I have had the desire to share my wife for about 6 years now and have encouraged her along the way. It is a big turn on for both of us and we have fantasized about it often. We have gone to swing clubs and have enjoyed but have never played. Over the past few years she expressed interest in a friend of mine and we played a few times it was ok but he started to flake out being a little disrespectful so we both agreed to discontinue plus he wasn’t that great ( one and done) we enjoyed each time even though it wasn’t perfect it got us comfortable with adding a male to the mix. My wife has a guy we know is in the life still and has gotten very turned on fantasizing about him. I want her to enjoy herself I kinda of stared her into enjoying the idea of being a Hotwife and now things are progressing and they are talking. He knows we are in the lifestyle and they have talked on.the phone and he knows she is interested in playing. We have been married 25 years and have a strong relationship and love each other very much. They are planning on meeting for coffee soon to talk he knows I know no secret however I have never directly spoke with him. I want to use this forum for support because this isn’t subject you talk to friends about they would not understand. So I find my self looking for positive feedback , I am very turned on but it’s new and I need help processing. Is it possible to let your wife have a fwb and okay with it I’m looking for tips guys so let me know if you have had good experience with this. Thanks look forward to hearing how you manage to make this work