New here .. Looking for advice

hazim

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still no progress except more dirty talks ..

while i'm at work, i ask her to video call me and fuck the dildo .. it makes her horny ..

also i asked her to give the dildo a name instead of calling it dildo everytime .. this might enforce imagination which is helpful later on ;)
 

wladar

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still no progress except more dirty talks ..

while i'm at work, i ask her to video call me and fuck the dildo .. it makes her horny ..

also i asked her to give the dildo a name instead of calling it dildo everytime .. this might enforce imagination which is helpful later on ;)
So what's the dildo's name?
 
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still no progress except more dirty talks ..

while i'm at work, i ask her to video call me and fuck the dildo .. it makes her horny ..

also i asked her to give the dildo a name instead of calling it dildo everytime .. this might enforce imagination which is helpful later on ;)
hmm nice ur few steps ahead of me i think keeping up with massages will eventualy agree to accept another dick ..
 
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hazim

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UPDATE

part of our dirty talks, i showed her some vids where he wife open the door naked for the housekeeper in a hotel and try to get her to fantasise about this idea but she strictly refused ..

I think if I ask her to open the door while we are there already and she is tipsy I think this will encourage her a bit more instead of talking only.

I remember when we called for massage in room, when the guy came, he went to the balcony for a quick cigarette and during this time she asked me to remove her bra (in a sexy way) but nothing happened except for the massage.

now travel ban will not be there anymore and restrictions will be less. I want ideas to get her exposed (like revealing dresses) and so on but i want to put the seeds from now so she gets more comfortable

let's brainstorm together :)
 
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hazim

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UPDATE

I was sexting with her yesterday until I introduced the idea of a massage again but not male as I always say. This time I told her a female. after sometime, I sent her dildo with strap and told her lets give this to the female and she wear it while massaging u ..

She strongly refused and said I dont want anyone to flirt or make me horny except you and I dont want to be seen by anyone while we are naked bla bla bla >>

I think I have put the seed now and will wait until it grows.

The good thing is that she is ok to wear sexy revealing dresses in clubs and micro bikinis in pool.

what do u think ?
 
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qatara

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I'm not going to demoting you bro, Long-time you are trying to bring her to your fantasy world nothing going to happen bro,
It's very hard to compromise them because of religious faith & you are giving enough satisfaction too.
Also I was tried hardly since 3 years nothing happened, she strictly refusing all same like your wife..
 

hazim

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I'm not going to demoting you bro, Long-time you are trying to bring her to your fantasy world nothing going to happen bro,
It's very hard to compromise them because of religious faith & you are giving enough satisfaction too.
Also I was tried hardly since 3 years nothing happened, she strictly refusing all same like your wife..

actually it is one and half year if you remove 2020 :)

what do u suggest ?

basically i'm trying to encourage her and tell her indirectly that i'm fine if she likes someone else or even fuck him ..

now she wants to travel so she can try on her new revealing dresses and bikini
 
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btweets

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actually it is one and half year if you remove 2020 :)

what do u suggest ?

basically i'm trying to encourage her and tell her indirectly that i'm fine if she likes someone else or even fuck him ..

now she wants to travel so she can try on her new revealing dresses and bikini
Well now that she’s willing to try out wearing her new revealing dresses and bikini, that’s at least a start. It sounds like on the surface that you’re going to have a difficult time and so it’s either going to take some time, or it just may not happen at all. One thing you could possibly try, is to not have as much sex with her as you normally would, in other words, make her become hornier. What might be the only other possible way, is to let her travel as much as possible. The more she travels alone, or with friends, the better the chances that she’ll not only be more comfortable without you being there, she might drink more than she normally would, and lastly, her girlfriends might be more persuasive into talking her to become more receptive to the attention she gets from other guys, especially if any of her girlfriends are the type to have a little fun while on vacation.
 

krl11

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Hello,

As an introduction, I am 36 yo married to a beautiful 29 yo wife. We live in Saudi Arabia.

We are very new to this lifestyle and she is a bit conservative while I have no limitations.

Since we are from Saudi we have a lot of cultural barriers so I started with her slowly and I am not sure to which extend she is going to .. at the same time, I can't freely talk about this with her .. it's like few talk with hesitation.

So when we used to travel, she used to wear cover on her hair (Hijab we call it)

Just recently she stopped wearing it and I encouraged her to do so.

Also when we used to go to the pool, she used to wear leggings and a T shirt. Few months back, I bought her bikini and she was ok with it. It was so sexy :)

We started doing massage when we travel and I arrange for it so she doesn't ask for a woman therapist. All of the times it was masseur only and she was ok with it. After the massage session, she insisted to cancel the dinner and we had a great sex.

We started going to clubs but she wear long clothes so I bought her sexy tight clothes and she liked it.

I want to make her open to anything and satisfy herself sexually.
you have experience in this you can send private messages ;)