Hi all.... New here just wanted to share our story a little and maybe get some advice.
My wife and I have been married 14 years.... she's 38 I'm 44.... we talked about sharing her for a while mostly as just our dirty talk. After a while though she was quite clearly wanting to try it and I agreed. That's kind of simplifying it but we both thought it sounded hot.
She messaged a guy she knew in high school but hadn't seen since.... so he wasn't some random.
Yada yada... guy was newly single and when she went to his place to proposition him of course he was into it. She's gorgeous lol.... shows up at his place and says she wants him for sex.... of course he's going to say yes haha
Anyways she was with him maybe a dozen times total over the next few weeks. It became apparent though that there was too much messaging back and forth and it was becoming like a bf/gf thing and not just sex.
We had quite a hard time for a bit there as she was getting feelings for him and was considering leaving me for him. We made it through once her head cleared and she realized she was getting good sex confused with a good relationship.
I'm happy we made it and we are happy together.... but I cant stop thinking about how hot it was having her tell me about the details of what they did. Our thing was that she would go over there for however long.... come back tell me all the details.... then I would fuck her myself.... I loved the feeling of sloppy seconds with her it was a massive turn on knowing this guy was nailing her just before....
So now I'm like stuck because I'd love to have it happen because im turned on by it.... what I'm not turned on by is losing my wife.
So now what.... just let it go and find something else to be into? Anyone else in this situation?
My wife and I have been married 14 years.... she's 38 I'm 44.... we talked about sharing her for a while mostly as just our dirty talk. After a while though she was quite clearly wanting to try it and I agreed. That's kind of simplifying it but we both thought it sounded hot.
She messaged a guy she knew in high school but hadn't seen since.... so he wasn't some random.
Yada yada... guy was newly single and when she went to his place to proposition him of course he was into it. She's gorgeous lol.... shows up at his place and says she wants him for sex.... of course he's going to say yes haha
Anyways she was with him maybe a dozen times total over the next few weeks. It became apparent though that there was too much messaging back and forth and it was becoming like a bf/gf thing and not just sex.
We had quite a hard time for a bit there as she was getting feelings for him and was considering leaving me for him. We made it through once her head cleared and she realized she was getting good sex confused with a good relationship.
I'm happy we made it and we are happy together.... but I cant stop thinking about how hot it was having her tell me about the details of what they did. Our thing was that she would go over there for however long.... come back tell me all the details.... then I would fuck her myself.... I loved the feeling of sloppy seconds with her it was a massive turn on knowing this guy was nailing her just before....
So now I'm like stuck because I'd love to have it happen because im turned on by it.... what I'm not turned on by is losing my wife.
So now what.... just let it go and find something else to be into? Anyone else in this situation?