My wife loves to tease me with dirty talk about her taking other men. Lately she tells me about one guy she found attractive recently and tells me she would have let him smash and fill her up with cum. She knows that kind of thing drives me wild. Then when I talk about going online and finding a potential guy together and taking our time with it, she scoffs at the idea and says "no, I'm not doing that." She loves to say it in bed but doesn't have the will to try I guess. I don't know whether to keep trying to gently convince her or if I should just accept the fantasy as fantasy and forget about the possibility of making it a reality.
I'm confused.
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Yea dont push too much but if your both enjoying this fantasy it might just happen naturally one day when she meets a guy shes into
That's what I think too. I feel like all I can really do is to enjoy the fantasy and see.
I agree. My husband talked about this for many years before it finally came to fruition as I was always dead set against ever doing anything remotely like this. I guess what they say about never say never is true!
That sounds like my wife! The thing is that it’s a very hot fantasy and she is willing to fantasize about it during sex, but to her it is only a fantasy… no matter how much it turns her on at the time.
My wife was in a cuck relationship with her first husband, although it was not called that back then. She ended up leaving her husband for his very well endowed friend that he had talked her into fucking in a MFM.
My wife says someone always gets hurt, so she has made it very clear that she has been there, done that, and has no desire or need to do it again.
I still talk about it and role play once in a while though.
Enjoy the fantasy and if you love her as much as she loves you, don’t push too hard. Just make sure she knows how you feel and that if she ever wants or needs it, you are open to sharing her.
Good luck
Keep trying. Mine said that too. But it still happened when I least expected it. The important part is done she knows thats what turns you on and it does her also. She just won't admit it.
It's my opinion that your wife is right. She lived through the experience and knows the "real" fallout and implications. Not all wives have the maturity and common sense to handle the responsibility.
We could add to this, highlighting the timing factor.
People have many desires, but those don't come in handy every single time.
For example, ourselves. We wouldn't think about a shared or hotwife relationship during the time we were dating or during the very beginning of our marriage. Fantasies or the will to live some of those experiences were already within us somehow, but to think about letting it all to fruition was just a crazy no-no idea for both of us, then.
But with other circunstances and new things happening to us along the time, the experiencing and trying became a real possibility. A frame of mind, perhaps.
So, never push the timing...nor forget it.
People have many desires, but those don't come in handy every single time.
For example, ourselves. We wouldn't think about a shared or hotwife relationship during the time we were dating or during the very beginning of our marriage. Fantasies or the will to live some of those experiences were already within us somehow, but to think about letting it all to fruition was just a crazy no-no idea for both of us, then.
But with other circunstances and new things happening to us along the time, the experiencing and trying became a real possibility. A frame of mind, perhaps.
So, never push the timing...nor forget it.
Maybe it's just a fantasy for her. Some people say things, and have no plan on having them play out. For instance, this site. Titled "Wife Wants To Play". I think it's mostly the men that are doing the playing on here. Most aren't even sharing their partners. I think they are on here, just to show off their women, and comment on other women, like me....lol Anyway, like I said...maybe it's just a fantasy for her. And it's "thrilling" for her to voice it out, and not have to act it out.
If she is into talking about it I'd say just keep talking about it and reinforcing how hot the idea is. How much you love her. How much you would still love her if she went through with it. A lot of women may want to do it but are afraid of f ing up their life. Ie maybe she does it and you hate her after. You need to reinforce you love her and will always lover her no mater what she may do with another guy.
