A lot has to do with her hubby too. Some guys just don't go for it. I don't know if its uncontrollable jealousy or what. In the vanilla world basically two people are equal and loyal to each other. I don't know if it's possible to convert someone or not. Sounds like it could make a good thread.My wife has a friend who's always getting caught, running around on her husband. My wife suggested to her a relationship like we have, and went on to explain that I enjoy watching and videoing her getting fucked, and will carry her to 'friends' houses, just sit back while she's getting cock, and watch/video. Even showed her a video that I took, lol. So, she's a bit jealous, and doesn't have the 'whole' story, but she knows some.