New to all this. Howdy!

Hey all! Wifey and I have been in the swinger lifestyle for almost 10 years. It was just occasionally when things happened. We've stopped because she has become uncomfortable with seeing me with other women. I'm totally fine with this and respect her decision. In the swinging LS I more or less just enjoyed seeing her pleasured by someone other than myself. In conversation awhile back I brought up the idea of me just watching her with someone else which brought me here. I'll save my questions for another post in the appropriate forum but I just wanted to say hi!