A salesman in a sporting goods store hit on Stacey many years ago. She used to shop there with our boys when they were teenagers. He made nice and flirted with her every time she came in. On one occasion she was by herself and he asked her to lunch - which she declined. He gave her his card. She told me about him - that he was good looking, younger, and very sexy. We talked a lot about him during sex. Her fantasies ran wild - as did mine. I went by the store and checked him out without him knowing the connection. Eventually she accepted his invitation to lunch and they had sex for several months. She shared every detail with me which only encouraged us more.