Jealousy is normal at first. You have to separate "making love" and "sex' in your head AND hers first. Bring a dildo into the bedroom, ask her to play with it, see if it turns you both on then go from there. I went a step further at first and gave the dildo a male's name like"Ben" for instance. When I would use it on her (or when she would use it on herself) I would dirty talk and say things like "How do you like Ben's cock inside you" and "tell me how Ben feels" all the while she is using the dildo. Soon that led to conversations, rules, and eventually a threesome with me and a guy we met at a bar both taking turns pleasing her after a trip to the bar one night last fall. We have had a couple more encounters with him since then, and she has sucked a buddy's cock on a dare. Still exploring this lifestyle but the jealously thing is a hurdle at first. You have to convince both her and yourself that seeing HER gain pleasure from another guy turns you on!! PM me if you have questions. I check the site weekly.