I don't like the guy my wife fucked last night

[Caringcuck]

My wife enjoys spontaneity and told me she wanted to pick a guy up together and bring him home. We've been going out more than usual to find a guy she likes. Last night, it finally happened.

She saw a guy she thought was very attractive so she talked to him at the bar while I waited at the table. They flirted and drank for almost an hour before she brought him over to me. I instantly wasn't a big fan of his. I found him too cocky (no pun intended). He annoyed me but I could see why my wife was interested. He was a good looking dude.

He came home with us and didn't waste any time undressing my wife. He was very dominate sexually (which my wife likes) but he felt the need to be dominant over me as well. He kept saying things like "I'm fucking your wife better than you ever could bro" and "watch a man fuck your wife bro" (yes, he used the word bro as a punctuation constantly). I could plainly see how much my wife was enjoying him, I didn't need the running commentary.

I spoke with my wife afterward about my dislike for this guy. She agreed with everything I said and agreed to never fuck him again if I didn't want her to. She also brought up the point that it's purely physical. That his looks will be the only thing she ever finds appealing. So while he believes himself to be the alpha male, it's me that she loves. She said she wants to keep him around because of his looks, cock, and hard style of fucking. However, she'll forget about him if I say the word. I told her I'll think about it.

Am I being too sensitive? How important is it that I get along with the stud cock? He didn't cross any lines other than being an annoying douche so is that enough?

 

[2wheel]

It's a team sport - all must have a comfort level - obviously you don't and that should call the game with him.

 

[ntcuck]

I love being in the same room with my wife and another guy. At times we have all been in action together and other times I would rather take a break and watch her playing the part of a little slut (she loves that name btw) I don't suffer the jealousy of another cock using her in the way that they wish. She is proud of the fact that she has 3 available holes to be used. Even having 2 inside of her pussy at the same time. In my opinion to make this work both of us males need to be on the same level. As stated I have no issue with sitting back and letting another male play the part of a bull and me watching like a good little cuck. I just refuse to allow myself to be verbally abused. If they would go there I would have no issues with escorting him from the room immediately. Thankfully my wife is in total agreement.
We set up an encounter once that sounded extremely erotic until this new partner mentioned that I would need to be put in a dress with lipstick and tied to a chair and made to watch. It was instantly game over for him. She cancelled the meeting in seconds.
To sum up my thoughts. THIS is supposed to be a fun adventure for all. If either partner is uncomfortable then it is unhealthy

 

[Cristobal1493]

You are not being too sensitive. Guy sounds like a total douche. It may have been best to establish upfront that the dynamic between you & your wife doesn't include the whole "Cuck humiliation" thing. Lesson learned.

Could be that he'd played with another couple before who did that and he was just being presumptuous about you two.

If you decide to let her keep him around I'd say:
(1) You meet for drinks and you BOTH tell him that that crap is unacceptable and it happens again the deal ends and he's already on strike two. All his "Alpha" (cough:BULLSHIT) is meaningless if you have veto, which it sounds like (which is smart, imho).
(2) Not sure your style of play but if I had that type of experience with a 3rd I would NEVER give my consent for my wife to solo with that guy. Every time mfm, no exceptions. You have to be able to trust people and trust has to be earned. He's far from that point.

 

[Openandready69]

Say goodbye to this loser before a bad situation develops

 

[Thickbull]

Say goodbye to this loser before a bad situation develops[/QUOTE

Totally agree.
That's not the kind of bull or guy you want to have around.

 

[Openandready69]

I couldn't agree more.Lynn

 

[manfor1]

You should fucked him in his ass and said (now we are Bor's)!!!!

 

[2wheel]

Give him his walking papers.

 

[xxxcouplexxx]

It has to work for both of you....if it doesn't then move on until you find someone that does

 

[Uk_luva]

It's a joint adventure that you both need to enjoy.
You're allowing him to play with your wife, so he should show some respect and appreciation of the situation.

I know some cuck couples enjoy the domination and humiliation, but if it's not on your radar then don't take it.

'Sorry bro, but this is an exit, please use it, bro!'

 

[Memyselfnu1962]

I agree with all before me! I'm an Alpha male myself, HOWEVER I'd never presume that because your wife wants to be with me that you're not alpha enough for her. Since you've talked then she knows his cock ISN'T a reason to keep him around!

 

[BikerBill]

The guy is an ass, I would have pulled him off my wife by the balls & thrown him out the door.

 

[InstantAngel85]

Like it's been said you are both involved in this and if one person isn't happy you should be able to voice it and she should respect your opinion as with anything between a couple.

Not to support the bull at all but maybe he was mistaken in what you wanted as well. Maybe he felt you were a cuck and wanted to be degraded as some often do. If you find your wife wanting him again perhaps try talking to him and telling him where he needs to be in all of this.

 

[NaughtyLA2]

The fact you sat at table watching while she chatted him up perhaps wrongly gave him the impression that you're into the humiliation aspect of things, and unless he's a mind-reader, he was never given the opportunity to adjust his behavior.

Talk to him directly (NOT via wife), explain that you're not interested in that sort of play, and base your decision on his reaction. If he apologises and seems sincere, I'd give him a second chance.

 

[cucktrix]

In the first place, why were you so offended that he called you "bro"? I dont think "bro" is an offensive word at all. Well if you're not comfortable with him, cut him loose, but I think you're being overly sensitive. The whole point of cuckolding is to satisfy the wife rather than your own sensitive feelings. Maybe you should take it easy with that guy, if your wife is okay with him, & you're not letting her fuck him again because you're not, that is just selfish. Grow up man

 

[Mr Deadbird]

There's plenty of fish in the sea... Find a better one

 

[2B13RFUN]

No. You are best off being shed of him. You are just important, MORE important, in the relationship. Big dicks are out there, he's not that special.

To be fair, he may have been paying too much attention to pornographic sites that tell "bulls" what to do. Or he's just a knobhead. Who knows. Delete him.

 

[zekethegeek]

I would not mind being talked to that way because then I would have had that humiliation experience that I would be craving. But, that is no reason for the other guy to act like a "dick" if it is overstepping boundaries that you are not comfortable with. I agree that talking this out with your wife and getting communicative about all your feelings is the way to go so that you are both on the same page and have the same understanding. Good luck. I hope it works itself out for the two of you.

 

[BLK4MWF_kik]

My wife enjoys spontaneity and told me she wanted to pick a guy up together and bring him home. We've been going out more than usual to find a guy she likes. Last night, it finally happened.

She saw a guy she thought was very attractive so she talked to him at the bar while I waited at the table. They flirted and drank for almost an hour before she brought him over to me. I instantly wasn't a big fan of his. I found him too cocky (no pun intended). He annoyed me but I could see why my wife was interested. He was a good looking dude.

He came home with us and didn't waste any time undressing my wife. He was very dominate sexually (which my wife likes) but he felt the need to be dominant over me as well. He kept saying things like "I'm fucking your wife better than you ever could bro" and "watch a man fuck your wife bro" (yes, he used the word bro as a punctuation constantly). I could plainly see how much my wife was enjoying him, I didn't need the running commentary.

I spoke with my wife afterward about my dislike for this guy. She agreed with everything I said and agreed to never fuck him again if I didn't want her to. She also brought up the point that it's purely physical. That his looks will be the only thing she ever finds appealing. So while he believes himself to be the alpha male, it's me that she loves. She said she wants to keep him around because of his looks, cock, and hard style of fucking. However, she'll forget about him if I say the word. I told her I'll think about it.

Am I being too sensitive? How important is it that I get along with the stud cock? He didn't cross any lines other than being an annoying douche so is that enough?

It's sad that some people take the lifestyle and those involved in it as living outside the social norms and therefore I don't have to respect you. It's bullshit. Simply because most divorces involve a third party and the divorce rate is at an all-time high and the marriage rate is at an all-time low. People can't wrap their minds around a man and/ or a woman loving each other and yet being brutally/ openly honest about our appetites as sexual beings and sharing them. Also, slot of men are ego driven beings and grow up learning that the penis is a weapon of mass destruction as opposed to being a tool of pleasure. Sorry for your ordeal. Hopefully you'll find the right person next time