Can't wait for the update today, I hope it went well!
Nervous and need advice please
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I’m really hoping she had a great night with him. This is a great story and waiting for an update!!
My apologies to all on the suspense and delay.
We recently had each of our parents get sick and pass away. All within a 3 month period so we fell into a place of grief. So updated here wasn’t on my mind. Time passed and she lost her loved one about 2 months later. Life just took us away from our sexual desires/fantasies.
I will post an update sometime this week on how that night went. I know it’s been awhile and the passion feels out of the timeframe but I’ll do it anyways. Thanks to all commenters
We recently had each of our parents get sick and pass away. All within a 3 month period so we fell into a place of grief. So updated here wasn’t on my mind. Time passed and she lost her loved one about 2 months later. Life just took us away from our sexual desires/fantasies.
I will post an update sometime this week on how that night went. I know it’s been awhile and the passion feels out of the timeframe but I’ll do it anyways. Thanks to all commenters
So without further delay…
That night didn’t play out as I thought it would and that’s ok. She was nervous and did put the outfit on when she got there. She felt many emotions and decided not to go through with it.
Was it a good thing since right after my father got sick and her mom later? And their passing could have made things more complicated. Maybe it was a sign to delay what could have caused further issues.
I’m a firm believer in things like this. It’s not off the table by any means. It’s just bad timing. We are moving along and look forward to this possibility. I appreciate all responses and will be more active once things are brighter.
That night didn’t play out as I thought it would and that’s ok. She was nervous and did put the outfit on when she got there. She felt many emotions and decided not to go through with it.
Was it a good thing since right after my father got sick and her mom later? And their passing could have made things more complicated. Maybe it was a sign to delay what could have caused further issues.
I’m a firm believer in things like this. It’s not off the table by any means. It’s just bad timing. We are moving along and look forward to this possibility. I appreciate all responses and will be more active once things are brighter.
My condolences to you both. Many of us know the grief of losing parents and loved ones, but you never really get over the grief, it just takes different forms. Take your time and sort things out. Other men will be there to play with when you both decide it's appropriate. Best wishes to you both.
sounds like its going to be a lot of energy / stress that will be relesed when she opens a chapter in her life.
Hope to hear more soon. Sorry to hear about your situation. Hopefully getting on with the fun stuff will provide a distraction.
I echo curious 136. Hope all is well soon. When she eventually brings you that creampie, share it with us please !
So we have been taking small steps and being naughty in some ways. We thought maybe this route might be easier for now.
Example, lately, she’s been walking around topless at night with window shades drawn while the neighbors are outside having some beers. Our neighbors are a few bachelors who like to flirt with her. Or our other neighbor who likes to talk her when she’s tanning topless in our back yard. Which isn’t really that big of a deal but it’s a turn on for me.
I’m ok with whatever pace she leads with. It’s about her comfort. Just wanted to share this. I know it’s not much but we are progressing from what happened.
Thanks everyone for the support
Example, lately, she’s been walking around topless at night with window shades drawn while the neighbors are outside having some beers. Our neighbors are a few bachelors who like to flirt with her. Or our other neighbor who likes to talk her when she’s tanning topless in our back yard. Which isn’t really that big of a deal but it’s a turn on for me.
I’m ok with whatever pace she leads with. It’s about her comfort. Just wanted to share this. I know it’s not much but we are progressing from what happened.
Thanks everyone for the support
I’ve asked her about posting a few pics and maybe a vid of her. She’s not opposed to it so hopefully we can get some up soon
So I have some possible bad news. Yesterday, I came home 4 1/2 hrs early. I almost never leave work early unless a Dr’s appt and it’s typically once a year. Yesterday I had a severe migraine which I’ve started getting recently. It was extremely hot and humid and I think dehydration played a huge role.
Anyways, when I got home, I heard the dogs barking so I figured the neighbors in the back had company and it drives my dogs to bark until we bring them around us in the living room. So I go towards the back and I started hearing noises of someone having sex. I figured my wife was probably watching porn and masturbating, which isn’t out of the ordinary. So I thought, wow I’m gonna get some hot sex! Well, after listening for all of 10 seconds, I heard her say the neighbors name!
I was like, wtf!?!?! Is she fantasizing & masturbating??? So I listened for about another 10 seconds and heard my neighbor telling her to “take all his cock!”. Omg! I didn’t know what to do! I froze and stayed there listening with fear and anger. Fear that I would most likely get my ass kicked if I went in there in a rage and anger from the betrayal. It was so loud, I could hear it with windows closed.
I ended up leaving and driving down a few blocks and parked, contemplating what I should do. For about half hour, l sat there and then watched as he went back across the street. This is the new neighbors that moved in. It’s a guy and his nephew. Same ones that have watched and flirted with her when she tanned topless. He’s intimidating because he’s in shape and has this “don’t fuck with me” demeanor.
I ended up waiting about another half hour and decided to call her and tell her I was almost home. She didn’t answer, so when I got there, she was in bed naked.
She fell asleep! She woke up and looked a little startled. I said I came home early due to the heat and I was analyzing everything. Her panties were on the nightstand, her hair was messed up, the room smelled of sweat and sex, and the dogs were gated in the kitchen which was odd.
I asked her, what happened? She says she fell asleep and forgot about the dogs. I said what’s that smell? She says she didn’t smell anything.
I had this sudden urge to hint at having sex to see her reaction. I got close to her and she immediately started grabbing me and pulled my pants down. I was in shock! She started giving me a bj like she worshiped it.
I didn’t have the strength to say anything else. It felt so good yet it was on my mind. When she decided to ride me, I wanted to stop her but no words came out. She jumped on me and placed me inside her. I’ve never felt that wetness before. It was just like after you cum in someone and try to keep going. I knew then, he came inside her. Her body smelled of sweat and cum. It started to make me insanely horny. We had some really good sex and I finished and told her I needed to shower.
During my shower, I became upset with my weakness as well as her betrayal. I don’t know what to do. I feel as if I can’t trust her anymore. Am I right for that? Is it my fault for feeding her to have sex with other men? Obviously I was to be a part of that. So this is betrayal I feel. I definitely won’t be telling him anything. I do t think it’s his fault. He’s not my friend and it will be very awkward knowing he’s slept with my wife. And how long has this been going on? I want to say something but I feel she would have admitted to it. Like the guilt would be eating her up. Idk maybe I’m over thinking and should just tell her that I heard them and that we need to talk about what we need to do.
At the same time, I feel her grief and anger could have drive her over the edge and acted out without thinking about consequences. I know her mom was her best friend and she’s struggling. Yet, it’s not an excuse.
Anyways, when I got home, I heard the dogs barking so I figured the neighbors in the back had company and it drives my dogs to bark until we bring them around us in the living room. So I go towards the back and I started hearing noises of someone having sex. I figured my wife was probably watching porn and masturbating, which isn’t out of the ordinary. So I thought, wow I’m gonna get some hot sex! Well, after listening for all of 10 seconds, I heard her say the neighbors name!
I was like, wtf!?!?! Is she fantasizing & masturbating??? So I listened for about another 10 seconds and heard my neighbor telling her to “take all his cock!”. Omg! I didn’t know what to do! I froze and stayed there listening with fear and anger. Fear that I would most likely get my ass kicked if I went in there in a rage and anger from the betrayal. It was so loud, I could hear it with windows closed.
I ended up leaving and driving down a few blocks and parked, contemplating what I should do. For about half hour, l sat there and then watched as he went back across the street. This is the new neighbors that moved in. It’s a guy and his nephew. Same ones that have watched and flirted with her when she tanned topless. He’s intimidating because he’s in shape and has this “don’t fuck with me” demeanor.
I ended up waiting about another half hour and decided to call her and tell her I was almost home. She didn’t answer, so when I got there, she was in bed naked.
She fell asleep! She woke up and looked a little startled. I said I came home early due to the heat and I was analyzing everything. Her panties were on the nightstand, her hair was messed up, the room smelled of sweat and sex, and the dogs were gated in the kitchen which was odd.
I asked her, what happened? She says she fell asleep and forgot about the dogs. I said what’s that smell? She says she didn’t smell anything.
I had this sudden urge to hint at having sex to see her reaction. I got close to her and she immediately started grabbing me and pulled my pants down. I was in shock! She started giving me a bj like she worshiped it.
I didn’t have the strength to say anything else. It felt so good yet it was on my mind. When she decided to ride me, I wanted to stop her but no words came out. She jumped on me and placed me inside her. I’ve never felt that wetness before. It was just like after you cum in someone and try to keep going. I knew then, he came inside her. Her body smelled of sweat and cum. It started to make me insanely horny. We had some really good sex and I finished and told her I needed to shower.
During my shower, I became upset with my weakness as well as her betrayal. I don’t know what to do. I feel as if I can’t trust her anymore. Am I right for that? Is it my fault for feeding her to have sex with other men? Obviously I was to be a part of that. So this is betrayal I feel. I definitely won’t be telling him anything. I do t think it’s his fault. He’s not my friend and it will be very awkward knowing he’s slept with my wife. And how long has this been going on? I want to say something but I feel she would have admitted to it. Like the guilt would be eating her up. Idk maybe I’m over thinking and should just tell her that I heard them and that we need to talk about what we need to do.
At the same time, I feel her grief and anger could have drive her over the edge and acted out without thinking about consequences. I know her mom was her best friend and she’s struggling. Yet, it’s not an excuse.
Maybe , turn the tables on her . Use a blindfold tie her wrist up . Talk dirty to her , but make it about a women you both know an she knows the woman might have a thing for you. Do this to see how she reacts. If she's into then that could open a whole new ball game for you both. Maybe she gets the ex while you get your female friend. Possible play date with all 4 ? Idk . If she gets upset then you know she only wants to see you cum quick while talking about her ex. Other possibility is she might Big might not saying it's 100 percent, but maybe she still wants to shag her ex ? If so do you want to see her pussy go bye bye ? Or are you a closet cuckold? Idk ? Imo .
I can understand your being shocked and feeling betrayed.
On the other hand, I can alsomunderstand choosing to reframe this as her unexpectedly taking a step the two of you had discussed for some time. It doesn't have to be a bad thing.
If it turns you on,then tell her how you accidentally drove up on them. Ask her ,should you be worried?
Then tell her how turned on it made you.
My wife and I tried to always inform each other. When we would go out and we planned on her turning on men we welcomed other guys approaching her.
But if we were out and not looking for another man.
We/I didn't enjoy if guys just started hitting on her. In other words, we want our sex life to be our sex life. She is not open to the public or up for grabs
Then tell her how turned on it made you.
My wife and I tried to always inform each other. When we would go out and we planned on her turning on men we welcomed other guys approaching her.
But if we were out and not looking for another man.
We/I didn't enjoy if guys just started hitting on her. In other words, we want our sex life to be our sex life. She is not open to the public or up for grabs
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