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  1. HfxCpl

    HfxCpl New Member

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    Hi all,

    New here and looking for some advice. I've often fantasized of someone else plowing my wife while I watched and am interested in having this discussion with her to see where it goes.

    Any advice on where to start? We're both in our mid 30's have an active sex life but neither of us have done anything like this before.

    Thanks in advance!
     
  2. Tarnaq

    Tarnaq Member

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    Well I have experienced multiple mmf w my wife so I cN for sure help with an appropriate way to introduce the subject. Need little bit more info. What is your sex life like now...any fantasy role playing or any porn watching together? What was her sexual experience prior to you???
     
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    HfxCpl New Member

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    Hey thanks! We have sex often but not engaged in any fantasy or role playing. We have definitely watched porn together. We've been together since we were 20. A couple of partners prior but it's been a while!
     
  4. Tarnaq

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    Sounds very similar to me and mine....however I pushed the issue in our twenties and almost ruined relationship and did lose the extra marital fun...but I slowly worked us back to it. When u have sex does she ever talk dirty or want u to? When u watch porn what is subject matter and is that your picks or hers?
     
  5. HfxCpl

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    Yes she definitely likes dirty talk. The porn is pretty plain Jane for the most part. Trying to recall if we've watched any swapping but can't recall off top of head we typically both choose type. We went through a phase where we made a lot of sex tapes but not in a while.
     
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    alfred e newman8 New Member

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    You might try and get her to make another tape and say it would be better if you had some one else as camera man. See how that go's
     
  7. Sharedwife16

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    Yes
    We've all been there...
    My wife never cheated, totally loyal, and would of happily had just the one man throughout our marriage.
    I just came out with it one night..
    " Hun, your so sexy, other men would love to fuck you,I think you should let other men fuck you, in fact I want men to fuck you"...
    To say it didn't go down too well is a massive understatement , I had months of pain lol...... but you plant the seed, and watch it grow