My situation with my wife

UPDATE

She did flirt with a handsome man yesterday. She told me it felt weird but good. Nothing inappropriate happened and she didn’t give him her real name.

Later that night we had sex and I told her to close her eyes and think of him. She came like crazy.

I think I’m good…
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Why are you guys so scared to just tell your wife the thought of her fucking another man turns you on? It seems so much simpler and faster than all this other bullshit.. Even if she says no you still planted the seed.. No you can always bring it in conversation especially when she's wet and horny.. Ask her what was the biggest cock she ever fucked, ask her questions until she's telling you about it.. Next time ask her what's the biggest cock she would like to fuck.. Now it's a topic of conversation when you have sex. She'll tell you about all her past lovers.. Then she'll be wanting more...
I totally agree with you. Like you, my wife and I indulged in role in play pretending to be other people. When I suggested we do it for real, she was all for fucking another guy, but she wasn't keen on me fucking another woman. It took me all of fifteen minutes to convince her. Her first extra marital fuck happened just a few days later.