Hi all.
We're a married couple in our 30's and have had the swinging / hotwife / cuckold fantasies for quite a few years. We never really planned to act on them but at a recent pre-Christmas party things changed. There was a waiter who clearly had a thing for my wife and the party spirit and quite a bit of alcohol saw us proposition him. It only ended up as some very heavy kissing and a blowjob until completion but it went so well and could easily have gone further that we're starting to consider whether we actually want to go down this path. For me just watching wasn't what I thought it would be, I thought I'd only like it if I joined in, that I'd be jealous maybe but I just wanted my wife to experience more. She kept looking at me and actually orgasmed, something she has never done from just giving oral sex.
We're really here just to pick peoples brains, hear about the pros and the cons, the do's and the dont's.
We feel like we are ready but at the same time don't want our early experiences to ruin it for us and we never proceed.
Happy to answer any questions people have.
We're a married couple in our 30's and have had the swinging / hotwife / cuckold fantasies for quite a few years. We never really planned to act on them but at a recent pre-Christmas party things changed. There was a waiter who clearly had a thing for my wife and the party spirit and quite a bit of alcohol saw us proposition him. It only ended up as some very heavy kissing and a blowjob until completion but it went so well and could easily have gone further that we're starting to consider whether we actually want to go down this path. For me just watching wasn't what I thought it would be, I thought I'd only like it if I joined in, that I'd be jealous maybe but I just wanted my wife to experience more. She kept looking at me and actually orgasmed, something she has never done from just giving oral sex.
We're really here just to pick peoples brains, hear about the pros and the cons, the do's and the dont's.
We feel like we are ready but at the same time don't want our early experiences to ruin it for us and we never proceed.
Happy to answer any questions people have.