To catch you up on my previous thread.. here’s the cliff notes
Very happily married 20+ years. Very open and honest with each other
Admitted several years ago fantasy to share her
Very proper and wholesome but understood that I get please from her pleasure but not interested in sharing
Agreed to post nsfw photos on reddit for strangers.
Approached her with the idea of a sensual/erotic massage about 6 months ago (for my birthday getaway).
After much back and forth agreed to do it with stipulations, fully nude except a thong. No vagina or butthole play. If at any time she’s uncomfortable and wants to stop it’s an immediate stop.
So I began the search for her match… brought many guys to her I found on Reddit over the next couple months that I thought she may have an attraction to… got her to admit what her type was(something that clearly never came up over our 20+ years of marriage).. so her saying she wanted a fit muscular guy to do the massage turned me on.
Showed her photos of the guys and she narrowed it down over time.
We have now settled on the guy that will massage her. Through much back and forth dialogue she opened up to more ideas that would satisfy my urge to share her.. yet still being comfortable with the entire situation..
We will meet in our hotel suite with the match.. have a beverage and discuss her restrictions and stipulations( all of which he’s very aware of and on board with) but to make her more comfortable hearing him acknowledge her boundaries. I ultimately want her to enjoy the experience of the massage while knowing it’s primarily for me… so we came up with several ideas to relax he.. since no man other than myself has touched her in anyway in over 20 years, he and I will massage her feet while clothed after our beverage and chat. This way she can get used to another man’s touch while feeling my familiar touch… he’ll the massage her hands so her extremities get used to his touch… then for my benefit… they’ll stand up and he’ll undress her in front of me… stripping her of every article of clothing except her thong(agreed upon stipulation)… this is insanely hot for me as she’s never been nude in front of another man ever since I met her … he’s bringing a massage table to make it more comfortable for her as opposed to laying on a bed.. she wants me on the bed next to her setup table while he’s massaging her… we’ll have music of her choosing… and using oil… she’ll start on her stomach and once done flip to lay on her back with her breasts explosed.. he’ll massage every inch of her including her ass, breasts, inner thighs…she knows I plan to fuck the ...... out of her once the massage is complete and the partner understands once the massage is over and I let him know, he’ll pack up and leave without a word…. I mentioned the idea of moving to the bed as the massage is nearing its ending so she can be fully relaxed as it finishes and I go right into fucking her.. she’s also on board with me going down on her towards the end of the massage on the bed as he’s massaging her breasts (as long as she’s feeing relaxed at that point and not uncomfortable, waiting for it to be over) if she’s really enjoying it she’s also on board with me beginning to fuck her while he’s rubbing her breasts… of course these are things he’s fully on board with as well not expecting anything outside of the massage from her and understanding he’ll leave when I say it’s time…. If this is the closest I get to fulfilling my fantasy of sharing her with another man this is something I’m fully content with… we have a room booked at the beach next month for this to happen for my birthday.
Very happily married 20+ years. Very open and honest with each other
Admitted several years ago fantasy to share her
Very proper and wholesome but understood that I get please from her pleasure but not interested in sharing
Agreed to post nsfw photos on reddit for strangers.
Approached her with the idea of a sensual/erotic massage about 6 months ago (for my birthday getaway).
After much back and forth agreed to do it with stipulations, fully nude except a thong. No vagina or butthole play. If at any time she’s uncomfortable and wants to stop it’s an immediate stop.
So I began the search for her match… brought many guys to her I found on Reddit over the next couple months that I thought she may have an attraction to… got her to admit what her type was(something that clearly never came up over our 20+ years of marriage).. so her saying she wanted a fit muscular guy to do the massage turned me on.
Showed her photos of the guys and she narrowed it down over time.
We have now settled on the guy that will massage her. Through much back and forth dialogue she opened up to more ideas that would satisfy my urge to share her.. yet still being comfortable with the entire situation..
We will meet in our hotel suite with the match.. have a beverage and discuss her restrictions and stipulations( all of which he’s very aware of and on board with) but to make her more comfortable hearing him acknowledge her boundaries. I ultimately want her to enjoy the experience of the massage while knowing it’s primarily for me… so we came up with several ideas to relax he.. since no man other than myself has touched her in anyway in over 20 years, he and I will massage her feet while clothed after our beverage and chat. This way she can get used to another man’s touch while feeling my familiar touch… he’ll the massage her hands so her extremities get used to his touch… then for my benefit… they’ll stand up and he’ll undress her in front of me… stripping her of every article of clothing except her thong(agreed upon stipulation)… this is insanely hot for me as she’s never been nude in front of another man ever since I met her … he’s bringing a massage table to make it more comfortable for her as opposed to laying on a bed.. she wants me on the bed next to her setup table while he’s massaging her… we’ll have music of her choosing… and using oil… she’ll start on her stomach and once done flip to lay on her back with her breasts explosed.. he’ll massage every inch of her including her ass, breasts, inner thighs…she knows I plan to fuck the ...... out of her once the massage is complete and the partner understands once the massage is over and I let him know, he’ll pack up and leave without a word…. I mentioned the idea of moving to the bed as the massage is nearing its ending so she can be fully relaxed as it finishes and I go right into fucking her.. she’s also on board with me going down on her towards the end of the massage on the bed as he’s massaging her breasts (as long as she’s feeing relaxed at that point and not uncomfortable, waiting for it to be over) if she’s really enjoying it she’s also on board with me beginning to fuck her while he’s rubbing her breasts… of course these are things he’s fully on board with as well not expecting anything outside of the massage from her and understanding he’ll leave when I say it’s time…. If this is the closest I get to fulfilling my fantasy of sharing her with another man this is something I’m fully content with… we have a room booked at the beach next month for this to happen for my birthday.
