wanted.
Interesting, I assume you are single as you avoid the your wife question. I have to say posting photos in a swing mag is the same as being at a swing club and run into someone you know a friend or someone from work. Do you hide, leave, or confront them. The first time is always awkward but in time as my husband says they are here for the same reason we are here so just go with it. After the third or fourth time I got used to it and went with what ever happens. It usually makes for new deeper friendships.
I’m actually separated waiting for divorce to finalize.
Years later when I was a restaurant manager I had a couple of servers that were VERY accommodating. One was married and husband knew about us. In fact, he helped set me up with his wife and watched the first time in my office. He and I stumbled on the conversation and before I knew I was asking if she would freak out over certain scenarios. His “ Let’s find out” reply was all I needed. He and I were already in my office when I called her to come in. Once I instructed her to close and lock the door I explained the conversation he and I had a few minutes earlier.
At that point I pointedly told her I wanted to see if this was true and how far she would let me go. She hesitated only a moment when I instructed her to open her blouse as I stood up in front of her. She looked at her husband who told her that I was the boss. Not him. She didn’t resist or hesitate that first kiss. Didn’t object when my hand found her breasts.
Knew exactly what to do when I guided her hand to my growing erection.
I wasn’t shy about telling her my intention was to fuck her then and there. I gave her ONE opportunity to object and stop but was adamant that once her panties dropped I was taking her hard and deep.
Those panties couldn’t come off her fast enough. When I finally plunged balls deep into her pussy I made sure BOTH of them knew this was now part of her job description.
Her showing up early for work became commonplace. When I went out of town for business or pleasure she was my traveling assistant.
Her husband once asked if I would start using condoms. So I took a few of them and poked holes in front of him. He got the message. She stated to him that was the reaction she expected. Then left them on the table as we drove off for the weekend.
Just to emphasize my position I made her call him after I pumped her full of seed that evening just to let him know.
Nice story I thank any wife or couple in the lifestyle would be up for this type of play.
But you still avoid the question? Would you encourage your wife. Soon to be ex wife or what ever to do the things you are encouraging others to do! That’s all my question was. I understand how the relationships are with others. You also seem obsessed with the condom or no condom issue but perhaps it’s a man thing. I have to say no condom has ever entered my body but that is my choice.
But you still avoid the question? Would you encourage your wife. Soon to be ex wife or what ever to do the things you are encouraging others to do! That’s all my question was. I understand how the relationships are with others. You also seem obsessed with the condom or no condom issue but perhaps it’s a man thing. I have to say no condom has ever entered my body but that is my choice.
I ask about condoms so I can prepare accordingly but prefer without as well.
As for my wife, she doesn’t play but that is her choice. I would never stop her.
That’s a longer conversation but she has years of trauma she is still dealing with. I avoid the longer answer until I know people better.
No worries the conversation has been interesting and I’ve enjoyed it. Thank you. 💋
Too many forget this is NOT necessarily about the Bull/guy. Though I definitely lean towards the Dominant side and I do enjoy playing with another man’s wife, if it’s not fun for everyone then it probably isn’t fun for anyone.
Finding that right balance is just as much fun as as getting into her panties.
I am probably older than quite a few on here.
Yes if it’s not fun for everyone then what the purpose. Of course the reason is sex for everyone. I would suspect you are a mature individuals based on the conversation. We too are a mature experienced couple have enjoyed the swinging lifestyle most of our married years.
Yes if it’s not fun for everyone then what the purpose. Of course the reason is sex for everyone. I would suspect you are a mature individuals based on the conversation. We too are a mature experienced couple have enjoyed the swinging lifestyle most of our married years.
Please try to restrain from calling me “mature”.
I refuse to grow up unless I REALLY have to. Playtime is definitely not one of those times. lol
You sound like you have experience and knowledge earned over the years. The part of your reply that I highlighted seems to be a lost consideration and reason many of these relationships ultimately fail. You can't be oblivious to the experience of ALL those participating (in whatever form that is).
The most obvious example is when a wife has continued a long term sexual relation that results in insecurity in the husband. How can a wife truly have as much fun as possible knowing it hurts her husband? Sure, she has her fun but at a cost to her husband's issues. Obviously it would be best if everyone involved were sensitive to the dynamic and how it affects each of the players.
Unfortunately, that isn't often the case. Far too often the blanket immunity of NRE is the excuse provided for missteps. A truly loving wife should be able to immediately identify what her husband is getting out of the deal and undeniably know if he is truly happy with the arrangement. When a wife is ignorant of her husband's needs and comfort then the bond between them will suffer. The bull/lover/FWB can be helpful to minimize this stress but ultimately the greater share of the blame will fall to the wife.
As you said, "If it's not fun for everyone, then it probably isn't fun for anyone!" It's easy to identify when it's fun for the wife and her lover. It isn't as simply identified or verifiable that the husband is having fun. That would require checking in on the husband, listening to his concerns, and acting upon them. That seems to be the stumbling block, especially when things evolve and escalate between the wife and her lover.
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