I Hope She’s Almost There

[Yoda66]

So, this is the real deal and it may take some time to get there or see that I just need to let it go. It’s particularly easy to read my wife because she rarely speaks in definitives.

I finally just told her that I want to start with a threesome but my goal is to see her fucked by another guy. I told her it turns me on because I like to see her pleasured. Her very first response was, “How far is too far?” Then she said that she knew it was a fantasy of mine.

She wavered between “No way” to maybe flirting with someone again and seeing where it went, but it needed to be organic and not set up. What?! What is she saying?

Well, I just put the ball back in her court because when I told her my outright desire, I mentioned contacting the guy who kissed her in the corner of a dark bar several months ago. I told her that he had given me his contact that night. She was shocked (of course I’ve been communicating with him). This time I reached out to him in front of her and pretended to just see if the contact was legit because I was remembering the time we met him. He responded and asked if we wanted to meet up for drinks.

I told her about his response and I said I would tell him to forget about it if she wanted me to do that. We were busy preparing dinner and she didn’t answer but giggled. I told her she can tell me how to respond later tonight.

I think this will tell me where it’s going from here. We will see.

 

[Yoda66]

Well, the guy she met and kissed in a dark bar a few months sent a text to me two days ago (same guy referenced above). He offered to meet and have drinks. She now knows I’m texting with him. It has never gone this far before in terms her participation and knowledge. As you’ll see, she isn’t clearly dismissing it.

HotAsianWife might be right in the end, but we are down to this make it or break it. She knows what I want, she knows the guy she kissed is interested in meeting, she knows we are texting. She now knows we need to answer. Here’s how it went down so far.

I asked her 2 days ago when I got the text if she wanted me to just say, “No, thank you” and delete the messages between us. She was silent. I asked her again but more like a statement, “I’m just going to tell him no thanks.” She stopped me and said, “You don’t have to answer him now. You don’t have to answer him tomorrow.” I stated that the guy deserves an answer, and she said, “Just wait.” I asked why should I wait, if we are going to tell him no anyway. She didn’t respond. I let the silent soak in and didn’t ask again.

Tonight I’m going to just tell her that I’m accepting his offer to meet because if we are “waiting” that means she is thinking about it. If she’s thinking about it, why not just meet and she still has options on how far she goes, etc.

She can give an affirmative no, or choose to meet and decide then how far to go (remember, she asked me how far is too far before). We will see.

 

[penc1ld1kt]

Disclaimer that I'm miles from being cucked so am not experienced in that regard.

The fact she's not shutting it down is a very good sign. I would interpret the "How far is too far?" questiin as a gauge of your limits and whether they match hers. Optimistically this means she's prepared to go all the way but wants to make sure you're on board. Pessimistically, she has limits and hopes yours are similar.

 

[Yoda66]

Disclaimer that I'm miles from being cucked so am not experienced in that regard.

The fact she's not shutting it down is a very good sign. I would interpret the "How far is too far?" questiin as a gauge of your limits and whether they match hers. Optimistically this means she's prepared to go all the way but wants to make sure you're on board. Pessimistically, she has limits and hopes yours are similar.

Thanks. Yours was very enlightening comments. I appreciate it.

 

[Yoda66]

After a good fuck, I told her I was contacting the guy (who kissed her and felt her up before) and telling him that we will meet him for drinks. Several days ago she had told me not to turn him down or delete his contact because he doesn’t need an answer right then. See previous post.

She asked, “What if I don’t agree?” I said we don’t have to do it, just let me know. I told her I assumed she at least was interested in meeting him for drinks because she told me not to answer him with a “no” a few days ago.

She was silent and I told her that I could tell him that there was no guarantee that more would happen than previously. She was silent. I then asked if she understood that I was going to ask. She was silent. I then said that I’d tell him no since she wasn’t responding to me and I’m cool with it. She responded with, “Wait.” She then said, “But, if you want to.” I said I do.

So, I sent a text telling him and we are planning another meeting. I’ll update when it happens. Also hoping she goes beyond making out and being “felt up” this time.

 

[penc1ld1kt]

Super cool! Will be interesting to hear what things are like in the lead up to the meeting. I guess if she's horny as he'll that's a good sign.

Hopefully she is keen for some new cock but doesn't want to appear to eager. Most likely she doesn't want to admit it, even to herself.

Of course I look at it as a male with a cuck fetish so that's kind of how I want it to be and one should always proceed with caution when trying to read the female mind!

Hopefully it's a great experience for all three of toy.

 

[Ferox80]

Any updates?