I'm 51, wife is 44. Is it too late? Should I stop trying to convince her?

[danum]

I agree it's never too late. I think my wife was around 49 or 50 when she started. Patience is a necessity for getting over the Hump. It took me probably 3 years to get my wife to try it. I think her BFF and her Husband helped. Her BFF and her Husband are swingers and they are out almost every weekend. My wife spent years hearing her friend talk about the guys she was fucking on the side

3 years?? wow! i salute your patience and persistence.
it took me 13-14 months and i thought that was too long.

good on you.