Older men… Do you still get hard?

I’ve found as I get older even with Viagra I have trouble getting or staying hard for very long. We’ve been married 45 years and not as exciting anymore. She used to be aggressive in bed and up for about anything, but now has little interest. I think that reflects on my response. Anyone else similar?
 
78 and still get hard enough to penetrate if we use some lubrication and she's up for it (not often). With half of a Cialis pill, it firms up even more and I really like the way it feels. I like Cialis more than Viagra as it lasts 2-3 days and during those days my cock is a little enlarged when soft. My wife always knows when I've taken it and loves to see me that way. We save the Viagra for sudden horniness, like when all the stars align. On an empty stomach (the fastest way to the best result) it hits in less than 20 minutes and gives me an erection that can poke holes in half inch drywall. I find it most effective within a 30 minute window after initial erection. My wife loves it if I don't cum too quickly but keep lots of lube handy. Sometimes it stays half hard after ejaculation, too. A full Viagra pill always leaves me with a stuffy nose and a slight headache so I cut them in half and the side effects are less. And I have to add for you guys who are like me and don't get as hard as you'd like for a porn J.O., Cialis and Viagra fix that problem. It feels very, very good again with the best hardwood in your hand. Or with your wife using her Hitachi wand on you.
Same as you I can`t give her what she wants and needs and she lost interest been pussy free for sometime.
 
57 and not as potent as earlier years. But as someone said, diet and excercise help. I feel much hornier after a good fast jog.

Accept that there is nothing wrong with you. Its just part of life. Most posters here are part of the population who continue to maintain strong erections into their 50s. But you will find a significant amount of people who will offer the opposite results.

I masturbate when wife is on travel. But I give up around the middle! Its just too much effort and rubbing to get to orgasm. Im content to have gotten and erection and a few strokes.

Wife has a lover or two plus does a lot of clips for virtual lovers. So that keeps me aroused with my limited erection.

I do recommend cialis more for the wife than yourself. I mean, your enjoyment will be the same. But you owe her a rigid cock vs a floppy one whenever you are having sex. At least for the remaining years that she is still interested too. Else she will soon click off into menopause forever.
 
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I’m 70 and after 58+ years of almost daily wanking and 40+ years of fairly regular sex, I now find it impossible to fuck without Tadalafil. Over the past year I also struggle to get hard when wanking (by far my favourite form of sex), I can come but only just! I guess my incessant masturbation has taken its toll!
 
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