New to this site.

My wife and I have been in the sharing lifestyle for about 4 years now. We were both virgins when we got married, and have been together over 25 years. We like seeing that other people share the same interests that we do.
Hi guys. Just like the two of you, my wife and I were both virgins when we got married - about 30 years ago. Sadly, while I have approached her about the lifestyle, and it appears to turn her on when she does let me tell her of my desire to share (it rocks her world while we have sex, but she doesn't "let her hair down" very often), that's as far as it has gone. Sad, I think. But I am trying still. Maybe someday.

So, if you have suggestions as to what worked for the two of you, give me a shout.
 
If this helps, I took me close to 20 years to convince my wife to fuck other men for my viewing pleasure. But I just stayed persistent.
Just know that if the talk of it turns her on it’s in her head. If it wasn’t in her head she would shoot you down right away.
 
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