I don't know what to call this.

[Myprobe1991]

This is probably going to be a long intro to a easy answer but here goes.
My wife and I have "dabbled" in the hotwife lifestyle and its been fun. Not a lot has happened but recently I was laid off. I got a good severance so I am.not hurting for money or feeling anxious in any way but, it has always been a rule if you arent working you take care of the domestic chores.....cooking, cleaning and whatnots. We I have always like domestic work anyway, there is something cathartic to me about washing an drying dishes, folding laundry etc... Well not long ago, my wife said she was gonna take a bath and I said jokingly, at first, I wanna shave your legs. She agreed but wanted to wait until she was done actually cleaning up. She send me a text and I came in. I shaved her legs and had a really great time doing it. I kinda felt like I was serving her like a servant or I dunno what to call it. I wound up getting her off in the tub and it was insanely hot for me. Her too I suppose. I know she normally wants to reciprocate whenever I get her off and I am usually quite happy to accept but, after it was all over, rather than wait for her to offer, I rinsed her legs off and gave then a good rub to ensure I got everything, got up gave her a kiss and left. It was incredibly erotic to me. I really seem to enjoy being a "domestic servant" if that is even the right term for it. But now I have been thinking about cock cages and various ways to kind of give her a sense of control over me but I am not wanting to be degraded or anything like that. I wanna be I guess like a butler or something to her? I have no idea what to call it so I am asking here.
Is this a cuckold thing or and I making a kink out of something that isn't there?
Thanks for any responses

 

[clandestino]

Maybe you don’t need to call it or label it anything specific. Instead, go with the flow and try things out to discover what you and her get turned on by. Maybe you want to think of yourself as her “boy toy” for her pleasure sometimes…..

 

[DougBrown69]

Maybe you don’t need to call it or label it anything specific. Instead, go with the flow and try things out to discover what you and her get turned on by. Maybe you want to think of yourself as her “boy toy” for her pleasure sometimes…..

Great advice. Down with the labels. They’re a disservice to individual uniqueness.

 

[stubbyhubby]

Being a cuckold doesn't mean you have to like being degraded. I don't like personal degradation, but I do enjoy SPH. Everyone has their own twist that does it for them. There are guys that like to "reclaim" their wife after another guy fucks her, while others jerk off while sharing her, and still others (like me) who don't get to fuck her or cum at all. Some guys won't clean while others (like me) can't wait to clean. Some guys want condoms while others are OK with bareback as long as he pulls out while others (also like me lol) prefer bareback and no pulling out. Different strokes. Do what makes you happy.

 

[NMlover]

It's called being a wonderful husband and thoughtful lover. I keep my wife shaved. She says it's my job since I enjoy it and do a great job checking my work. I love when others get to appreciate my efforts as much as I do. The men love her smooth pussy and legs while she gets to be the center of attention. I like doing household chores when I'm off work. I feel accomplished and a bit of pride in my work.

 

[Cpl4bd]

Definitely take of your wife/goddess...she deserves it an your having fun at it.
There are no labels....

 

[Stevens4fun]

Others will disagree, I'm sure, but my view is that you don't need cages and the issues that come with them - she can just tell you that you won't be in her any more, unless she requests it. It 'kinda sounds like you want her to take more control over your access to her and maybe your ejaculations. Sounds like fun to me! Shaving her legs (and hopefully her pussy) while knowing you can't be in it unless she invites you sounds like exquisite denial!

 

[owlmale]

being denied becomes very hard to accept but at the same time in turns me on knowing it`s not mine to have.

 

[Locked]

...I have been thinking about cock cages...

For us the cock cage is not degrading at all, it's another sign of love and we both love it when I am locked.
Just have in mind the feeling of attempted erection inside the cage is addictive.
We started slow with the cage around 3 years ago, but now I am 24/7 locked and pussy free.
And that's not because my wife insisted a lot on this, I really like being locked and serving her only orally.
Don't fall for the thought that you like sex and you are not giving it up. I had the same thoughts 3 years ago.
I enjoy being denied more than I expected so I asked her to keep me locked for longer and longer and at some point we both kinda agreed this should be forever. First time she said she will never unlock me - I came inside the cage without stimulation.