Need advice on my strategy to convince my vanilla wife to cuck me.

fmwanon

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Nov 16, 2022
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My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?
 
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Patience. Lots of patience. Don't push, and she will likely perceive that you are pushing long before you think you are.

She needs to feel safe. She needs to know that if she sticks a toe in the water, you aren't going to push her into the pool. Think it terms of years, not months. Enjoy the journey. The good news is, the longer you wait, the hotter it gets and the more it will blow your mind when she spreads her happily married legs and you hear the sounds of your bride cumming harder than she ever has before, on the cock of another man!
 

Chewbacca

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What finally worked with my wife was getting her to read this how to hw manual called The Faithful Hotwife, I found on Amazon.
Written by a woman for women it takes them through a bunch of challenges to build up their confidence in becoming or acting like a hotwife.
My wife was super vanilla and has come a long way into playing a slut wife and cucking me.
 
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amateur_19

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Sep 30, 2022
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What finally worked with my wife was getting her to read this how to hw manual called The Faithful Hotwife, I found on Amazon.
Written by a woman for women it takes them through a bunch of challenges to build up their confidence in becoming or acting like a hotwife.
My wife was super vanilla and has come a long way into playing a slut wife and cucking me.
By the women, for the women, of the women. Lol sounds like democracy policy 😂
 
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rayxx1

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My wife is so Vanilla that she would only have sex in a couple positions, in the dark and no dirty talk. I told her we needed to change things up and bring in toys. She was reluctant, but now she really likes the toys (wands, bullets). I told her I wanted her to try a big toy and that she deserved to try a big cock (dildo). She was shocked and not open to it, but finally said okay. I am sure she wants to but is afraid to show interest. She is also starting to talk dirty, trying new positions and letting me throat fuck her and take photos. I am hoping the big realistic dildos will get her to crave bigger cocks because that is the goal. I am also going to try to introduce porn. Do you guys think this is a good starter strategy to get my wife open to cuckolding me or having threesomes?
She hot
 
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It took me almost 20 years of gently leading her to the pont where she was ready to fuck another man and the first time she did there was no going back she was hooked, the important word in this post is lead you will never get her to enjoy it if you push.
 

fmwanon

Male
Nov 16, 2022
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I got one from blissfulcreations on etsy. I got the pool boy, which is 5.9 inches circumference and 8 inches in length. She has worked her way up to 5.75 inches in circumference and 7 inches in length, but I can always control penetration with the sleeve so this is a bit of an upgrade. I am just happy to get her to admit she likes big dicks lol
 
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