Missed opportunity?

Do you want her to go out, get fucked and then come home to tell you about it....or more like cleanup? You might scare her off if you let her know too soon. The "cheating" is part of the thrill with this guy. Since she is deep in the cheating part now, it might be difficult transitioning. Plus if Ron knows that you know, he'll let everyone know.

I want her to fuck him in front of me..wife sharing not cleanup. I agree with you in trying to be cautious and not scare her (or him) off. We've come so far already and not seen any real reluctance...just secretive I don't know if he's getting off on the cheating part, or if she is. Her motives are still hard to determine. I mean she keeps playing with him and getting more intense, but she just keeps from going all the way. I don't get it!!! From what I've been able to glean, he just wants to fuck her. He couldn't care less about anything but that pussy that seems to just be out of his reach. He may be a one and done just to say he did it? (I doubt that...she can be a fantastic lay)



Plus if Ron knows that you know, he'll let everyone know.

I don't think he'll blab about him fucking her. 1) he'd be ostracized by our friends and 2) he'd screw up any future future chance to fuck her. Dan is the exception, they're very good friends and Ron even volunteered to share her.
Other than that, Ron will be discreet and he'll make sure Dan is as well

Maybe start talking about how sexy she looks. Don't overdo that part, though. When other guys look, tell her that she was being checked out. Then let her know how it turns you on. Again don't overdo that. When she starts getting comfortable with that, then you can start encouraging her to flirt and to let you know what the reaction is from the other men. Step up the encouragement with Ron about how much that guy wants her, etc., pretending you know nothing.
I always tell her how sexy and attractive she is but I've been trying to do this kind of low key for a while, Maybe too low key. Maybe its time to step that up just a little? Maybe try to sense her response to a little more direct comments.
I haven't asked her about him making anymore comments about them. That may be my next step...,just curious in a kind of encouraging way (if I can figure that out...she'll probably respond positively to that. flatttery she always responds to that. I like this approach now that I think about it!

Step up the encouragement with Ron about how much that guy wants her, etc., pretending you know nothing.
So you think I should tell her how much I think Ron likes the way she dresses and does she dress for him?
 
So you think I should tell her how much I think Ron likes the way she dresses and does she dress for him?
Maybe. I could be wrong. Too much and she'll try harder to hide it from her. If she doesn't believe you suspect anything, she's more likely to push boundaries and risk. I think that is what happened before. Too many questions from you and the hovering made her nervous. If you do say something it will have to be calculated.