My situation with my wife

We went out to the bar. She flirted with a tourist as I was drinking alone. Later she gave me a sign to leave and go back home. I did and she came 4 hours later. They did fuck in his apartment as she said when she came back. Guy was average size and a little smaller than me but he was very dominant and he treated her like a slut which she never expected to like it but she actually did. He was a little more violent than she would like but still he was very good at sex according to her. She also loved that he kept praising her especially when she sucked his balls and he kept saying what a great ass she has. (She really does have). Only things they didn’t do despite the fact he wanted to was anal and her to eat his ass (he ate hers and she liked it). He finished 3 times and used condoms of course. One time on her face and the other two on her ass
 
one of my fears in all of this is the "already friends" thing. My husband continues to want me to pick out guys to flirt with but I know it will not go well if I pick our friend Charlie, but that seems to be where this is going. Reality for him is going to be very different that his fantasy I am afraid
 
one of my fears in all of this is the "already friends" thing. My husband continues to want me to pick out guys to flirt with but I know it will not go well if I pick our friend Charlie, but that seems to be where this is going. Reality for him is going to be very different that his fantasy I am afraid
Just have to communicate and give it a try