Need advice on my strategy to convince my vanilla wife to cuck me.

[Dfwstag]

Most important thing is good communication and with that she will start feeling more comfortable and will start to overcome any objections, but to do so you need to openly talk about the pros and cons as well as any concerns either one may have and together come to an agreement on how to overcome objections and what is and is not acceptable.

It takes time to get comfortable with unconventional ideas or activities so patience and working together to do so is key

 

[Sherryscuck]

My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?

What worked for me with 2 different woman was the constant dirty talk in bed as that's when she is the most venerable to the change and constant reassurance that this would be good for you both and it turns you on big time. She needs to know for sure that it's ok for her to enjoy other men. Tell her you would be proud of her if she could just let go and enjoy herself with another man and then share that with you in bed and all together. All these things worked for me and always be honest!! Honesty is always the best policy. Im older now but im sure I could convert almost any woman over a relatively short time 3-6 month. But I never push.

 

[farmbitch]

What worked for me with 2 different woman was the constant dirty talk in bed as that's when she is the most venerable to the change and constant reassurance that this would be good for you both and it turns you on big time. She needs to know for sure that it's ok for her to enjoy other men. Tell her you would be proud of her if she could just let go and enjoy herself with another man and then share that with you in bed and all together. All these things worked for me and always be honest!! Honesty is always the best policy. Im older now but im sure I could convert almost any woman over a relatively short time 3-6 month. But I never push.

and some good homemade porn tooo

 

[CONST65]

It took me almost 20 years of gently leading her to the pont where she was ready to fuck another man and the first time she did there was no going back she was hooked, the important word in this post is lead you will never get her to enjoy it if you push.

True you start by her dressing sexy saying how good she looks take her out complement her telling her guys are noticing her let her dance with someobe if the guy asks before you know it shes liking the feeling and let it build from there

 

[Pdiddy19]

Watch BBC porn with sluts that resemble her and don’t forget the Mandingo dildo.

 

[CONST65]

My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?

Continue what your doing buy her some sexy outfits take her out for a nice night.Tell.her how hot she looks.. Tell.her you saw a guy checking her out..The more you two go.out if a guy asks her do danceif shes up to.it tell.her howgood she looked dancing with him.
.Then take her home for a very intense night ..In time she willmore more into playing and possibly evenhave s3x outside if your marriage

 

[Pdiddy19]

Continue what your doing buy her some sexy outfits take her out for a nice night.Tell.her how hot she looks.. Tell.her you saw a guy checking her out..The more you two go.out if a guy asks her do danceif shes up to.it tell.her howgood she looked dancing with him.
.Then take her home for a very intense night ..In time she willmore more into playing and possibly evenhave s3x outside if your marriage

Horny powder, alcohol, cigarettes, lingerie, dildos, BBC porn, hip hop music, other men watching her get freaky, dirty talk….TRAINING.

 

[CONST65]

Cool. Which one? We have been using them since 2015 and even stack them to get different lengths and girth.
My link was wrong, it should be https://www.reddit.com/r/PenisSleeve/.

In time she will.be craving a real.big one

 

[CONST65]

Watch BBC porn with sluts that resemble her and don’t forget the Mandingo dildo.

First beautiful eyes beautiful lips mad3 for kissi g and sucking

 

[Pdiddy19]

First beautiful eyes beautiful lips mad3 for kissi g and sucking

The look in her eyes when seeing her first BBC.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Take it slow & easy. Don't push it, but make it a part of ur usual conversation. Get her unterested, involved, asking questions.
ASSURE her it has ZERO to do with you being with other women.
Its about her. Her enjoyment. Her pleasure.
You want to see her TOTALLY sexually satisfied,
like a real woman wants & needs.

 

[CONST65]

Take it slow & easy. Don't push it, but make it a part of ur usual conversation. Get her unterested, involved, asking questions.
ASSURE her it has ZERO to do with you being with other women.
Its about her. Her enjoyment. Her pleasure.
You want to see her TOTALLY sexually satisfied,
like a real woman wants & needs.

You are so true She sometimes will a start by making me dress her. For her dates.. This also.gats added to by when i got to.touch her kiss her etc. I get told 'NO' I'm saying my body.for the stud i will.be with tonight. I need a good hard fucking and my body needs to.be ready for him

 

[Sgt Ray]

Hell, she's got you dressing her for dates?
Oh yeah, she's DEFINITELY cucking you!
Enjoy it. Subtly encourage her. She'll love
you (and fuck them) for it...
Lucky cuckie.

 

[CONST65]

Hell, she's got you dressing her for dates?
Oh yeah, she's DEFINITELY cucking you!
Enjoy it. Subtly encourage her. She'll love
you (and fuck them) for it...
Lucky cuckie.

It works for both of us she has ne dress her . Vebally tease mecwhen she goe to.leave she says to.me leave my cock.alone i want you ready to fuck.me when i return

 

[Sgt Ray]

So, wait. You get to fuck her when she comes back after a date and a possible fucking?
Does she make you clean it/her up?

 

[franklyn]

My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?

The simple fact is if she's not into it and it isn't her make-up the only thing you will accomplish by pushing her is probably losing her. I gave it my best shot but in the end she's just not made that way.

 

[Sgt Ray]

See, what I read here is she just needs GENTLE encouragement is what she needs. Porn os good IF she has no problem with it. Take her out, loosen her up with some drinks. Just go slow. Ideally, you want it to seem like its her idea.

 

[CONST65]

So, wait. You get to fuck her when she comes back after a date and a possible fucking?
Does she make you clean it/her up?

 

[CONST65]

No

 

[Vixencucksteel]

My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?

So is your goal to fulfill your fantasy or expand / increase her sexual pleasure? As a woman I can definitely tell you how your post reads.... maybe focus on her pleasure versus finding ways to push her into your idea of what should happen...