HUSBANDS HOW MANY OF YOU ARE BOTTOMS NOW?

We were right of the verge of meeting a guy off here. Then she got a medical problem so we decided to leave it until she felt better. If not I'd have become a full blown slut by now. She's already been training me, making me eat my own cum. She folds my legs over my head and fucks me with toys as she milks my cock towards my mouth. Then now after a few times of doing that, she can see how I've not only become desensitised to it, but I'm actually reaching for it now when I'm gonna cum! Making sure I get it all like a little cum slut. She can't wait to dress me up in some daft lacey stuff and hand me to a guy or guys and sit back and watch me get truly demasculated and used as a cum rag. I'm so eager I'm dripping as soon as I think about it. Now my pants are all slimy.
Totally agree! The true demasculation Scene you describe would be wonderful as my wife and others watch
 
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Oh yes, it's so liberating surrendering to a real mans big cock like a little sissy panty wearing faggot. (a little abuse is hot too) I love the release I feel by not having to be the man in charge all the time. I think it's really mentally healthy too.
You comment about the mental and emotional relief of being submissive and dominated and a bit humiliated in front of your love is amazing
 
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Mostly I just share it on here so hopefully other guys might get insights about their own feelings and be better able to sort them out and understand themselves better, plus it's really nice sharing with other like minded guys. After all it's not something we can discuss with our friends over lunch. 😁 And it might help guys that are confused to know other guys feel the same.
 
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I had always a consious or unconsious curiosity in gay sex and the fact that my girlfriend cheated on me and that this evolved in a cuckold-relationship made me discover more and more my gay side. She did awake my gay-interests in starting to finger me when we had sex and make me admit that I liked this. She made me also taste my own cum through making out with me after I had cum in her mouth and tease me also about this that she thought/noticed tha I liked this. It went further with using one of her dildo's on me and it became obvious for us to buy a strap-on. Our sexlife shifted more and more that I satisfied her orally and that she pleased me with the strap-on. I suggested that we woud try chastity for me because I thought it made my sexual role towards her more acceptable and also psychologically to me how awkwards this can sound. I also started to have less ans less erections with these practices changing my sexual wiring apparently. This got me worried and gave me a feeling of guilt towards her not satisfying her in a more classic way of PIV. I apologised and talked with her about this but she reassured me that she liked our dynamic and that she had wonderfull orgasms me licking her and using one of her dildo's on her. In the mean time I could not cum anymore without having something up my ass. This dynamic went on for almost 2 years and we lived quite in harmony. Then she got more distant towards me and also wanted to have more conventional PIV-sex again what did not really work anymore although I made quite an effort to satisfy her. Viagra did help but I got PE even though my penis did not get particularly hard anymore. One day she even bought a fleshlight for me so that I could train my penis when she was not home or abroad for her job. Anyway she started to get more distant towards me and teasing me that I would maybe better try something with a guy being unable to satisfy a woman anyway. Some time later she suggested me if I did not want to try to have some real gaysex with one of her gay friends, that up to her thought I was cute... I did not say much about this but two weeks later on a weekend when she was abroad for her job guess who was on our doorstep... she simply aranged this. Her plan worked and I enjoyed it. The guy that was one of her best friends also told her almost eveything what we did. I think that she had a already a lover and making me have a first real gay encounyter made it more easy and acceptable for her to date (real) men. In the mean time I am a total bottom and love it... :)
 
I’ve been a bottom since my boarding school days (a very long time ago now) so not as a result of this lifestyle though it does compliment it.
I have topped as well but really I’m not that into fucking other guys, Id much rather fuck a woman. But I love taking a cock in my ass. Big turn off for my first wife but luckily Lynn loves to see it.
James
Never happened to me but wish it would!
 
I am!

I had always a consious or unconsious curiosity in gay sex and the fact that my girlfriend cheated on me and that this evolved in a cuckold-relationship made me discover more and more my gay side. She did awake my gay-interests in starting to finger me when we had sex and make me admit that I liked this. She made me also taste my own cum through making out with me after I had cum in her mouth and tease me also about this that she thought/noticed tha I liked this. It went further with using one of her dildo's on me and it became obvious for us to buy a strap-on. Our sexlife shifted more and more that I satisfied her orally and that she pleased me with the strap-on. I suggested that we woud try chastity for me because I thought it made my sexual role towards her more acceptable and also psychologically to me how awkwards this can sound. I also started to have less ans less erections with these practices changing my sexual wiring apparently. This got me worried and gave me a feeling of guilt towards her not satisfying her in a more classic way of PIV. I apologised and talked with her about this but she reassured me that she liked our dynamic and that she had wonderfull orgasms me licking her and using one of her dildo's on her. In the mean time I could not cum anymore without having something up my ass. This dynamic went on for almost 2 years and we lived quite in harmony. Then she got more distant towards me and also wanted to have more conventional PIV-sex again what did not really work anymore although I made quite an effort to satisfy her. Viagra did help but I got PE even though my penis did not get particularly hard anymore. One day she even bought a fleshlight for me so that I could train my penis when she was not home or abroad for her job. Anyway she started to get more distant towards me and teasing me that I would maybe better try something with a guy being unable to satisfy a woman anyway. Some time later she suggested me if I did not want to try to have some real gaysex with one of her gay friends, that up to her thought I was cute... I did not say much about this but two weeks later on a weekend when she was abroad for her job guess who was on our doorstep... she simply aranged this. Her plan worked and I enjoyed it. The guy that was one of her best friends also told her almost eveything what we did. I think that she had a already a lover and making me have a first real gay encounyter made it more easy and acceptable for her to date (real) men. In the mean time I am a total bottom and love it... :)
 
My husband is a bottom when the oportunity presents itself. Normally we just find guys for me and he will watch/wait his turn/join in. Some of our regular male friends are BI so he gets to play with them as well. He is not really attracted to males or would even consider making out with another male but he does like sucking and having a guy slide into him. Really into anal. He likes when i slide a dildo in him while we are having sex. Also likes eating cum out of me when possible. Nothing really over the top but it works for us and it's fun.
Sounds like he has adapted very well. This makes you a very desirable couple for a Bull.