Need advice on my strategy to convince my vanilla wife to cuck me.

fmwanon

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Nov 16, 2022
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My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?
 
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Patience. Lots of patience. Don't push, and she will likely perceive that you are pushing long before you think you are.

She needs to feel safe. She needs to know that if she sticks a toe in the water, you aren't going to push her into the pool. Think it terms of years, not months. Enjoy the journey. The good news is, the longer you wait, the hotter it gets and the more it will blow your mind when she spreads her happily married legs and you hear the sounds of your bride cumming harder than she ever has before, on the cock of another man!
 

Chewbacca

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What finally worked with my wife was getting her to read this how to hw manual called The Faithful Hotwife, I found on Amazon.
Written by a woman for women it takes them through a bunch of challenges to build up their confidence in becoming or acting like a hotwife.
My wife was super vanilla and has come a long way into playing a slut wife and cucking me.
 

amateur_19

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What finally worked with my wife was getting her to read this how to hw manual called The Faithful Hotwife, I found on Amazon.
Written by a woman for women it takes them through a bunch of challenges to build up their confidence in becoming or acting like a hotwife.
My wife was super vanilla and has come a long way into playing a slut wife and cucking me.
By the women, for the women, of the women. Lol sounds like democracy policy 😂
 
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rayxx1

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My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?
She hot
 
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fmwanon

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I got one from blissfulcreations on etsy. I got the pool boy, which is 5.9 inches circumference and 8 inches in length. She has worked her way up to 5.75 inches in circumference and 7 inches in length, but I can always control penetration with the sleeve so this is a bit of an upgrade. I am just happy to get her to admit she likes big dicks lol
 
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I got one from blissfulcreations on etsy. I got the pool boy, which is 5.9 inches circumference and 8 inches in length. She has worked her way up to 5.75 inches in circumference and 7 inches in length, but I can always control penetration with the sleeve so this is a bit of an upgrade. I am just happy to get her to admit she likes big dicks lol
Elaborate on how it went with the large dildo.
 
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fmwanon

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Elaborate on how it went with the large dildo.
I passed on the sleeve, it was just awkward to use because the base got so big. Using the big dildos has been great. I start by fucking her to warm her up then I move to a medium size dildo. Once she is dripping I switch to the big boys and she is moaning and begging me not to stop saying that she loves big dick. Lol I love it and glad I can give this to my awesome wife.
 

Sgt Ray

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I passed on the sleeve, it was just awkward to use because the base got so big. Using the big dildos has been great. I start by fucking her to warm her up then I move to a medium size dildo. Once she is dripping I switch to the big boys and she is moaning and begging me not to stop saying that she loves big dick. Lol I love it and glad I can give this to my awesome wife.
THATS when you talk about her fucking some big cock bull!!!
No emotional connection with a proper bull.
Just sex (usually a larger cock), as much as she can take. And if he's clean and can prove it, have him pump a load or 3 in her pussy.
Then you get to clean her up.
 

MarcandLilly

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Just an example: One of my wife's friends had been debating whether she should cuck her husband. My wife eventually tired of her prattling so invited her over for a pool party. The only other guests were a few guys with 10" or more. All the guys were swimming naked so she got a good eyeful. By the evening she and another guy were in one of the upstairs bedrooms engaging in raucous sex. My wife volunteered my services for clean up and she was hooked. She put plenty of horns on her husband's head although he never knew it. That's one way.
 

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Just an example: One of my wife's friends had been debating whether she should cuck her husband. My wife eventually tired of her prattling so invited her over for a pool party. The only other guests were a few guys with 10" or more. All the guys were swimming naked so she got a good eyeful. By the evening she and another guy were in one of the upstairs bedrooms engaging in raucous sex. My wife volunteered my services for clean up and she was hooked. She put plenty of horns on her husband's head although he never knew it. That's one way.
Your wife did well. Love how she offered your cleanup service.