I could be a stag, as well, I guess. I don't get into verbal ridicule or humiliation. The humiliation that I do enjoy is knowing that my wife fucks her bf more than me and carries his cum inside of her more mine. And, I love going for long periods of being pussy free. That's because I love the humiliation of knowing that my wife's pussy has adapted to another man's cock instead of mine.
I told her many years ago, that as long as she and her bf's treated me respectfully, she could fuck whoever she wanted, whenever she wanted and as much as she wanted.