In love with your (hot)wife...

Candaulist

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I’m curious to hear other people’s opinions and experiences.


For those of you who are into the hotwife or cuckolding lifestyle: do you feel that this desire comes from deep love for your wife or partner, or is it mainly driven by lust and fantasy?


Personally, I believe that love makes the experience much more intense. The more you truly love your wife, and the more she feels secure in that love, the stronger the emotions become when you see her being desired, admired, or intimate with another man or woman.


For me, it is not about loving her less or giving her away. It is almost the opposite. It is about loving her so much that her confidence, pleasure, freedom, and sexuality become incredibly exciting to witness.


Do others feel the same?
Is the hotwife/cuckold dynamic deeper for you because of love, or is it mainly a sexual fantasy?
 
I’m curious to hear other people’s opinions and experiences.


For those of you who are into the hotwife or cuckolding lifestyle: do you feel that this desire comes from deep love for your wife or partner, or is it mainly driven by lust and fantasy?


Personally, I believe that love makes the experience much more intense. The more you truly love your wife, and the more she feels secure in that love, the stronger the emotions become when you see her being desired, admired, or intimate with another man or woman.


For me, it is not about loving her less or giving her away. It is almost the opposite. It is about loving her so much that her confidence, pleasure, freedom, and sexuality become incredibly exciting to witness.


Do others feel the same?
Is the hotwife/cuckold dynamic deeper for you because of love, or is it mainly a sexual fantasy?
I absolutely feel the same as you do. Matter of fact my love for my wife and her love for me has intensified since getting into the lifestyle. Our trust, bond, communication and intimacy was great before we decided to explore this, but has grown to a whole new level since entering the lifestyle.