In my experience MFM is harder to find than cuckolding

I've had this experience. I'd barely call these threesomes lol. It's a lot of fun to have the guy's wife or girlfriend pay more attention to me.

However, a true MFM threesome is hard to find.
Maybe I don't know what a real threesome is. We are not swingers. We enjoy sex fun with a guy we know. We take turns with her and we all enjoy.
The terms I use I learned from sites like this. We might me into mfm, wife sharing or whatever you call it. We just enjoy it.
To describe it I'd say we have a guy friend that has sex with my wife while I watch then he watches us have sex then we repeat. It exciting fun for us.
He does get more sex time with her but I get plenty.

What is a true mfm threesome?
 
We do have sex with others, mfmf, mfm. Finding a 'couple' where we all 4 click seems harder than finding a male for mfm or mmf fun. Now, add in the requirement that said male has to have the qualities that we and he desire - now it becomes a bit harder to find. (leaving 'cuckold' out of the equation as it apparently means so many different things to whoever is using the term)
We agree.....it was just impossible for all 4 to click. So now we do just mfm and we found it so much easier. There are so many young guys who want MILFs that it gets difficult to pick just one. The only problem we have had is that my wife prefers to stick with one guy for a few years so she had to pick one. But it's been a great life.
 
We do have sex with others, mfmf, mfm. Finding a 'couple' where we all 4 click seems harder than finding a male for mfm or mmf fun. Now, add in the requirement that said male has to have the qualities that we and he desire - now it becomes a bit harder to find. (leaving 'cuckold' out of the equation as it apparently means so many different things to whoever is using the term)
Couldn't agree more. Getting for people on the same page has been very difficult for us and really found only one other couple where it worked. We have had a lot of success in finding another male, but we think that is do in large part to our process in selecting men to join us, (vetting process) and living in areas with larger cities, there has been a lot of fish in the pond to pick from.
 
In our experience it can be difficult to find decent guys who actually intend to show up and who can perform. Lots of armchair quarterback wannabees in this world. We have found a few ok guys on this site but you have to filter, discuss, swap pics and setup a MFM encounter in stone to get someone to show up MAYBE. You would think getting a guy to come over and have sex would be easy and they would be lining up. Not so much. As per the above post we have had really good luck joining the paid version of SLS.
 
I'm experienced as both a bull and with MFM threesomes, but I've found that MFM threesomes are more difficult to find and organize than finding a cuckold couple (which isn't easy to find either!).

I'm curious if anyone else has this experience? I would think that MFM threesomes would be easier to organize, but in my experience they have been frustratingly elusive.
We’ve found that MFM threesomes Steve’s to find, it’s the women fir a FFM threesomes that are a challenge.
 
I'm experienced as both a bull and with MFM threesomes, but I've found that MFM threesomes are more difficult to find and organize than finding a cuckold couple (which isn't easy to find either!).

I'm curious if anyone else has this experience? I would think that MFM threesomes would be easier to organize, but in my experience they have been frustratingly elusive.


After finally getting my wife to agree to share her . It has been a very difficult search. Lots of flakes. Not sure what it is
 
I like seeing girls receiving maximum sexual pleasure, but when you have incredible stamina like myself, with all the sweat, wet sheets, exhausted girl, I'm just not very into the MFM thing. If I meet some super-nymph who has the energy to fly around the room and properly serve 2 or more man-sized cocks for hours then I'd be down, and I'd be fucking her for keeps.

To those looking for one-time things for their wives, I believe you'll attract a lot of inexperienced incels seeking to get into anything that moves. Guys like me can get laid when we want/have booty calls/can pull bar girls easily, ergo aren't jumping up and down at a one-shot of pussy. I'm not opposed to fucking a wife with her (fit) husband, but it'd be because I'm friends of theirs, and over time l'd be able to train the woman to provide me maximum pleasure.
 
Seems like some form of cuckolding usually takes place during most mfm. Seeing your wife/gf enjoying sex with the other guy more than you it could feel humiliating in a way. Especially if she focuses on him and pays very little attention to you. The difference is the humiliation isn’t planned , verbalized or even intentional.
When we first started I never knew that was a name for it.
 
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I do not think it is any harder when cuck is present at scene, otherwise, it is as in any arrangement between 2 or more human beings, it is harder when more people are involved. Obviously when it is just wife having sex with someone without you present it is easier to arrange.

These days, I think to arrange MFM is easy as ever, especially for a cuckold couple. For example, I do not care much as long as my wife is happy with her choice of sex partners for MFM or whatever MMMMFM she needs. A way much easier than FMF for sure.

In many swinger clubs there are special "sections" or events (on a weekly basis or even more often!) for cuckolding, gangbangs or MFM threesomes only, for example there are a few MFM, gangbang specific clubs in Cap d'Agde, Germany and in a few other places we visited (as "watchers" so far) where women just picks up as many men as she wants to have sex with. Never ever seen something similar in any club for FMF let's say. Also there are quite a few well organised "teams" of men ready to help organising MFM or gangbangs that can be found through Internet or dedicated Web portals (I believe there are some even here).

This is of course from perspective of couple/women.
 
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I do not think it is any harder when cuck is present at scene, otherwise, it is as in any arrangement between 2 or more human beings, it is harder when more people are involved. Obviously when it is just wife having sex with someone without you present it is easier to arrange.

These days, I think to arrange MFM is easy as ever, especially for a cuckold couple. A way much easier than FMF for sure.

In many swinger clubs there are special "sections" or events (on a weekly basis or even more often!) for cuckolding, gangbangs or MFM threesomes only, for example there are a few MFM, gangbang specific clubs in Cap d'Agde, Germany and in a few other places we visited (as "watchers" so far) where women just picks up as many men as she wants to have sex with. Never ever seen something similar in any club for FMF let's say. Also there are quite a few well organised "teams" of men ready to help organising MFM or gangbangs that can be found through Internet or dedicated Web portals (I believe there are some even here).

I agree and disagree with you. I guess it depends on what your searching for if your just wanting any guy to join sure it’s easy but not only just getting another guy to join but finding someone you both click with. They also get cold feet or are intimidated.
 
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I agree and disagree with you. I guess it depends on what your searching for if your just wanting any guy to join sure it’s easy but not only just getting another guy to join but finding someone you both click with. They also get cold feet or are intimidated.
We agree. Finding someone that you click with , is respectful and can perform in a MFM setting can be challenging.
 
We agree. Finding someone that you click with , is respectful and can perform in a MFM setting can be challenging.
This. we're on a couple sites. no shortage of messages from males. Sadly, seems like most singles on such sites never matured beyond 15-16 years old. Won't read your profile preferences, etc. Or, if you do happen to meet - and make it as far as the bedroom - act like they've never been laid before...
 
Understand completely. Once we find a good one we keep him in the rotation. Finding a good one can take a lot of effort. Lots of guys can talk the talk but when it comes times to actually participating it can be a different story altogether. I have read this from another couple on here but you will likely find better quality on paid sites such as SLS etc. Free means anyone who has access to the internet will be messaging you. Paid are usually more sane and serious. But once from a paid site we actually had a guy show up and he literally did not know how to have sex. He was from a different country and i think maybe his society prevented sex before marriage etc. Anyway keep it up and you will find a good one !
 
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I agree and disagree with you. I guess it depends on what your searching for if your just wanting any guy to join sure it’s easy but not only just getting another guy to join but finding someone you both click with. They also get cold feet or are intimidated.
Yep, this is why I mentioned if cuck has to be present at scene or/and has a specific preferences on top of just making her wife satisfied with whatever choice she has when it is more difficult as in any other relationship where more than 1 human beings involved, either it is just go for drinks, do some shared work or MFM. But what I wanted to say also that it does not seem like there is a lack of "choices" anymore these days, it is more acceptable in society and kind of a matter to find a right one, which is exactly the case in classic MF relationship too. Even if we look through amateur and professional porn these days. Women magazines and forums, it does not hesitate to discuss it openly. Clubs offer such events for women only on regular basis. Obviously it is not only depend on M but on couple and their preferences too.