Missed opportunity?

The possibility that he could have actually had his hand up her sweater and on bra or tits and that she would allow or even encourage him in a room full of people is more than exciting...its thrilling! And strange as it might seem, the possibility that they stole a kiss makes it even hotter. I can absolutely believe that in this scenario, especially thinking they could be caught, she could succumb to the temptation. It would also be a way for her to take the teasing to the next level especially if she stopped him from getting to but not beneath her bra; giving him just another hint at what could follow.
I've got to find a better way of observing them; not to catch them but to actually see how far they're going. Or maybe just get her to talk about it abstractly, like maybe he's lonely and would like some company or something like that. And now that i think about that, that maybe a new approach for me: start talking to her or get her to starting to talk about him living alone and is he dating or seeing anyone (or his sex life!! LOL)! Am I getting too ahead of this?
 
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The possibility that he could have actually had his hand up her sweater and on bra or tits and that she would allow or even encourage him in a room full of people is more than exciting...its thrilling! And strange as it might seem, the possibility that they stole a kiss makes it even hotter. I can absolutely believe that in this scenario, especially thinking they could be caught, she could succumb to the temptation. It would also be a way for her to take the teasing to the next level especially if she stopped him from getting to but not beneath her bra; giving him just another hint at what could follow.
I've got to find a better way of observing them; not to catch them but to actually see how far they're going. Or maybe just get her to talk about it abstractly, like maybe he's lonely and would like some company or something like that. And now that i think about that, that maybe a new approach for me: start talking to her or get her to starting to talk about him living alone and is he dating or seeing anyone (or his sex life!! LOL)! Am I getting too ahead of this?
Well, that was my guess based on his comment of how soft her breasts were to the host. She did find a way to be with him alone and out of sight.

Any other parties or group meetings at a bar coming up? Maybe a business trip, where you can make yourself scarce for a few days?
 
Well, that was my guess based on his comment of how soft her breasts were to the host. She did find a way to be with him alone and out of sight.

Any other parties or group meetings at a bar coming up? Maybe a business trip, where you can make yourself scarce for a few days?
Update coming. I can 'disappear' for a weekend without any issues, but I am torn between giving them the opportunities to get together and the possibility that might miss something. I am not sure what to do. BUT the update may help me depending on what transpires stand by Thanks for keeping the ideas coming. You always seem to think of things I've missed!
 
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Ron, Dan and I have a sort of impromptu schedule once or twice a month when we get together for a ‘boys’ breakfast out and we went to one of our favorites We just talk about the local college football team; the weather; neighborhood events; and the latest pains in the ass our wives can be. Ron usually contributes to the wives discussion about what he thinks we should be doing to keep our wives happy while we stuff our faces..I haven’t seen a hint of anything from him or Dan about what they’re really thinking.

It’s been interesting to me how Ron and to a lesser extent Dan seem so comfortable around me when they’ve know Ron has got sex with my wife on his mind. They seem very content to think about cuckolding me even as we sit across from one another. I have to admit that sometimes my mind will drift a little and give me a glimpse of my naked wife spread out on a bed with Ron and his dick poised above her trimmed pussy. I never seem to get to the penetration before my mind snaps me back to reality.

Ron finally got around to asking me how my wife was doing. I saw Dan give him a quick surprised glance. I don’t think he saw me. I laughed and told him she’s been hornier than usual lately. A saw Dan cast a quick glance at Ron. Ron smiled at me and told me what a lucky dude I was.

I told him I knew how lucky I was especially with my wife’s newly found passion. I wanted to tell him it was like she was having sex with someone else, but restrained myself, not knowing where that might go. I almost laughed out loud when I saw his eyes kind of glaze over and his mind seemed to drift away for a moment. I’d like to think he was imagining my wife like I just had.

We finished and Dan and Ron wanted to hit the restroom before the hour long drive home. I did as well but told them I would wait, since this kind of hole-in-the-wall place only had one stall and one urinal. I went to the cashier to pay the bill. I went back to wait outside the restroom since I didn’t want anyone to get there before I did. I could hear them talking through the rather flimsy door. Dan asked Ron how he was doing with my wife. Ron replied that he thought she might be interested in a little ‘extra curricular fun’ was how he put it. He said she sure wasn’t resisting him copping some feels at the party. He said he was ‘making progress’.

Dan said ‘Holy ......! She let you cop a feel?” Ron laughed and she enjoyed it and he said he told her he could make her a very happy woman for an hour or two and she told him he was just being naughty. Dan remarked that Ron was a lucky fucker if he got a feel and beyond lucky if he ever got in her panties. Ron laughed and said if he did, he’d give her panties to Dan. He said he’d make his own luck with her.

Dan remarked that he’d better be careful; that I’d ...... him if I even suspected. Ron laughed. He said he had a plan and he was confident he could convince my wife. Besides he said those tits, that ass and that pussy would be worth dying for. Then Ron laughed and said he lied about not getting to see much. He said he got a nice a crotch shot from my wife. He said those damned tights apparently have sewn in panties, but he did get an impression of a nice camel toe from what he could see.

Dan replied he’d love at shot at that (my wife) if he ever got a chance, consequences be damned. Ron laughed and said he’d see what he could do. They were talking about passing my wife around! I wondered if she’d go for that!

I heard the sink run as they washed their hands so I quickly retreated a distance away from the door before they came out.

I told them the bill was paid so we could get on the road. Dan asked if I was going to use the restroom. I said I was fine. I actually couldn’t ******** because my dick was too stiff from listening to their plans for my wife. The ride home was long but cordial with just small talk.

I walked in the door at home and my wife wanted to know how we enjoyed breakfast. I told her it was a lot of fun. She asked what we talked about like she always did when I came home from breakfast with the boys) so I told her we talked about her. She turned to me and asked what we said about her. I told her she had a couple of admirers. She said she knew about Ron but was surprised about Dan. He was married. I told her that both thought she was a hottie and I was a lucky guy. She said ‘What’s THAT supposed to mean. I laughed and told her to use her imagination. I saw her face turn into a blush. Then she looked at me with a strange look on her face and smiled (THAT smile) I told her that they both thought she was sexy but I really wanted to tell her what I heard, but it didn’t seem the right time.

She and Ron have got to move this ahead if it’s going to go anywhere. I am sure I stoked his fire with comment about my wife being hornier than ever. Now it’s up to him and her. I need to find a way to stoke her interest as well. I just wish I could find a way (and the courage) to move this along faster. We’ll see.
Update coming. I can 'disappear' for a weekend without any issues, but I am torn between giving them the opportunities to get together and the possibility that might miss something. I am not sure what to do. BUT the update may help me depending on what transpires stand by Thanks for keeping the ideas coming. You always seem to think of things I've missed!
My wife just approached me about having a 'Fat Tuesday' Party like Mardi Gras with the regular 'gang'. Most of them are retired or have flexible work arrangements and I work from home so no one is concerned abot work the following day. This would be an opportunity for lots of alcohol and some down and dirty partying. This crowd is certainly capable of that! And I think she'd be able to find some privacy from that crowd in her own house. Lots of potential...lots of room for disappointment
 
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Ron finally got around to asking me how my wife was doing. I saw Dan give him a quick surprised glance. I don’t think he saw me. I laughed and told him she’s been hornier than usual lately. A saw Dan cast a quick glance at Ron. Ron smiled at me and told me what a lucky dude I was.

Seems your buddies know what is going on...all of them. Could work in your favor as they try to make this happen for Ron, with the thoughts that they might get lucky, too.

I told him I knew how lucky I was especially with my wife’s newly found passion. I wanted to tell him it was like she was having sex with someone else, but restrained myself, not knowing where that might go. I almost laughed out loud when I saw his eyes kind of glaze over and his mind seemed to drift away for a moment. I’d like to think he was imagining my wife like I just had.

Perfect! He is 100% thinking that it him that is causing that with her.

Ron replied that he thought she might be interested in a little ‘extra curricular fun’ was how he put it. He said she sure wasn’t resisting him copping some feels at the party. He said he was ‘making progress’.

Dan said ‘Holy ......! She let you cop a feel?” Ron laughed and she enjoyed it and he said he told her he could make her a very happy woman for an hour or two and she told him he was just being naughty. Dan remarked that Ron was a lucky fucker if he got a feel and beyond lucky if he ever got in her panties. Ron laughed and said if he did, he’d give her panties to Dan. He said he’d make his own luck with her.

Confirmed. He felt her up. At least her tits.

Dan remarked that he’d better be careful; that I’d ...... him if I even suspected. Ron laughed. He said he had a plan and he was confident he could convince my wife. Besides he said those tits, that ass and that pussy would be worth dying for.

Cheating and stealing someones girlfriend/wife always makes things way more interesting. Good that he doesn't know that you know what is going on or even that you want this to happen. He'll try harder thinking he's seducing her without your knowledge.

.....I told her we talked about her. She turned to me and asked what we said about her. I told her she had a couple of admirers. She said she knew about Ron but was surprised about Dan. He was married. I told her that both thought she was a hottie and I was a lucky guy. She said ‘What’s THAT supposed to mean. I laughed and told her to use her imagination. I saw her face turn into a blush. Then she looked at me with a strange look on her face and smiled (THAT smile) I told her that they both thought she was sexy but I really wanted to tell her what I heard, but it didn’t seem the right time.

She loves the attention. You're keeping it in her mind, which is good.
She and Ron have got to move this ahead if it’s going to go anywhere. I am sure I stoked his fire with comment about my wife being hornier than ever. Now it’s up to him and her. I need to find a way to stoke her interest as well. I just wish I could find a way (and the courage) to move this along faster. We’ll see.

From my perspective, it's moving along. He's been encourage by her response so far and she obviously wants it. Like I said, the right opportunity has to present itself. The thrill of getting caught will make for stolen kisses, flashes and touching, but would probably prevent anything more unless they are alone for a good period of time without a chance of being caught.

My wife just approached me about having a 'Fat Tuesday' Party like Mardi Gras with the regular 'gang'. Most of them are retired or have flexible work arrangements and I work from home so no one is concerned abot work the following day. This would be an opportunity for lots of alcohol and some down and dirty partying. This crowd is certainly capable of that! And I think she'd be able to find some privacy from that crowd in her own house. Lots of potential...lots of room for disappointment
Definitely have the party, but make yourself scarce when they are alone. They WILL notice if you're hovering.

Ideas: You (fake) drink too much and retire early. Nature will take its course.
You have to leave that weekend for business, but insist the party still happens. Tell your wife that if anyone is took ...... to drive, they should be put in the guest rooms or couch. I guarantee that Ron will be too ...... to drive that night.
 
Seems your buddies know what is going on...all of them. Could work in your favor as they try to make this happen for Ron, with the thoughts that they might get lucky, too.
Ron told Dan what was happening at the Super bowl party as we were getting ready to leave, so Dan kind of knew the initial part. Now it seems like Dan is interested in her too and Ron seems willing so share (what isn't even his!)
I hope Ron is smart enough to 'seal the deal' before he scares her off with the idea of sharing her with another friend
Perfect! He is 100% thinking that it him that is causing that with her.
I'm almost positive It IS him that's causing her to be hornier than usual. Suddenly she's discovered she's desirable to men even as an 'old' married woman. More on that later
I've been slowing down on our sex to keep her getting hornier too.
Confirmed. He felt her up. At least her tits..
and CONFIRMED she loved having his hands on her. I couldn't actually see too much, but it even looked like he had his cock pressed against her ass at that party...She must have loved that too. She sure didn't stop him.
Cheating and stealing someone's girlfriend/wife always makes things way more interesting. Good that he doesn't know that you know what is going on or even that you want this to happen. He'll try harder thinking he's seducing her without your knowledge.
Agreed
She loves the attention. You're keeping it in her mind, which is good.
Agreed again Like I said She's just discovered that she is indeed desirable to other men and she's loving it. Do you think she might be trying to avoid the ultimate because she thinks he might not go through with it?
From my perspective, it's moving along. He's been encourage by her response so far and she obviously wants it. Like I said, the right opportunity has to present itself. The thrill of getting caught will make for stolen kisses, flashes and touching, but would probably prevent anything more unless they are alone for a good period of time without a chance of being caught.
I know you're right about the right opportunity and the privacy, but he seems to be confident that his house would be a safe haven if she can make the time available or is she just afraid to take that last step (even though they've got plenty of things between cheap feels and actual fucking)
Definitely have the party, but make yourself scarce when they are alone. They WILL notice if you're hovering.

Ideas: You (fake) drink too much and retire early. Nature will take its course.
You have to leave that weekend for business, but insist the party still happens. Tell your wife that if anyone is took ...... to drive, they should be put in the guest rooms or couch. I guarantee that Ron will be too ...... to drive that night.
 
A little background here on my wife. This probably isn't her first dip in the cheating pool. I have strong suspicions that she did this a couple of times when we were first married (kind of young). I think she was more experienced that I was so she still had a need for more satisfactory sex. But I'm positive she hasn't done it in decades of marriage. I think the fact that she suddenly see's herself as desirable again, even though I constantly tell her she's sexy and that other men often look at her has kind of got her thinking and I am THRILLED about THAT!
 
Well, that was my guess based on his comment of how soft her breasts were to the host. She did find a way to be with him alone and out of sight.

Any other parties or group meetings at a bar coming up? Maybe a business trip, where you can make yourself scarce for a few days?
Dudes lie to each other all the time. Who knows how much he actually pulled off or might be exaggerating the brush he had against the side her breast that OP described in Part 2
 
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Part three Breakfast club

Ron, Dan and I have a sort of impromptu schedule once or twice a month when we get together for a ‘boys’ breakfast out and we went to one of our favorites We just talk about the local college football team; the weather; neighborhood events; and the latest pains in the ass our wives can be. Ron usually contributes to the wives discussion about what he thinks we should be doing to keep our wives happy while we stuff our faces..I haven’t seen a hint of anything from him or Dan about what they’re really thinking.

It’s been interesting to me how Ron and to a lesser extent Dan seem so comfortable around me when they’ve know Ron has got sex with my wife on his mind. They seem very content to think about cuckolding me even as we sit across from one another. I have to admit that sometimes my mind will drift a little and give me a glimpse of my naked wife spread out on a bed with Ron and his dick poised above her trimmed pussy. I never seem to get to the penetration before my mind snaps me back to reality.

Ron finally got around to asking me how my wife was doing. I saw Dan give him a quick surprised glance. I don’t think he saw me. I laughed and told him she’s been hornier than usual lately. A saw Dan cast a quick glance at Ron. Ron smiled at me and told me what a lucky dude I was.

I told him I knew how lucky I was especially with my wife’s newly found passion. I wanted to tell him it was like she was having sex with someone else, but restrained myself, not knowing where that might go. I almost laughed out loud when I saw his eyes kind of glaze over and his mind seemed to drift away for a moment. I’d like to think he was imagining my wife like I just had.

We finished and Dan and Ron wanted to hit the restroom before the hour long drive home. I did as well but told them I would wait, since this kind of hole-in-the-wall place only had one stall and one urinal. I went to the cashier to pay the bill. I went back to wait outside the restroom since I didn’t want anyone to get there before I did. I could hear them talking through the rather flimsy door. Dan asked Ron how he was doing with my wife. Ron replied that he thought she might be interested in a little ‘extra curricular fun’ was how he put it. He said she sure wasn’t resisting him copping some feels at the party. He said he was ‘making progress’.

Dan said ‘Holy ......! She let you cop a feel?” Ron laughed and she enjoyed it and he said he told her he could make her a very happy woman for an hour or two and she told him he was just being naughty. Dan remarked that Ron was a lucky fucker if he got a feel and beyond lucky if he ever got in her panties. Ron laughed and said if he did, he’d give her panties to Dan. He said he’d make his own luck with her.

Dan remarked that he’d better be careful; that I’d ...... him if I even suspected. Ron laughed. He said he had a plan and he was confident he could convince my wife. Besides he said those tits, that ass and that pussy would be worth dying for. Then Ron laughed and said he lied about not getting to see much. He said he got a nice a crotch shot from my wife. He said those damned tights apparently have sewn in panties, but he did get an impression of a nice camel toe from what he could see.

Dan replied he’d love at shot at that (my wife) if he ever got a chance, consequences be damned. Ron laughed and said he’d see what he could do. They were talking about passing my wife around! I wondered if she’d go for that!

I heard the sink run as they washed their hands so I quickly retreated a distance away from the door before they came out.

I told them the bill was paid so we could get on the road. Dan asked if I was going to use the restroom. I said I was fine. I actually couldn’t ******** because my dick was too stiff from listening to their plans for my wife. The ride home was long but cordial with just small talk.

I walked in the door at home and my wife wanted to know how we enjoyed breakfast. I told her it was a lot of fun. She asked what we talked about like she always did when I came home from breakfast with the boys) so I told her we talked about her. She turned to me and asked what we said about her. I told her she had a couple of admirers. She said she knew about Ron but was surprised about Dan. He was married. I told her that both thought she was a hottie and I was a lucky guy. She said ‘What’s THAT supposed to mean. I laughed and told her to use her imagination. I saw her face turn into a blush. Then she looked at me with a strange look on her face and smiled (THAT smile) I told her that they both thought she was sexy but I really wanted to tell her what I heard, but it didn’t seem the right time.

She and Ron have got to move this ahead if it’s going to go anywhere. I am sure I stoked his fire with comment about my wife being hornier than ever. Now it’s up to him and her. I need to find a way to stoke her interest as well. I just wish I could find a way (and the courage) to move this along faster. We’ll see.

My wife just approached me about having a 'Fat Tuesday' Party like Mardi Gras with the regular 'gang'. Most of them are retired or have flexible work arrangements and I work from home so no one is concerned abot work the following day. This would be an opportunity for lots of alcohol and some down and dirty partying. This crowd is certainly capable of that! And I think she'd be able to find some privacy from that crowd in her own house. Lots of potential...lots of room for disappointment
I'm still surprised you're not going for a "wetness check" after they interact or you bring him up lol
 
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I've been trying to think of any way to check on her arousal. The only way(s) I've come up with:
1) check to see if she's got all of her underwear that she had before. Tough since its hard to hover over her when she's dressing and undressing.
2) Are her breasts/nipples aroused? This is too temporary a condition to check with any accuracy unless I observe her when she's actually interacting. But you make a good point here, especially since she usually doesn't wear a bra around the house. If I can engage her in the right conversation or stir up some recent memory, she may get turned on enough to show me some 'pokies' unless he blouse/shirt is too thick to show them.
3) The 'wet panties test. I'd have to get to them in her laundry to feel or even sniff them. Timing on this would be an issue but possible.
I could flat out ask her but neither she nor I are ready for that yet
So far nothing I've tried has worked although I have noticed her nipples erect on pertinent occasions.
Do you have any suggestions?
 
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Dudes lie to each other all the time. Who knows how much he actually pulled off or might be exaggerating the brush he had against the side her breast that OP described in Part 2
You're about dudes bragging, but I noticed enough of what was happening to believe at least most of what he said and he didn't even mention that he had his dick against her ass (at least it looked that way to me. Did he actually get a crotch shot? I can't verify that.
But he was right about her soft tits...LOL!
 
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I've been trying to think of any way to check on her arousal. The only way(s) I've come up with:
1) check to see if she's got all of her underwear that she had before. Tough since its hard to hover over her when she's dressing and undressing.
2) Are her breasts/nipples aroused? This is too temporary a condition to check with any accuracy unless I observe her when she's actually interacting. But you make a good point here, especially since she usually doesn't wear a bra around the house. If I can engage her in the right conversation or stir up some recent memory, she may get turned on enough to show me some 'pokies' unless he blouse/shirt is too thick to show them.
3) The 'wet panties test. I'd have to get to them in her laundry to feel or even sniff them. Timing on this would be an issue but possible.
I could flat out ask her but neither she nor I are ready for that yet
So far nothing I've tried has worked although I have noticed her nipples erect on pertinent occasions.
Do you have any suggestions?
I do, but reading your posts(super hot by way) your dynamic is different from mine with my wife. I feel mine up all the time. Pinching, groping grabbing, etc.
So if it was me and my was a bit more timid, shortly after the conversation (if you're feeling bold, during,) maybe pull her to you and and give her some playful kisses, making her think it was leading to more while running your hands down her back and then, slip right into the panties and brush your finger(s) across her lips. You'll know.

You could also look for an opportunity when her front is pressed against something like the kitchen countertop or bathroom sink and kind of recreate what he was doing at the game and then mention his name before you reach around front and down for a check. If it triggers for the memory, you'll know how ready she is.
 
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I LOVE your idea. It sounds like fun in its own right, but you're right. The dynamic between us is a little different. Its not too likely that just the mention of his name or event would necessarily trigger the response that I would need. She needs a little more time to show responses. By the time she got into the memory or fantasy it could just be her responding to my stimulation as opposed to her own.. Thanks for the feedback!
 
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Seems your buddies know what is going on...all of them. Could work in your favor as they try to make this happen for Ron, with the thoughts that they might get lucky, too.



Perfect! He is 100% thinking that it him that is causing that with her.



Confirmed. He felt her up. At least her tits.



Cheating and stealing someones girlfriend/wife always makes things way more interesting. Good that he doesn't know that you know what is going on or even that you want this to happen. He'll try harder thinking he's seducing her without your knowledge.



She loves the attention. You're keeping it in her mind, which is good.


From my perspective, it's moving along. He's been encourage by her response so far and she obviously wants it. Like I said, the right opportunity has to present itself. The thrill of getting caught will make for stolen kisses, flashes and touching, but would probably prevent anything more unless they are alone for a good period of time without a chance of being caught.


Definitely have the party, but make yourself scarce when they are alone. They WILL notice if you're hovering.

Ideas: You (fake) drink too much and retire early. Nature will take its course.
You have to leave that weekend for business, but insist the party still happens. Tell your wife that if anyone is took ...... to drive, they should be put in the guest rooms or couch. I guarantee that Ron will be too ...... to drive that night.
Fat Tuesday party fell through...too short a notice. My birthday is coming up so we'll see if something happens between now and then or if we have to wait or invent an occasion.
 
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Call a breakfast with Ron and Dan for your birthday at your house at 8am, don’t tell your wife. On the day of breakfast you leave the house at 730 and say you have to do something for work and you’ll be back at noon. Now tell her about breakfast
 
You have to leave that weekend for business, but insist the party still happens. Tell your wife that if anyone is took ...... to drive, they should be put in the guest rooms or couch. I guarantee that Ron will be too ...... to drive that night.

THAT might have worked! If no one else volunteered to drive him home. Remenber that no one really trusts him alone with any women... or he could leave and return when the other guests had left?
 
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There's a message waiting for approval where I say that I'm rooting for you and has a link to my first stag experience which has many similarities to yours. If you don't want to wait for it to be approved, it's on my profile under "Postings"

The other reason I thought Ron might be exaggerating what he's done/seen from your wife is that he's known to be untrustworthy and she seems to have told you most if not every interaction. Maybe I missed something, but I mean, your story starts with her walking right up to you and others telling you that Ron wants to have an affair. And while I know you said you think she might have cheated early on, she seems more timid and maybe even would be offended if he thought he could be so forward as to grab her and remark, "she had the softest tits; tightest ass and hottest body he had ever felt." It also felt like he revises his earlier statement, when there was no reason to lie,(he's telling Dan everything else) that she initiated the crotch shot.

However... if everything Ron says is true, she's ready and she might just want to make sure you're okay with it or have the stones to just come right out and address it. You know her better than we do, but if Ron has been able to grope your wife on at least one occasion and in the vicinity of your close friends, she's not as timid as you think. Just my opinion.