Next steps for wife

[Superstar7]

Sorry to hear that , she is really pretty and may not want to be shared ???

Correct she does not want to be shared. How do I move on from wanting the act to occur?

 

[VegasLove]

We been Married 20 years I was ny wife first and only lover. Very Vanillia wife. Over the years I been wanting her to open up. I don;t know why but I want her to try other men. I just want her to let loose and go wild.

Over the years I defiantly go her more into things. She openly jokes about ...... with other guys. if I push her a bit she covers it up as just a joke. We never get into a serious conversation to actually talk about it.

About 2 years ago I started buying vibrators for her. She was much more accepting but she was shy. I started to buy bigger ones but she was not comfortable using them However last week she ask me to use them for the first time and just let loose with it.

I think watching porn would be a good next step but she is super shy when ever I watch it. I haven't pushed watching but wonder if this would be a good next step.

My goal is watch her fuck other guys and have a MFM with her and really not sure how to bring this up since she still pretty shy.

Dont say saying thing just start getting Hotwife porn as you are watching it just say wow The wife love that new cock so hot things

 

[Superstar7]

No I have not shown her a video or pic. Months ago I did buy a book and hoped she would read it. I myself is not done with the book because I am busy with school and work. She did ask about the book one time but that was it. I did have a couple I used to watch on Pornhub that was the real deal and I feel like if she saw them it could change her thinking a bit.

 

[Superstar7]

Tell her about talking to a friend and he mentioned give his girl a hall pass and the guy was awesome with pleasing her 1st w/ oral and made sure she climaxed 1st ????

I agree and have mentioned to her about a hall pass before. We have discussed and I have given my consent to which ex's would be a go for me. I have told her that I do not have to watch but someday I would love to watch. I would definitely try the made up story angle and see how that works.

 

[NEWBIEHotwife]

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I like em chubby like that

 

[kolakola6969]

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[NEWBIEHotwife]

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[erzika34]

perhaps you need to encourage her more always insuring her that you are ok with it, just be sure you can handle it when she makes the plunge, there may be no turning back. My man talked me into it, and at first it was with another woman, and she taught me all about bi sex with a woman and other women, and I loved it, and my man enjoyed the show and getting to play with so many women with me, but when he finally brought home a black man to play with me, well I went wild, my man loved the show and they shared me all night long but it wasn''t long before I was asking for him to come back over, and soon he was coming over when my man was not home, I was wild for his big black dick, and he would fuck me for hours, when My man found out how much I was fucking his black friend, he got pissed, but in time he came to accept it that his wife was a black cock whore and I needed it, and his friend was bringing over other black men to fuck me several times a week. It took him over a year to get used to it, and our life was never the same. be careful for what you ask your wife to do, but she will do it if you keep encouraging her that it will be fun and you are all in.

that it is true and there is no way back, only strong love can save a marriage, not everyone is for this way of married life

 

[kolakola6969]

Yummy

Thank you

 

[vrmtr1]

What worked for us? Same as you, long time married but in a vanilla relationship, but I had this burning fantasy of my wife fucking other well hung guys. Wasn't going to happen until we stumbled upon role-playing my wife being a hot wife, me the cuck, and also me the bull sometimes.
If she is OK with playing with realistic didlos in front mom you you are already half way there.
Someone here suggested this book called THE FAITHFUL HOTWIFE from Amazon and it really got things going. It's full of fun challenges for your wife and you to perform so it's more like a game for her so there is no pressure on her.
Let me know how it goes.
Anyone else using this book?

I just bought the book. my wife is reading it and is now up to the challenges. The initial ones seem like fun and it gets the conversations and ideas going. I hope it too will help us in our journey

 

[vrmtr1]

Grab a copy of the book UNLOCKING DESIRE and she'll soon be on her way to locking you up and holding the key.

I also bought this book. I'm reading it first while she reads faithfully hotwife!! we already play with caging me on weekends. I hope it will give her confidence and ideas

 

[Hotwifelove]

We been Married 20 years I was ny wife first and only lover. Very Vanillia wife. Over the years I been wanting her to open up. I don;t know why but I want her to try other men. I just want her to let loose and go wild.

Over the years I defiantly go her more into things. She openly jokes about ...... with other guys. if I push her a bit she covers it up as just a joke. We never get into a serious conversation to actually talk about it.

About 2 years ago I started buying vibrators for her. She was much more accepting but she was shy. I started to buy bigger ones but she was not comfortable using them However last week she ask me to use them for the first time and just let loose with it.

I think watching porn would be a good next step but she is super shy when ever I watch it. I haven't pushed watching but wonder if this would be a good next step.

My goal is watch her fuck other guys and have a MFM with her and really not sure how to bring this up since she still pretty shy.

I am not so shy. But that is how my hubby did it. We would watch cuckold and mfm porn. He found out I was liing it. Hope it works out for u.

 

[marc00]

What worked for us? Same as you, long time married but in a vanilla relationship, but I had this burning fantasy of my wife fucking other well hung guys. Wasn't going to happen until we stumbled upon role-playing my wife being a hot wife, me the cuck, and also me the bull sometimes.
If she is OK with playing with realistic didlos in front mom you you are already half way there.
Someone here suggested this book called THE FAITHFUL HOTWIFE from Amazon and it really got things going. It's full of fun challenges for your wife and you to perform so it's more like a game for her so there is no pressure on her.
Let me know how it goes.
Anyone else using this book?

We are reading this book and currently trying some of the challenges.

 

[vrmtr1]

We are reading this book and currently trying some of the challenges.

We've had the book for 6 months. Have done a few of the challenges. Life is busy so it's been slow moving. I don't want to push her.

 

[petco]

We are reading this book and currently trying some of the challenges.

sounds good , i ll try to get it in china . if anyone know a capable bookstore in shanghai , highly welcome .

 

[petco]

I just bought the book. my wife is reading it and is now up to the challenges. The initial ones seem like fun and it gets the conversations and ideas going. I hope it too will help us in our journey

would you say it is feasable for really newbies ? i tried other books which are unluckily more for advanced couples . my shy wife would be more shocked than interested . looking forward to your reply

 

[marc00]

sounds good , i ll try to get it in china . if anyone know a capable bookstore in shanghai , highly welcome .

We bought this book on Amazon

 

[marc00]

We've had the book for 6 months. Have done a few of the challenges. Life is busy so it's been slow moving. I don't want to push her.

Just like us. No time pressure. No hard resolutions. If the mood, the right atmosphere, and the desire are there, we try. It's not always exactly as described in the book, but it's always exciting and fun. We'd be grateful if you shared Your ideas or experiences with us, because we believe that life can bring us much more interesting ideas than those described in the book.

 

[vrmtr1]

Just like us. No time pressure. No hard resolutions. If the mood, the right atmosphere, and the desire are there, we try. It's not always exactly as described in the book, but it's always exciting and fun. We'd be grateful if you shared Your ideas or experiences with us, because we believe that life can bring us much more interesting ideas than those described in the book.

While I was traveling for a week to a different state, my wife too a pic of her giving a BJ to a dildo, but the angle if the pic made it look like she was on her knees giving another guy head.

She also slipped a pair of her thong into my luggage that I found when I opened it at the hotel.

Just last week I challenged her while she was working at her office to send me a Pic of her nipple....she slipped into another room and made it happen.

I'm trying to get sexual play in the front of her mind. We're having fun with it

 

[Caargo56]

lots of good advice has been posted here, I am a wife who was persuaded into the swing lifestyle a very long time ago. It started usually with talk when we were in bed about sex and things each of us had done and suggestions as what about this or what about doing that, yes we watched some porn, men seem to be into it, I am not so sure women are as much, but I'd watch and it always made me wet and want to fuck, but just lots of talk about what about this and that, from swapping with another couple to nudity or exposing myself to others, I finally agreed to the swap concept, took some time to make it happen, but once it got started you could not turn me off. be careful what you wish for.

It happened that way for me also. Husband's close friends helped me as I knew and trusted them and felt safe role playing. One night I was going to stop playing but the next thing I knew he was inside me and I was wild telling him to make me pregnant and clawing his back. After that I could never go back

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