I think my GF is fantasising about BBC

Me and my GF have been together for 18 months and our sex life is pretty hot. She's really confident in bed and loves to dominate before I take over. We are both White , late 20s.

Recently she asked me to introduce watching porn pre sex which I wasn't comfortable with but I wanted to satisfy her request. Cutting a long story short, we have a login for Pornhub and all we seem to be watching is interracial scenes where the black man is very well hung and is destroying the female. It makes me almost feel inadequate as I can not replicate the majority of these videos.

I'm unsure If she is converting to BBC but she seems to be so much wetter since watching these interracial porn videos and even more friskier,not that I'm complaining, but she was never that wet before.

I also noted she's saving videos for us the watch pre sex. A lot of these are Blackedraw scenes or from Deeper & even those scenes are interracial ones.

To compound my curiosity, I was on her IG the other day and her explore page is also now full of Black Men so I assume she's liking some posts on there as well.

So I did a little searching online and see some others on this forum have similar predicaments. Can anyone make any suggestions to introduce something other than interracial porn, or do I just ask the if this is her fantasy now?
 
Me and my GF have been together for 18 months and our sex life is pretty hot. She's really confident in bed and loves to dominate before I take over. We are both White , late 20s.

Recently she asked me to introduce watching porn pre sex which I wasn't comfortable with but I wanted to satisfy her request. Cutting a long story short, we have a login for Pornhub and all we seem to be watching is interracial scenes where the black man is very well hung and is destroying the female. It makes me almost feel inadequate as I can not replicate the majority of these videos.

I'm unsure If she is converting to BBC but she seems to be so much wetter since watching these interracial porn videos and even more friskier,not that I'm complaining, but she was never that wet before.

I also noted she's saving videos for us the watch pre sex. A lot of these are Blackedraw scenes or from Deeper & even those scenes are interracial ones.

To compound my curiosity, I was on her IG the other day and her explore page is also now full of Black Men so I assume she's liking some posts on there as well.

So I did a little searching online and see some others on this forum have similar predicaments. Can anyone make any suggestions to introduce something other than interracial porn, or do I just ask the if this is her fantasy now?
I've sent you some suggestions. Check your DM.
 
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She hasnt put on any cuckold interracial videos so I'm not overly worried just yet, there was the interracial scene from deeper.com with Emily Willis but that wasn't a direct cuck video. I think this would be the point where I needed to ask the direct question.

I couldn't bare being a cuck to my gf. I think if I wasn't in love with then I'd be more open to the idea, but just not with her
 
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So it transpires that my gfs friend is the one who obsessed with black men and I'm guessing her talking about sex etc has now developed a bit of a fetish for her. I still haven't asked the question. Maybe she's taken a fancy to her friends "fella". Obviously I am hoping not but that would be better for me then her just being obsessed with BBC in general....
 
So it transpires that my gfs friend is the one who obsessed with black men and I'm guessing her talking about sex etc has now developed a bit of a fetish for her. I still haven't asked the question. Maybe she's taken a fancy to her friends "fella". Obviously I am hoping not but that would be better for me then her just being obsessed with BBC in general....
Maybe when you have sex with her, talk about black man's dick in her and see how she responses?
 
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So my partner put on the 1st BBC Cuckold Video to get us in the mood on Saturday and she was unbelievably wet and we had some amazing sex, which at the time I had no complaints. But I hope it was just a one off, she asked me if I liked the choice of video which I lied and said yes, but in reality its still daunting to watch a 6 foot 5 black guy go through the girl like a steam train, I cannot replicate or ever fuck my gf like that .


She still hasn't mentioned a fetish about BBC men but every porn videos we watch is BBC without fail
 
So my partner put on the 1st BBC Cuckold Video to get us in the mood on Saturday and she was unbelievably wet and we had some amazing sex, which at the time I had no complaints. But I hope it was just a one off, she asked me if I liked the choice of video which I lied and said yes, but in reality its still daunting to watch a 6 foot 5 black guy go through the girl like a steam train, I cannot replicate or ever fuck my gf like that .


She still hasn't mentioned a fetish about BBC men but every porn videos we watch is BBC without fail
“I cannot replicate or ever fuck my gf like that”

That’s essentially the point of it and no doubt why your gf is taking such an interest in it. Put yourself in her place for a moment...wouldn’t you be thinking how awesome it must be to have a guy go through you like a steam train? Hell, even as a male when I watch IR videos I never ever imagine it through the guys experience. I always imagine what it must be like for the girl and it usually looks mind blowing.

When I started out sharing my gf I was pretty insecure at first, filled with the same doubts as you...would she leave me to go off with him? And back then I was a more than adequate lover with a good size cock. Never had any trouble getting girls to come back for more.

But each time she didn’t run away it reinforced my confidence that our love was strong and that she really preferred to be with me...it was just that she liked being slutty and having extra cock(s)

I know many guys on here will agree that seeing your gf/wife getting totally fucked by another guy is an incredible turn on, nothing else quite matches it. We started out with the intention of swapping/swinging but I soon lost interest in the other women, it was much more rewarding to see the girl I loved having such a wonderful time and at the same time gaining confidence in her power as a woman.

As for “I couldn't bare being a cuck to my gf. I think if I wasn't in love with then I'd be more open to the idea, but just not with her” I couldn't disagree more. I’ve tried it with other women and it just didn’t have the same and incredibly rewarding effect. It really is about giving the one you love something special.

The black guys? They don’t all have huge cocks and they’re not all magnificent beasts in bed. The guys you see in porn are a bit of a rarity. They can have just as many shortcomings as any other guy. But when you find a guy who is truly talented it makes a world of difference.

And that is what your gf is looking for. She has given you every possible hint and the fact that she has introduced cuckolding shows that she is thinking of you as partners in this rather than seeking a replacement for you.

If I was you I would take the plunge and tell her to at least try it once and that you will be okay with it.
 
Wife went black only mainly because we are in deep south and the perceived taboo and attention was just so exciting for her...and me.. Plus, luckily we, togther, picked her men to meet, and she had some terrific lovers, plus some pure sex mates. Even had a regular for 5 years, many times with him, even a mini vacation. Pick carefully as you would with any race...patience pays off..
 
Well I'm in love with her and I don't want to continue with the interracial porn as she may end up dumping me ...

This I can guarantee....if you try to prevent her from getting waht she wants, you WILL lose her. NO doubt about it. You may anyway, once she crosses that line, but the only way you keep her is to be part of her desire and satisfaction of this need. If you become a roadblock, your relationship is over. But if you support her desires, and encourage her through this, you may come out on the other end with a permanent relationship with her. J (the wife)
 
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Me and my GF have been together for 18 months and our sex life is pretty hot. She's really confident in bed and loves to dominate before I take over. We are both White , late 20s.

Recently she asked me to introduce watching porn pre sex which I wasn't comfortable with but I wanted to satisfy her request. Cutting a long story short, we have a login for Pornhub and all we seem to be watching is interracial scenes where the black man is very well hung and is destroying the female. It makes me almost feel inadequate as I can not replicate the majority of these videos.

I'm unsure If she is converting to BBC but she seems to be so much wetter since watching these interracial porn videos and even more friskier,not that I'm complaining, but she was never that wet before.

I also noted she's saving videos for us the watch pre sex. A lot of these are Blackedraw scenes or from Deeper & even those scenes are interracial ones.

To compound my curiosity, I was on her IG the other day and her explore page is also now full of Black Men so I assume she's liking some posts on there as well.

So I did a little searching online and see some others on this forum have similar predicaments. Can anyone make any suggestions to introduce something other than interracial porn, or do I just ask the if this is her fantasy now?
it's time to ask her, carefully to make sure she stays open to talk about these things, as u2 watch a sexy white wife being Blacked, and maybe her bf/hubby is watching, then make her feel your open to see where her desires takes u2,
u might tell her you dreamed she was taking a BBC bareback and all you could do was watch or that it made you harder than u ever been.,
she will say "is that what U want" it excites U that much
 
Well I'm in love with her and I don't want to continue with the interracial porn as she may end up dumping me ...
you have to stay involved in what excites her or else she will get distant to you and secretly follow her desires, ur deeply in love with her so you have to adjust to accept the complete her as she ..imho