Normal couples into very private fun - are any of your friends into this?

Loridan

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We get with a guy friend semi regularly, we only do this with him. None of our friends and we don't want them to find out.
We aren't swingers.
We have many friends, all are good looking, in shape, clean and classy.
I often wonder if anyone we know invites others into their sex life.
We have a divorced neighbor, she's 63. Occasionally there's a strange car in her driveway overnight. She's an adult but rumors fly. I'd describe her as an older lady that enjoys male company. It's all good.

Do you know of any of your friends into this but they don't know about your fun ?
 
We're pretty careful about keeping our vanilla friends and our lifestyle friends separate. In 26 years of swinging we have only converted 1 set of vanilla friends to Lifestyle friends and it worked out well. We sensed they were the kinds of adventurous, open-minded ppl that could handle it, and they are.

We took it slow with them and when we finally swapped my friend confessed he had long fantasized about fucking my wife and I replied that I had long fantasized about fucking his 😀
 
We kind of fell into a situation where my wife was seeing a guy regularly and found out one of her friends was a long term hotwife, which at the time I wouldn't classify my wife as despite what was happening. She has since moved into more of what I would consider a hotwife more or less through her friend who has served as a sounding board at times and mentor at others. It hasn't been an easy process for me as of recently but the fact that she has a friend who is also part of the lifestyle is a help.
 
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We're pretty careful about keeping our vanilla friends and our lifestyle friends separate. In 26 years of swinging we have only converted 1 set of vanilla friends to Lifestyle friends and it worked out well. We sensed they were the kinds of adventurous, open-minded ppl that could handle it, and they are.

We took it slow with them and when we finally swapped my friend confessed he had long fantasized about fucking my wife and I replied that I had long fantasized about fucking his 😀
Yea to say the least. None of our friends know we do anything like this and we don't want them to find out.
There's been many times we've been relaxing with friends having a glass of...whatever.
That glass of whatever can bring out some unusual comments. Two of the wives...on separate occasions have mentioned only-fans. I just let it go and don't respond at all. Many couples, usually the wives have casually mentioned hot tub or swimming pool..naked.
We might have friends that get into kinky fun of some kind but I don't want to know.
 
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Two of my wife's guy friends that she went to school/grew up with are. They both live out of state and will randomly stop by the house for a "visit" whenever one of them is in town visiting family.
They're the only ones that my wife personally knows that know we dabble in the LS.
 
My BF is one of our regulars and his wife joins us occasionally, and she has joined us occasionally without him present. And she has told all her friends about us, which has worked out. While maybe they aren't or weren't into it but we're curious and 2 of them have joined us a few times as well as they have given her 3 referrals of guys that have big cocks to contact to join us....lol
 
When my wife was marriesd to her first husbands (he was 10 yrs older and got her involved in swinging). Not a cuckold type of thing, more like free, open sex with groups of others. Depending on the size of the crowd, the length of the party, the consumables available, she said she might have 10-12 partners over the course of a night. She was a gorgeous tall blond and her husband was popular as well, as he was a body builder and women like those muscles. She did not care for the ff stuff but enjoyed the rest of it all.