I want to be cuckolded but she does not

[brazilian_1505]

I met my wife 4 years ago. We dated for 3, we were engaged for 1 year and got married last month.

Right on our first date, we already talked about swing and thressomes. She confessed to me that her biggest fetish would be to do DP, because she had never had sex with two guys at the same time.

As I have had the cuckold fetish for more than 10 years, so I was interested in her at the same time.

As our relationship became more solid, I tried to talk to her about the subject, sent videos, bought sexy lingerie, sex toys. But it seems that over time, her interest decreased more and more until it reached a point where she told me that she was happy only with me and that she didn't want this kind of thing anymore.

I tried to forget the subject, I focused on our relationship and I'm very happy with her. But I get frustrated for not having this fetish performed. Now that we got married, and it's still very early, I still think about it and it seems that after the wedding it has taken over my thoughts more and more. I believe that for now she is officially my wife, the fantasy of having a hotwife has surfaced more strongly.

I've already tried to understand her fears, and I have mine too. One of my suspicions is because she was traumatized because her father cheated on her ....... But in our case, it would be consensual, so there would be no problem of trust.

When she tells me about her past, I keep imagining that if we had a cuckold relationship, she would love it. According to her words, she was a slut. He had many sexual partners. I would be the perfect cuck for her, because not only would I like to see her with other guys, but I would interact with them, sucking the guys together with her, cleaning her after a creampie (she doesn't like facial cumshots or in the mouth), filming our adventures.

What's missing for me? Talk to her more, even though she says she's not interested anymore? I really don't know what to do.

 

[Dave45]

Stop telling her you have cuckold feelings; few women will just jump into that, especially not if they've read about it.

Let your wife think of someone else and help her with that, but don't ask who she was thinking of. Just tell her you thought it was wonderful and amazing and that you enjoyed her.

Tell her often that you think she's the most beautiful and delicious woman in the world and that you regret that she's not a bit more naughty.

Everything has to grow, step by step. Even if she has sex with someone else soon, it could still take a few years before you're truly a cuck.

 

[WpgAsainCuck]

I'm in similar situation with my wife. I just send reels of hot guys randomly to spark her imagination hopefully it will get to her 😅🤞🏽

 

[tdog7119]

Good luck, I have been massaging the idea for a little while now and she shut it down. We dildo play and I seemed to be making progress and then just yesterday things reversed. Frustrating when they rely too much on society and church and don’t enjoy the husband that is willing to expose the pleasures to her. Shoe on the other foot and I would be in heaven.

 

[Dave45]

Women think differently than men.

We've known for a long time that we want her to have sex with someone else, and it's new to her, and that freaks them out.

They also think you don't love her anymore because you let others fuck her, because she would never allow it the other way around.

Many women think that if you give permission, you'll want to have sex with other women, and that's a no-go for her.

Many women are negative about their own bodies, so you have to tell her repeatedly that she's gorgeous and looks fantastic.

I, and many men, want their wives to have sex with someone else because we're not good in bed ourselves. We want her to have good sex, but for a woman, it doesn't really matter. She loves you and might not be used to better.

You don't want to know how many times my wife has said no, no, no, but now that she knows how good her boyfriend is at sex, she's unstoppable and goes every week.