I’m dying to watch my wife with another man

I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
If she is attracted to the guy next time just tell her she can get his number and let her enjoy the journey on her own time, regardless enjoy her when she gets horny !!!!!
 
I love how dude's say that on here but that's just not how a lot of women work.

It's not usually as simple as "she's interested or she's not." Women are complex creatures and seem to often have conflicting feelings around this sort of thing. Part of them may want it, but they may also be feeling guilt, worrying about potential consequences to the relationship or just fear taking the plunge into a strange and unknown lifestyle.

At the same time, women are also not typically as sex-driven as men. Many nights I'll want sex but my wife is tired, not really horny and kind of reluctantly lets me feel her up while she watches the news - then at some point, she starts to get horny, we start having sex and next thing you know she's riding me to orgasm, wants me to pull her hair and pound her from behind, then after I cum, she needs me to go down on her because, after already having two orgasms, she "got horny again" from me cumming in her. Yet, if I had just been passive and left her alone to wait until she was "interested" it would be a month before we had sex and we'd both miss out on many great nights of satisfaction. I can also tell you, she's in a much better mood the day after a good fucking.

On the flip side, there have been zero times when my wife came looking for sex and I told her I was too tired.

I know my wife is very turned on by the fantasy but she has all kinds of hangups and fears about making it a reality that may be acting against her interest. She also just has less drive for sexual adventure but has thanked me for pushing her to be adventurous and keeping our sex lives exciting.

Given how far your wife went already, I think she maybe just wasn't ready to go all the way the first time. You should talk about it during sex, give her positive reinforcement, show her how much it turned you on. Then probably you just need to create the right situation where she can be more adventurous again. Vacations always seem to loosen the inhibitions.
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I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
Let it be her choice and natural 👍
 
Does she ever mention attraction to other men? If so, that's an opening to expand the subject.
Do you watch porn together? Talk about the men in the porn, encourage her input on them.
During heated sexual moments, talk about how hot you are thinking of her with this guy or that guy.
If you get a comfort level with the subject you might make progress. Be patient and don't be needy, she needs to warm up to the idea according to her own desires.
 
Does she ever mention attraction to other men? If so, that's an opening to expand the subject.
Do you watch porn together? Talk about the men in the porn, encourage her input on them.
During heated sexual moments, talk about how hot you are thinking of her with this guy or that guy.
If you get a comfort level with the subject you might make progress. Be patient and don't be needy, she needs to warm up to the idea according to her own desires.
Keep.giving her positive renarks. Get her to dress sexybwhen you two.go.out. when she goes shopping etc get her to waer tight jeans heels.when your out complement her tell.her you saw a guy checking her out..In time you will.have a sexy wife that will.be going out dreesed a little more extreme..Then hopefully shecwill.take the step and go.out neeting a guy followed ny her getting well.fucked and coming home to tell.you That she just got well fucked and whats to do.it again
 
I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
wow is she kissed he and he fingered her - just tell her that you are already a cuckold - lick her pussy clean every time you fuck her and say I will lick your pussy clean every time you fuck other cock. She needs to know that you will be there after she fucks other cocks - that she can fuck any cock she wants 1on1 or 3way.
 
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I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
Keep.taking her out..Get her to wear sexy outfits store shopping etc let her know how sexy she is . TELLher not only guys were checking her out buteven women are commenting non her looks
 
I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
My wife and I used to talk "fantasy" like "IF you ever were to screw someone else, who do we know you would like".... just a game for like 3 years after we married. Once we were playing this on vacation at a town where an old friend of hers lived. She mentioned him again. The next day we did not say anything special about him, but just decided to call and ask if he wanted to visit us at the hotel. Hang out at the pool, etc. After a while said go back to room to clean up and change. There she jokingly asked him if they should save water and shower together. He laughed but also went along as she took him to the shower, to his total surprise. After a while in shower they came out naked. She pulled him (by his dick) over to bed, sat down on it, and started sucking him, then laid back naked on the bed and pulled him on top.

We never actually discussed anything like this happening for real , just always fantasy. And that day in the hotel, She never talked about, I never talked about, and certainly her friend never talked about them having sex. But there it was, not ever talking about it, he was fucking her brains out. We still NEVER actually have talked about me being a cuckold, but now after 20 years he still screws her several times a year. Even though we never talk about anything cuckold, I get to watch often, always lick her clean, and sometimes when needed I fluff him up for another screw. So my point is that maybe you do NOT need to discuss it overtly with your wife, just let it happen and be her cuckold. The only thing ever actually directly said was when he had secretly told me once that he had always had the Hots for my wife because she is Japanese. Still he wound up fucking her dozens of times now. Always been secret except with one of her best friends, plus her mother knows.
 
My wife and I used to talk "fantasy" like "IF you ever were to screw someone else, who do we know you would like".... just a game for like 3 years after we married. Once we were playing this on vacation at a town where an old friend of hers lived. She mentioned him again. The next day we did not say anything special about him, but just decided to call and ask if he wanted to visit us at the hotel. Hang out at the pool, etc. After a while said go back to room to clean up and change. There she jokingly asked him if they should save water and shower together. He laughed but also went along as she took him to the shower, to his total surprise. After a while in shower they came out naked. She pulled him (by his dick) over to bed, sat down on it, and started sucking him, then laid back naked on the bed and pulled him on top.

We never actually discussed anything like this happening for real , just always fantasy. And that day in the hotel, She never talked about, I never talked about, and certainly her friend never talked about them having sex. But there it was, not ever talking about it, he was fucking her brains out. We still NEVER actually have talked about me being a cuckold, but now after 20 years he still screws her several times a year. Even though we never talk about anything cuckold, I get to watch often, always lick her clean, and sometimes when needed I fluff him up for another screw. So my point is that maybe you do NOT need to discuss it overtly with your wife, just let it happen and be her cuckold. The only thing ever actually directly said was when he had secretly told me once that he had always had the Hots for my wife because she is Japanese. Still he wound up fucking her dozens of times now. Always been secret except with one of her best friends, plus her mother knows.
That's a great story. Super hot. Thanks for sharing.

P.s. and love asian hotwives
 
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My wife and I used to talk "fantasy" like "IF you ever were to screw someone else, who do we know you would like".... just a game for like 3 years after we married. Once we were playing this on vacation at a town where an old friend of hers lived. She mentioned him again. The next day we did not say anything special about him, but just decided to call and ask if he wanted to visit us at the hotel. Hang out at the pool, etc. After a while said go back to room to clean up and change. There she jokingly asked him if they should save water and shower together. He laughed but also went along as she took him to the shower, to his total surprise. After a while in shower they came out naked. She pulled him (by his dick) over to bed, sat down on it, and started sucking him, then laid back naked on the bed and pulled him on top.

We never actually discussed anything like this happening for real , just always fantasy. And that day in the hotel, She never talked about, I never talked about, and certainly her friend never talked about them having sex. But there it was, not ever talking about it, he was fucking her brains out. We still NEVER actually have talked about me being a cuckold, but now after 20 years he still screws her several times a year. Even though we never talk about anything cuckold, I get to watch often, always lick her clean, and sometimes when needed I fluff him up for another screw. So my point is that maybe you do NOT need to discuss it overtly with your wife, just let it happen and be her cuckold. The only thing ever actually directly said was when he had secretly told me once that he had always had the Hots for my wife because she is Japanese. Still he wound up fucking her dozens of times now. Always been secret except with one of her best friends, plus her mother knows.
This is probably how it would happen with my wife, if it ever does. We've talked enough about the fantasy and she has reluctantly admitted it does turn her on. I think she just needs the right environment / situation for it to happen, which is probably, on vacation. There is little chance though that we could have some practical conversation about planning for it to happen.
 
Feel your pain...worst part for me is that I'm aware of my wife's cheating, even seeing texts/pics but can't get her to agree to being shared or even give me a good show. Granted, I've gotten teasers through the years at random times when we've been out drinking, clubbing or house parties and shes gotten frisky, but never full on planned out.
 
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I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
Sexy
 
I’ve been super into the thought of my wife with another man. She knows this and we talk about it somewhat often. We got really close while on vacation but she got cold feet at the last minute.

She danced with a guy, made out with him, and he even fingered him but when it was time to go back to the room she couldn’t go through with it. We ended up having great sex but I really wanted to see her with another man.

How do I get her over the hump?
Fingered him? Or he was fingering her?
 
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