So a few comments and things have caught my attention and make me think my girlfriend would be open to trying a BBC. She knows I love interracial porn and the other night when talking about sex etc she said "We should buy a black dildo, a BIG one, you would like that wouldn't you?" And when watching a threesome video with two black men and a white girl the other night as I ate her pussy she told me that she had a naughty fantasy of doing something similar. She also came really quickly and multiple times watching these two studs fuck a pretty white girl lol. Do people think she's curious or open to trying BBC?
Is she open to the idea?
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Demented_Donny
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Hard to say, sometimes what happens in someone's mind is completely different than what they would do in real life. I think you maybe jumping the gun a little on this. Looking too much into it.
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What fun she is having while having sex might not be what she would really do. She might have just been enjoying turning you on. Only way to know for sure is to talk to her when you two are not having sex and see what she says.
I agree with, WNY! Next time you’re having sex, bring it up again and ask her if she wants to give it a try, and how much it would turn you on to watch. I would also mention that even if it was only one guy, how amazing she would feel! That’s what I did and it worked great and she loved it!!
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I agree with some of the previous commenters. Why not expand the discussion with your wife a bit. Just ask her: babe, how do you see it all unfolding in your fantasy world?" That way, she can hide behind the fantasy concept if she's afraid of upsetting you. Ask her this when you are in bed with her, during foreplay, or when she's horny. Let her tell you...... ask her if she could enjly her fantasy without it wrecking your relationship, etc. etc. How she'd deal with it if she really liked it. It's really nice that she was confident enough to share her fantasy with you but know that sometimes watching porn puts us into a zone we'd never otherwise be in..... 
Angelo1977
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Try to have a deep honest non-judgmental conversation
Be open to listen to every fantasy in detail, and once she has climaxed (as many times as she wants) then open a conversation on the real world logistics and feelings (how each of you feels)
No need to agree, but you must not blame her and make her feel uncomfortable (you must not make her regret for opening up and using against her what she has confided in you)
That's the first major and basic step
Be open to listen to every fantasy in detail, and once she has climaxed (as many times as she wants) then open a conversation on the real world logistics and feelings (how each of you feels)
No need to agree, but you must not blame her and make her feel uncomfortable (you must not make her regret for opening up and using against her what she has confided in you)
That's the first major and basic step
Thanks for the considered replies everyone. I have since told her I like the idea of her being fucked by BBC's and the other day I went to show her something on her phone and she had not closed out of a porn video of a white girl with two black guys. She felt embarrassed but I was extremely turned on at the idea of her touching herself like that in her own time. We had some pretty hot sex. I think I would like to get her a BBC dildo and encourage her to explore her desires more.
Demented_Donny
Male
what her fantasies are, and what she is willing to do are two different things. I think you need to work on giving her the confidence to try it. this could be a difficult task though depending.
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Women do not feel comfortable say these things straight out. They prefer to hint. She has given you clear signals. take it and start to move forward from here. she will follow your lead and you are good to go.
Just a bit of an update. I woke up the other morning hard and horny and she asked what had got me in the mood. I told her straight out I had dreamed of her getting fucked by a BBC while I watched. She just said something along the lines of "That's a bit naughty" and then after some hot and heavy times she said "That was so hot" Tbh I'm not sure I would ever want us to invite another person into the bedroom anyway but the fact that she seems open to exploring the fantasy is exciting.
First continue the conversation. Your goal is to communicate your comfortable with the idea and how this would enhance your image of her.
Then look for ways to move the ball forward a little. Like spot guys that she thinks is hot.
Then look for ways to move the ball forward a little. Like spot guys that she thinks is hot.
I liked the idea of sharing so I proposed her for BBC she denied than for swinging she said No and said we will regret afterwards. Though she watch videos with me but she gets turned on with gangbang video. What is ur opinion what she wants
"WE WILL REGET IT AFTERWARDS" this is about here fear of losing your respect for her.
Watching GB and turn on is that she loves the idea of allowing her deepest desires to come out and express them.
To propose a BBC like that is TOO MUCH for for to be willing to admit. Remember women need the "it just happened" excuse. this is so they don't get labeled a slut. Remember she is your wife and she is programmed to be only sexually trained to be faithful to you.
Smaller steps is the way to go. Play spot the hot guy when out in public. Start by pointing out hot girl and say she reminds you of her ... the way she walks ect. then lead by pointing out a guy and ask if he is hot. then move this forward till she is pointing out guys to you...
Watching GB and turn on is that she loves the idea of allowing her deepest desires to come out and express them.
To propose a BBC like that is TOO MUCH for for to be willing to admit. Remember women need the "it just happened" excuse. this is so they don't get labeled a slut. Remember she is your wife and she is programmed to be only sexually trained to be faithful to you.
Smaller steps is the way to go. Play spot the hot guy when out in public. Start by pointing out hot girl and say she reminds you of her ... the way she walks ect. then lead by pointing out a guy and ask if he is hot. then move this forward till she is pointing out guys to you...
Well that’s something you really need to figure out first and foremost, if you want to share her or not! Don’t get her too worked up and excited to the point where she is actually wanting to pursue this and making it a reality.
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