Hello there! I've been talking into cuckolding to my gf for about year and a half. She knows exactly what i want (i told her, i send pictures and videos, its a recurring theme during sex (by my part), used dildos which she enjoy but never ask for....she prefers mine), her habitual reaction is smiling/laughing, she is cool with it but doesn't have any hurge or desire to proceed.....I've done some progress but in the end all ends up with a "I prefer yours" or "I don't need more"...We have great sex but she is not especially sexual tbh. What can I do? (Saying don't satisfy her is a shitty piece of advice....)
I prefer yours
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Well see what is her fantasy? What she desires? I mean for sure she got some kind of fantasy or kink. Ofcourse she will say i dont need more maybe she dont want to hurt you but im sure women just like men want more even if its for once.
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You could ask her to try it for you, to please you and see how she likes it and if she wants to do it again
I agree with the comment above, everybody's got a little kinky streak in them 😉
Role play a little and find out her wild sides.
First off, is she even into the role play when you guys have sex? If shes not, then you continuing to push that is probably off putting and her way of saying "hey i'm not interested" is by saying youre enough.
If she's matching your energy then personally i'd lighten the role play a bit instead and just tell her how her using her dildo is turning you on or how hot she looks. Make it about the two of you and not trying to forse a role play scenario with a third until shes more comfortable with using a toy.
Then and only then when shes more comfortable you start to slowly creep in little comments without pushing hard like "you look so good fucking that cock" or "do you ever think it was a real cock". A one liner and nothing else until shes actually okay and matching your energy.
edit: why does me typing "F O R C E" turn into "F O R S E" ??
This is pretty much how most women will react to our desire to see them with others. My Asian wife is exactly the same. She indulged my desire a few times and really didn't enjoy it. Now we are back where we started and where you are now. The only difference is that we have proof that she prefers mine and I've seen firsthand why. The other guys were either too big, too rough, or lasted too long. I've accepted it. I would suggest either accept it, or move on to another one woman who will indulge you. But be careful what you wish for!
Before my wife and I were married she had dated quite a lot. It was not surprising to me, as she was a rare beauty with a really pleasant and engaging personality. Men just liked to be with her, and she liked being with men.
Somehow I managed to win my way into her heart, and we were subsequently married--and have been for many years now. But I was always fascinated by her experiences with other men and would often ask her to tell me about them when we made love. Eventually I found myself drawn to the idea of seeing her with another man. I knew one of my closest friends had always wanted to bed her, and approached him about trying to seduce her. At the same time, during pillow-talk with my wife, I began mentioning how much I'd enjoy seeing her pleasuring my friend. She proved reluctant for some while, but eventually agreed to ...... with him. That began an on-and-off series of trysts that lasted a little over ten years until he moved to the West Coast.
Meanwhile, about halfway through that relationship, another of my close friends became aware of all this and asked me if he, too, might avail himself of my wife's pleasures. Much to my surprise, while it had taken me two or three years to persuade my wife to ...... with the first friend, she proved eager to bed the second at the first suggestion. That began an affair that has endured to this day.
For awhile then, about five years, she was fucking them both, not to mention me--successfully juggling three men's sexual needs Not every day, mind you, or even every week, but often enough that all three of us were pretty happy with the state of affairs. So yes, it can work, and I'd say that the key to success is making sure everyone involved is getting something out of it he or she wants or needs.
Somehow I managed to win my way into her heart, and we were subsequently married--and have been for many years now. But I was always fascinated by her experiences with other men and would often ask her to tell me about them when we made love. Eventually I found myself drawn to the idea of seeing her with another man. I knew one of my closest friends had always wanted to bed her, and approached him about trying to seduce her. At the same time, during pillow-talk with my wife, I began mentioning how much I'd enjoy seeing her pleasuring my friend. She proved reluctant for some while, but eventually agreed to ...... with him. That began an on-and-off series of trysts that lasted a little over ten years until he moved to the West Coast.
Meanwhile, about halfway through that relationship, another of my close friends became aware of all this and asked me if he, too, might avail himself of my wife's pleasures. Much to my surprise, while it had taken me two or three years to persuade my wife to ...... with the first friend, she proved eager to bed the second at the first suggestion. That began an affair that has endured to this day.
For awhile then, about five years, she was fucking them both, not to mention me--successfully juggling three men's sexual needs Not every day, mind you, or even every week, but often enough that all three of us were pretty happy with the state of affairs. So yes, it can work, and I'd say that the key to success is making sure everyone involved is getting something out of it he or she wants or needs.
It really has been great fun. Though she was initially reluctant, my wife eventually proved to be quite generous with her favors to my friends, and quite willing to try a variety of scenarios as my imagination wandered on the subject. One particular time I even remember her responding to one of my lurid suggestions by saying "Mike, don't you think I'd already thought of that."
Do you find your wife has a high sex drive, or needs longer sessions than you give her, or maybe just realized she enjoys multiple partners after trying it? Curious what is different about your wife that it works, when so many others fail.
After trying it a few times and not enjoying it, I asked my petite Asian wife why. Her answer was "Imagine taking some random big dick up your tight ass. Over and over. For an hour. It's just not fun." That's when we realized it just wasn't going to work for her.
Well I don’t think she gave you a good example what she should have said imagine you get to fuck several different women with wet pussys . That would have been better.
I think it has been a combination of factors. Sex drive varies over the years, and my wife had a strong sex drive early in our marriage. There was something of a lull when she had children, It returned pretty strongly a few years later, and at my urging she was willing to experiment with other men--two of my long-time friends.
The first friend was something of a selfish lover, always tending to his own needs, but less so to hers. Still, there was something about being used as his little fuck-toy that struck a chord with her. Frankly, I was better hung, had better endurance, and always made sure she came when we were making love, though more often from giving her oral gratification than coitus. Yet there was that feeling she was being pursued and my first friend's unabashed approach to making her submit to his needs that appealed to her. It wasn't a ...... fantasy per se, but it had that element of having to surrender to his carnal desires.
The second friend was another matter. His cock was about the same length as mine (eight inches or so), but half again as thick--think beer can. He also had great stamina, and really worked at making she she was pleasured as much as he was. In short, he was just a better fuck than either my first friend or I was for that matter. She continues to look forward to his visits with enthusiasm.
I think you have something about her interest in multiple partners. Though it took me several years to convince her I'd be comfortable with her having sex with the first friend, once that hurdle was surmounted she didn't think twice about agreeing to ...... with the second. And, when I told her how hot I thought it would be if she had them both at the same time, she surprised me by saying, "Mike, don't you think I've already thought of that?"
That was not so easy to arrange, as both were married, and one lived out of state. However, logistics were overcome, adequate excuses were devised, and she ended up having two trysts with both of them at once. I was not present for the first (at her request). I was present for the second (at my request). She handled both of them easily, leaving them happy and exhausted after about two hours of wanton sex at each session. They returned her to me in a well-used condition which I found especially intoxicating.
The first friend was something of a selfish lover, always tending to his own needs, but less so to hers. Still, there was something about being used as his little fuck-toy that struck a chord with her. Frankly, I was better hung, had better endurance, and always made sure she came when we were making love, though more often from giving her oral gratification than coitus. Yet there was that feeling she was being pursued and my first friend's unabashed approach to making her submit to his needs that appealed to her. It wasn't a ...... fantasy per se, but it had that element of having to surrender to his carnal desires.
The second friend was another matter. His cock was about the same length as mine (eight inches or so), but half again as thick--think beer can. He also had great stamina, and really worked at making she she was pleasured as much as he was. In short, he was just a better fuck than either my first friend or I was for that matter. She continues to look forward to his visits with enthusiasm.
I think you have something about her interest in multiple partners. Though it took me several years to convince her I'd be comfortable with her having sex with the first friend, once that hurdle was surmounted she didn't think twice about agreeing to ...... with the second. And, when I told her how hot I thought it would be if she had them both at the same time, she surprised me by saying, "Mike, don't you think I've already thought of that?"
That was not so easy to arrange, as both were married, and one lived out of state. However, logistics were overcome, adequate excuses were devised, and she ended up having two trysts with both of them at once. I was not present for the first (at her request). I was present for the second (at my request). She handled both of them easily, leaving them happy and exhausted after about two hours of wanton sex at each session. They returned her to me in a well-used condition which I found especially intoxicating.
You my friend are living the dream. And your wife as well! Having not only a well-hung husband on demand, but a well-hung lover too, both of which ensure she is satisfied. She must be in heaven. My wife sadly isn't built for it like yours is. The best hung lover she had was 8x6 (double the volume of my own 5x5) and she struggled the entire time. My wife also tends to cum with me from oral best, before mounting me and riding me to a second orgasm. With other guys she never came at all.
I've never really thought of myself as well hung. I've seen much larger cocks, including that of my one friend. But really, making a woman come from coitus is pretty hit and miss, regardless of size. My hung friend is more successful at that, I think because the thickness rubs her more in the right places. Still, there is nothing like a persistent searching tongue to drive a woman wild. One of the hottest things we do, I think, is have him fuck her for a half hour or so, after which I go down on her to make sure she comes away satisfied. It also works a little like the training of Pavlov's dog. Whether she realizes it or not, she always comes away feeling rewarded for having fucked my friend.
But you are quite right. I am living the dream, and make certain to tell my wife at every opportunity how she is making that possible. I can't get enough of that woman. And, so it seems at least, she can't get enough of my friends or me.
But you are quite right. I am living the dream, and make certain to tell my wife at every opportunity how she is making that possible. I can't get enough of that woman. And, so it seems at least, she can't get enough of my friends or me.
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