Knowing another guy made her climax for the first time: the arousal vs. the jealousy

My girlfriend had her first orgasm at the hands (literally) of another guy. Now, as hot as I find that, I also struggle with jealousy over it, especially given how she has described the way it made her feel such a special attachment to him that she will never forget or fully get over. If anyone wants to discuss it with me or hear more details about exactly what happened (with pictures too), add me
 
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My girlfriend had her first orgasm at the hands (literally) of another guy. Now, as hot as I find that, I also struggle with jealousy over it, especially given how she has described the way it made her feel such a special attachment to him that she will never forget or fully get over. If anyone wants to discuss it with me or hear more details about exactly what happened (with pictures too), add me
If you find it hot I don’t understand the jealousy.
 
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I ask my husband if he experienced arousal or jealousy He said neither. If anything he feels happiness for me. I am small and my pussy is tight, especially on larger cocks. Men tend to cum fast before I orgasm. If I experience an orgasm my hubby is happy for me.
you’re very sexy and I love a tight pussy. Lucky wife that you get to play. I’d love to see how long I could last with you.
 
My girlfriend had her first orgasm at the hands (literally) of another guy. Now, as hot as I find that, I also struggle with jealousy over it, especially given how she has described the way it made her feel such a special attachment to him that she will never forget or fully get over. If anyone wants to discuss it with me or hear more details about exactly what happened (with pictures too), add me
I would like to hear and see more about your girlfriend's first orgasm.
 
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My girlfriend had her first orgasm at the hands (literally) of another guy. Now, as hot as I find that, I also struggle with jealousy over it, especially given how she has described the way it made her feel such a special attachment to him that she will never forget or fully get over. If anyone wants to discuss it with me or hear more details about exactly what happened (with pictures too), add me
Do you really mean hands?😳 Literally?
Not cock?
 
Wife had one guy bring her to orgasm with his technique, a downward thrust followed by withdrawal sliding cock up over her clit. Her nipples got real hard, chest flushed, breathing heavily and had her first O from intercourse. She showed me how he did it. Not jealous because I got her to achieve a squirting orgasm from hand/finger stimulation followed with a good fuck. Now we have a towel handy as it can be a water works.
 
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Female perspective here.

Your jealousy is normal but also think of it like this: she chose you every day even though you couldn't give her an orgasm. Now you've broken a barrier and shared her with another man who did it, she should be even more in love with you and thankful as you gave her something like that. So many women just have to sit there every night and not get that.

To sum it up, feel your feelings but be proud you did it!
 
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I get it but stick with it, you'll be very satisfied. I have been watching and hearing my wife orgasm from the fingers, tongue lips and cock of other men for nearly 20 years and I would say I am kind of addicted to it. I love to see and hear her submit her sexual self to other men and never tire of masturbating to it.

Often it's via a phone video or even audio. Sometimes I am there to witness it. I love hearing her moan as he pumps her particularly. And hearing her ask him to go deeper is best. She'll often say 'I'm cumming' as she wraps her legs around him and clings on to him. Sometimes I have kissed her as she cums, almost biting my tongue off.
 

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My girlfriend had her first orgasm at the hands (literally) of another guy. Now, as hot as I find that, I also struggle with jealousy over it, especially given how she has described the way it made her feel such a special attachment to him that she will never forget or fully get over. If anyone wants to discuss it with me or hear more details about exactly what happened (with pictures too), add me
Your experience has so many similarities to ours. We were 21 and 18 when we married and had many friends who would stop by and visit. We had been married for 3 yrs when one of my friends seduced her and that led to an ongoing secret affair for a while. She confessed the affair to me about 6 or 7 yrs after it had ended. Jealousy was rampant and one day she added, (he gave me my first orgasm from penetration). That added fire to my feelings, but over time I came to feel happy for her. She got what I could not give her and she too, feels a special attachment to him and will never (get over him). We are much older now and she has not played for a long time, but if he walked in the door one day and I was gone, it would be no problem for her if he made an advance again.
 
My girlfriend had her first orgasm at the hands (literally) of another guy. Now, as hot as I find that, I also struggle with jealousy over it, especially given how she has described the way it made her feel such a special attachment to him that she will never forget or fully get over. If anyone wants to discuss it with me or hear more details about exactly what happened (with pictures too), add me
Wait until you find out that it’s now HIS sperm she wants pumping inside womb and you no longer have much of a say.
 
I’ve never made my wife cum from penetration alone (not to say I haven’t made other women do that, I’m a bit larger than average in girth and length). But my wife has told me a few times about the two guys that rocked her world. One was back in her university days and the other was a friend with benefits just before we got together in her late 20s.

She says she misses those days and that her creamy, powerful orgasms on her big dildo are great and everything but it doesn’t have the same effect as a real cock. Here’s hoping that will change sometime soon!
 
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Your experience has so many similarities to ours. We were 21 and 18 when we married and had many friends who would stop by and visit. We had been married for 3 yrs when one of my friends seduced her and that led to an ongoing secret affair for a while. She confessed the affair to me about 6 or 7 yrs after it had ended. Jealousy was rampant and one day she added, (he gave me my first orgasm from penetration). That added fire to my feelings, but over time I came to feel happy for her. She got what I could not give her and she too, feels a special attachment to him and will never (get over him). We are much older now and she has not played for a long time, but if he walked in the door one day and I was gone, it would be no problem for her if he made an advance again.
Couldn't say it better myself. This is exactly how our marriage has worked. My wife was already seeing her BF before we married, and a few months into our marriage she told me all about it, without really 'fessing up that she was still seeing him for sex. 'I've had an orgasm less than five minutes after he's in me" she said. To that point, she never had an orgasm with me in her. After I cum in her, I use her Hitachi on her to give her an orgasm, then I go down on her and spend a lot of time there - we both love it. The Hitachi gives me enough time to get horny again, but it's messy. We love that too. When she understood how much all of this turned me on, she asked me if I wanted her to continue with her BF and it was clear by her tone that she wanted to. It was an easy "yes" and I ejaculated (with a little urging from her hand on my penis) a few seconds after the words left my mouth. Fortunately, we were in our own bed when that happened! We've been married 30 years and her BF was once every 3-4 weeks for the first 9 years of our marriage.
 
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