I'm 51, wife is 44. Is it too late? Should I stop trying to convince her?

[HubbyJohn]

It isnt' too late at all. In fact the duration of your marriage is what will make it more likely. The stronger you are as a couple the better your chances are. We were well into our 40s before we did it. we fantasized bout it for a decade or more so we were ready. We didn't plan it, we just allowed a situation to happen naturally.

 

[du_sabot]

It isnt' too late at all. In fact the duration of your marriage is what will make it more likely. The stronger you are as a couple the better your chances are. We were well into our 40s before we did it. we fantasized bout it for a decade or more so we were ready. We didn't plan it, we just allowed a situation to happen naturally.

Agreed, I think my wife was 49 or 50 when she started. It's never too late. The only surprise for me is how hard it is to find good reliable consistent guys

 

[vrmtr1]

Agreed, I think my wife was 49 or 50 when she started. It's never too late. The only surprise for me is how had it is to find good reliable consistent guys

...so how did you fing good guys? we are inside 50s and I'm still trying

 

[du_sabot]

...so how did you fing good guys? we are inside 50s and I'm still trying

We haven't really. She uses the dating apps. She has a few regulars but it's not like they meet Weekley or anything like that. Sometimes it's months. Some guys I ask why she keeps them on this list because they are never available and when they do set something up cancel all the time. It's much more difficult than I thought it would be. I thought single guys would be lining up but at our age every one has there own life issues and guys seem to be terrible at scheduling their lives. I dont know how some of them function in the adult job market

 

[Montbbc]

Sorry for the long post. Thanks for reading and responding.

I'm 51 and my wife is 44. I need advice on what to do. I'd like to hear from the gals out there as well as the guys. My wife and I have know each other almost 20 years and have been married for 15. I think she is hot and love her very much. About 3 years ago I told her of my fantasy to see her fuck another man. She initially said, "I don't know. I'm not saying no." We talked more and she agreed to meet another married couple to talk and see how this feels. I think I took the lead too strongly, nothing happened and my wife got pissed. I think we didn't have the best communication at the time. She said she doesn't want to see me have sex with another woman and she doesn't want to have sex with another man.

I stopped talking about this after that. She was ok with using penis sleeves and dildos in the bedroom but would always say she liked how my dick felt better and how I give her pleasure and she enjoys herself with me. Real dick maybe feels better than a rubber one. Sometime passed and I brought the subject up again. Maybe we could go to a sex club or place with people in the lifestyle are just to check out the vibe. Maybe we could have sex with each other while other people were watching. Again she got mad and I dropped the topic.

When we have sex it is good and we both get off. After 20 or so years it is a little vanilla though. We have sex maybe once or twice a month. My wife says she is entering into perimenopause and doesn't have as much desire as she used to. I tried watching porn with her and she felt like I was trying to convince her to be like the other women in the videos.

Life is kind of hectic right now. We both own our own businesses which can be demanding. We still have kids at home who are busy with school and sports etc. I've had some health issues. Now is not the time so I've decided to give up. Maybe in another 5-10 years when we are empty nesters thing can be different. I'm afraid after menopause she won't be interested in any sex at all. I don't want that and I don't want to be any other women. Have any wives gotten into this lifestyle after menopause and after the kids are out of the house? Was that easier or more comfortable? I'll be pushing 60 by then. Feeling kind of dejected and rejected. Any advice?

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[Bowlerlb]

Never too late. In my experience most are in late forties or fifties when they start. Some even older. Older wives are so awesome to fuck and they love a big cock. She is likely too old to worry about getting pregnant so she can enjoy the play and the fucking, being filled with another mans cum and finally enjoy feeding your needs.

 

[Nick1477]

Not too late at all, my wife was 60 when I started sharing her

 

[Dinges69]

Surely not too late, I was 53 and she 41 when we started. She now is 44 and still looking for some strange dick.

 

[420destiny]

In their 60's women start to get vaginal dryness and can't fuck any more. Until then... she should fuck as many men as she wants, because at some point it will stop and then all they can do is give blowjobs.

 

[PaulLani]

Sorry for the long post. Thanks for reading and responding.

I'm 51 and my wife is 44. I need advice on what to do. I'd like to hear from the gals out there as well as the guys. My wife and I have know each other almost 20 years and have been married for 15. I think she is hot and love her very much. About 3 years ago I told her of my fantasy to see her fuck another man. She initially said, "I don't know. I'm not saying no." We talked more and she agreed to meet another married couple to talk and see how this feels. I think I took the lead too strongly, nothing happened and my wife got pissed. I think we didn't have the best communication at the time. She said she doesn't want to see me have sex with another woman and she doesn't want to have sex with another man.

I stopped talking about this after that. She was ok with using penis sleeves and dildos in the bedroom but would always say she liked how my dick felt better and how I give her pleasure and she enjoys herself with me. Real dick maybe feels better than a rubber one. Sometime passed and I brought the subject up again. Maybe we could go to a sex club or place with people in the lifestyle are just to check out the vibe. Maybe we could have sex with each other while other people were watching. Again she got mad and I dropped the topic.

When we have sex it is good and we both get off. After 20 or so years it is a little vanilla though. We have sex maybe once or twice a month. My wife says she is entering into perimenopause and doesn't have as much desire as she used to. I tried watching porn with her and she felt like I was trying to convince her to be like the other women in the videos.

Life is kind of hectic right now. We both own our own businesses which can be demanding. We still have kids at home who are busy with school and sports etc. I've had some health issues. Now is not the time so I've decided to give up. Maybe in another 5-10 years when we are empty nesters thing can be different. I'm afraid after menopause she won't be interested in any sex at all. I don't want that and I don't want to be any other women. Have any wives gotten into this lifestyle after menopause and after the kids are out of the house? Was that easier or more comfortable? I'll be pushing 60 by then. Feeling kind of dejected and rejected. Any advice?

No it's not too late. This lady who is the 3rd in our throuple was almost 60 when these pics were taken. She's 70 now.
She was menopausal when she started. She loves a good gangbang.
Menopause can go both ways. Some women get as horny as fuck while others lose their libido completely.
The fact that she said her desire is diminishing is obviously not a good sign but you won't know for sure until it hits her.
But with an empty nest often women go looking for some excitement so there's always hope. But as for age, as long as she has a functioning pussy, there's no such thing as too old.

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[Jamy]

We live only once, we are young only once.. live how you like
Express yourself, and follow your desire today...still it is not late, still have time... but tomorrow is late!

 

[kumabear75]

Patience is definetly the key. We have been married 30 years and I tried once we became empty nesters (about 15 -20 years ago) to spice it up ,offered her a hall pass, showed her swinger porn,etc. Took her to several bars and asked her to flirt with guys she found sexy, but was always met with, "I'm happy with what I got". or usually with a flatout NO. About 8 years ago she came home from the gym and was all bubbly and excited they hired a new trainer, he was in his 30's according to her and after a week or two told me she was going to switch trainers. I knew something was up so I went to the gym and met him. Very nice guy ,tall, well built, had a great personality so I saw what was making her school girlish, I decided to get to know him better and talk to him more in depth when we were comfortable with each other.
After a few months he and i decided to go out one night and have a drink. After the second drink I asked him if he found the wife attractive, him almost spitting out his drink, he admitted she was in extremely good shape for her age and easy on the eyes. The next question I asked was if he would be up to seducing her, that one I thought he was going to fall out of his chair. I explained how I wanted her to open up and enjoy sex more and I had asked her to go to bed with other men over the years. I explained I was on board but she was going to be the hard sell, that he couldn't pursue to hard or he would scare her off. We agreed to this and I left it up to him to try and get her in bed.
It took him about a year but he succeeded in getting her into his bed (that's another story) and on her trip home she got a case of the guilts. To make a long story short she and I had several days discussion about it, that I had influenced the setup and that I loved her to enjoy the attraction of other men. Her first was with us for about 5 years until he transferred out of state. She is now comfortable in the lifestyle and has been with 12 other men since her first. We and she especially enjoy the hot sex and attention paid to her and hopefully will continue on for a few more years

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