PROGRESS report AFTER my wifes FIRST Sensual Massage!!

[Maybesomedaysoo]

Thanks for the detailed update, man. It's really hot to read your progress after 20+ years together. The fact that she's slowly opening up while staying true to her own boundaries shows how strong your communication and your love for each other really is.

One thing that strikes me when I look at the photo (especially her breasts) is that she seems to have had breast reduction surgery at some point (or something). One of my ex had a similar surgery and she was having mixed feelings about her body. She never told me directly but she did not like her body much.

I get the impression that your wife's biggest internal block isn't really the idea of another man... it's that she doesn't love her own body enough yet. She's reserved and proper, as you said, and that often comes with deep self-consciousness. Even though she enjoys the massage and is now open to being filmed while you fuck her, she's still protecting herself a lot (thong on, no direct touching, masks for privacy, etc.).

My suggestion for the next several months (while you prepare for her birthday and this new experience):

Instead of rushing straight to the "filming with a guy watching/jerking" step, put a big part of your energy into rebuilding her self-confidence and her love for her own body first. Make her feel incredibly desired and beautiful as she is right now. Compliment her breasts specifically in a loving, lustful way — tell her how much you love their shape, how they feel in your hands, how sexy they look when they're oiled and moving, etc. Overdo the praise in a genuine way (or whatever part of her body she doesn't like much).

The more she starts loving her own body and feeling sexy in it, the less she'll need to hide behind "this is just for your fantasy" justifications. She'll become more comfortable being seen and admired.

Practical ideas:
- Encourage her (little by little) to dress sexier in daily life and when you go out — tighter tops, nicer lingerie, outfits that show a bit more cleavage. Always frame it as "you look so fucking hot like this, it drives me crazy."
- Take lots of private photos and videos of her just for the two of you, and show her how much you jerk off to them.
- When the third guy eventually watches you fuck her, she'll feel much prouder and more turned on if she already feels good in her skin.
You've already done an amazing job with patience and communication. If you now actively work on making her fall in love with her own body again, I think the rest (including going further in the future) will flow much more naturally and with less discomfort for her.

She's lucky to have a husband who wants her pleasure so much. Keep us updated!

This comment is so spot on! my wife had reduction surgery also (I saw the scars and had the ssame thought) That surgery, plus HRT and working out has helped transform her body. Her mind is slowy coming around to the fact that I find her incerdibly, sey and hot and I think she's starting to see herself thatt way too! Not all the time but more than ever before. She's bought sexy lingere for the first time and seems to be opening up especially sexually. I heap praise on her for how beautiful and sexy she is and how hot she is and how it gets me hard thinking about her. I don't know if we'll get to a point where we bring in another guy to pleasure her but that'll be her call. All I (and you) can do is make our wives feel loved, sexy and desireable...and in control of their desires.

 

[hot_hugo74]

Mine was a little hesitant to the first time - she wondered if the massage guy would expect sex - I tld him and her that to go as far as you feel comfortable - well - she got very excite4d and reached out and rubbed his bulge and he pulled it out and she was was so worked up - sucked him = stroked it too - notice her ringView attachment 3132990

Wow…. She looks hot as hell

I have been told my massages are very good… if you ever travel to Switzerland, I’d be happy to help her to get rid of the tension from the long flight during a relaxing massage

 

[Maybesomedaysoo]

Mine was a little hesitant to the first time - she wondered if the massage guy would expect sex - I tld him and her that to go as far as you feel comfortable - well - she got very excite4d and reached out and rubbed his bulge and he pulled it out and she was was so worked up - sucked him = stroked it too - notice her ringView attachment 3132990

This is how I'd love to see my wife! Where were you all when this was taken?

 

[andysmith]

First sensual massage my then gf had she had made me promise there would be no sex. A you can see from the pic, he got very close and touched every single inch of her. He rubbed her cunt but his technique was rubbish and so she wasn't so turned on that she would change her mind but she did touch his cock a little.

 

[Philly_Fun_Guy]

TLDR recap from previous posts..
Together over 20 year
Married over 15
2 kids
VERY much in love
Wife is reserved and proper
Very open communication
Told her several years ago my greatest fantasy is to share her with another man, her pleasure is my biggest turn on.
She wasnt interested but open to ideas that help satisfy my fantasy while staying within boundaries that she can justify and feel she’s respecting herself.
Took and posted photos/videos on NsFW reddit to hear other guys thoughts on what I believe to be super hot and perfect.. she verified and chose the material to post but keeping very private because of jobs and kids
Talked her into a sensual massage.
She can view it as a massage(and feel good)

I get to see her nude in front of another man and touched on any part of her body by another man for the first time in over 20 years.

Months of planning, compromises and open discussion, she had a full body sensual massage from a guy we found on Reddit, experienced in this, brought a table to the hotel room, used oils, music, room temp.. all the legit stuff.
She kept her thong on, no pussy or asshole touching.. had an amazing experience, got video of him grazing her thong line covering her pussy, his hands wrapped around her large oily breasts …”

Fast forward a little over a month since, and I’m planting the seed for our next step.

She’s made it clear she’ll never ...... with another man but is open to discussing things that turn me on and help satisfy my fantasy desires (she’s fucking amazing)

At the end of the massage I was very turned on with him watching us while he packed up his table and supplies and had moved her to the bed to begin fucking her…

I mentioned another massage but having him watch us fuck in its entirety after the massage

She’s on board with it and said the massage felt good but was still uncomfortable with another man touching her so I framed a new idea as respecting that and will be less uncomfortable if we forego the massage completely….
Have someone join us in a hotel room, to film us while I undress her, foreplay/oral, and fuck.

This way I get to fuck her knowing there’s another guy in the room enjoying the show, he can get all the best angles and I can enjoy it and relive it many times over with the videos after.
To make her feel better I suggested we could wear masks so she’s not worried about this ever getting out and privacy is still honored… she’s going to have further discussion on the details but she’s on board with this being our next experience … 5 years ago I would NEVER thought she’d be good with any of this, and while having much doubt I’ll ever see her shared with another man, these experiences are such a fucking turn on nonetheless… we plan on doing this in several months after we celebrate her birthday and focus on her.. so I have time to find the right person that she would be comfortable with having there while we fuck … some things I plan on approaching with her over that time is the possibility of allowing the third to jerk off while this happens, we fully expect them to be aroused so she won’t be super thrown at this suggestion, I had my cock out stroking the entire time she was being massager and she was aware… so this would be even another step for her to be in the presence of another man’s exposed cock… still thinking of other things to slowly work in that she may be okay with… it’s taken a long time, a lot of patience and open communication but I’m loving the progess… my previous posts have videos of her massage for those interested View attachment 3087439

I did go to massage therapy school when I was younger. I could easy you wife into getting her backside blown out.

 

[lesajima12]

My wife was in a long term deep funk. As a last resort I suggested a sensual massage. She agreed and it did snap her right out. During the first I spent most of the time reading. After about 40 minutes I looked up and I saw her leg twitch and she had his cock firmly in her hand masterbating him. He pretty quickly came. I asked what it was like and she said" you know guys one minute they are hard and the next he was not". She claimed she was so oiled up she didn't feel his cum on her. Pretty soon both her legs were twitching, she arched her back andstartedcumming over and over again. After we left she said she didn't believe she did that. She couldn't wait to fuck. About the fourth massage I started fucking her on the table. I leaned over and told her take him in her mouth. She literally grabbed his cock, pulled him over and sucked him till he came in her mouth. I couldn't believe how hot it was to watch her suck cock. The next one turned into a full blown threesome. When he came in her pussy she literally screamed she didn't believe how good it felt for another man tocum inher.

 

[WestCoastBBC]

TLDR recap from previous posts..
Together over 20 year
Married over 15
2 kids
VERY much in love
Wife is reserved and proper
Very open communication
Told her several years ago my greatest fantasy is to share her with another man, her pleasure is my biggest turn on.
She wasnt interested but open to ideas that help satisfy my fantasy while staying within boundaries that she can justify and feel she’s respecting herself.
Took and posted photos/videos on NsFW reddit to hear other guys thoughts on what I believe to be super hot and perfect.. she verified and chose the material to post but keeping very private because of jobs and kids
Talked her into a sensual massage.
She can view it as a massage(and feel good)

I get to see her nude in front of another man and touched on any part of her body by another man for the first time in over 20 years.

Months of planning, compromises and open discussion, she had a full body sensual massage from a guy we found on Reddit, experienced in this, brought a table to the hotel room, used oils, music, room temp.. all the legit stuff.
She kept her thong on, no pussy or asshole touching.. had an amazing experience, got video of him grazing her thong line covering her pussy, his hands wrapped around her large oily breasts …”

Fast forward a little over a month since, and I’m planting the seed for our next step.

She’s made it clear she’ll never ...... with another man but is open to discussing things that turn me on and help satisfy my fantasy desires (she’s fucking amazing)

At the end of the massage I was very turned on with him watching us while he packed up his table and supplies and had moved her to the bed to begin fucking her…

I mentioned another massage but having him watch us fuck in its entirety after the massage

She’s on board with it and said the massage felt good but was still uncomfortable with another man touching her so I framed a new idea as respecting that and will be less uncomfortable if we forego the massage completely….
Have someone join us in a hotel room, to film us while I undress her, foreplay/oral, and fuck.

This way I get to fuck her knowing there’s another guy in the room enjoying the show, he can get all the best angles and I can enjoy it and relive it many times over with the videos after.
To make her feel better I suggested we could wear masks so she’s not worried about this ever getting out and privacy is still honored… she’s going to have further discussion on the details but she’s on board with this being our next experience … 5 years ago I would NEVER thought she’d be good with any of this, and while having much doubt I’ll ever see her shared with another man, these experiences are such a fucking turn on nonetheless… we plan on doing this in several months after we celebrate her birthday and focus on her.. so I have time to find the right person that she would be comfortable with having there while we fuck … some things I plan on approaching with her over that time is the possibility of allowing the third to jerk off while this happens, we fully expect them to be aroused so she won’t be super thrown at this suggestion, I had my cock out stroking the entire time she was being massager and she was aware… so this would be even another step for her to be in the presence of another man’s exposed cock… still thinking of other things to slowly work in that she may be okay with… it’s taken a long time, a lot of patience and open communication but I’m loving the progess… my previous posts have videos of her massage for those interested View attachment 3087439

She’s amazing! 😍😍

 

[fuxass11]

My wife was in a long term deep funk. As a last resort I suggested a sensual massage. She agreed and it did snap her right out. During the first I spent most of the time reading. After about 40 minutes I looked up and I saw her leg twitch and she had his cock firmly in her hand masterbating him. He pretty quickly came. I asked what it was like and she said" you know guys one minute they are hard and the next he was not". She claimed she was so oiled up she didn't feel his cum on her. Pretty soon both her legs were twitching, she arched her back andstartedcumming over and over again. After we left she said she didn't believe she did that. She couldn't wait to fuck. About the fourth massage I started fucking her on the table. I leaned over and told her take him in her mouth. She literally grabbed his cock, pulled him over and sucked him till he came in her mouth. I couldn't believe how hot it was to watch her suck cock. The next one turned into a full blown threesome. When he came in her pussy she literally screamed she didn't believe how good it felt for another man tocum inher.

Hot experience! Wish mine would allow something like this

 

[Ozzij]

My wife was in a long term deep funk. As a last resort I suggested a sensual massage. She agreed and it did snap her right out. During the first I spent most of the time reading. After about 40 minutes I looked up and I saw her leg twitch and she had his cock firmly in her hand masterbating him. He pretty quickly came. I asked what it was like and she said" you know guys one minute they are hard and the next he was not". She claimed she was so oiled up she didn't feel his cum on her. Pretty soon both her legs were twitching, she arched her back andstartedcumming over and over again. After we left she said she didn't believe she did that. She couldn't wait to fuck. About the fourth massage I started fucking her on the table. I leaned over and told her take him in her mouth. She literally grabbed his cock, pulled him over and sucked him till he came in her mouth. I couldn't believe how hot it was to watch her suck cock. The next one turned into a full blown threesome. When he came in her pussy she literally screamed she didn't believe how good it felt for another man tocum inher.

Fantastic

 

[Fourfun444]

TLDR recap from previous posts..
Together over 20 year
Married over 15
2 kids
VERY much in love
Wife is reserved and proper
Very open communication
Told her several years ago my greatest fantasy is to share her with another man, her pleasure is my biggest turn on.
She wasnt interested but open to ideas that help satisfy my fantasy while staying within boundaries that she can justify and feel she’s respecting herself.
Took and posted photos/videos on NsFW reddit to hear other guys thoughts on what I believe to be super hot and perfect.. she verified and chose the material to post but keeping very private because of jobs and kids
Talked her into a sensual massage.
She can view it as a massage(and feel good)

I get to see her nude in front of another man and touched on any part of her body by another man for the first time in over 20 years.

Months of planning, compromises and open discussion, she had a full body sensual massage from a guy we found on Reddit, experienced in this, brought a table to the hotel room, used oils, music, room temp.. all the legit stuff.
She kept her thong on, no pussy or asshole touching.. had an amazing experience, got video of him grazing her thong line covering her pussy, his hands wrapped around her large oily breasts …”

Fast forward a little over a month since, and I’m planting the seed for our next step.

She’s made it clear she’ll never ...... with another man but is open to discussing things that turn me on and help satisfy my fantasy desires (she’s fucking amazing)

At the end of the massage I was very turned on with him watching us while he packed up his table and supplies and had moved her to the bed to begin fucking her…

I mentioned another massage but having him watch us fuck in its entirety after the massage

She’s on board with it and said the massage felt good but was still uncomfortable with another man touching her so I framed a new idea as respecting that and will be less uncomfortable if we forego the massage completely….
Have someone join us in a hotel room, to film us while I undress her, foreplay/oral, and fuck.

This way I get to fuck her knowing there’s another guy in the room enjoying the show, he can get all the best angles and I can enjoy it and relive it many times over with the videos after.
To make her feel better I suggested we could wear masks so she’s not worried about this ever getting out and privacy is still honored… she’s going to have further discussion on the details but she’s on board with this being our next experience … 5 years ago I would NEVER thought she’d be good with any of this, and while having much doubt I’ll ever see her shared with another man, these experiences are such a fucking turn on nonetheless… we plan on doing this in several months after we celebrate her birthday and focus on her.. so I have time to find the right person that she would be comfortable with having there while we fuck … some things I plan on approaching with her over that time is the possibility of allowing the third to jerk off while this happens, we fully expect them to be aroused so she won’t be super thrown at this suggestion, I had my cock out stroking the entire time she was being massager and she was aware… so this would be even another step for her to be in the presence of another man’s exposed cock… still thinking of other things to slowly work in that she may be okay with… it’s taken a long time, a lot of patience and open communication but I’m loving the progess… my previous posts have videos of her massage for those interested View attachment 3087439

So hot! Glad she's opening up to the idea! Hopefully it just progresses on and on!

I'd love to see some of the massage video!

 

[Maybesomedaysoo]

My wife was in a long term deep funk. As a last resort I suggested a sensual massage. She agreed and it did snap her right out. During the first I spent most of the time reading. After about 40 minutes I looked up and I saw her leg twitch and she had his cock firmly in her hand masterbating him. He pretty quickly came. I asked what it was like and she said" you know guys one minute they are hard and the next he was not". She claimed she was so oiled up she didn't feel his cum on her. Pretty soon both her legs were twitching, she arched her back andstartedcumming over and over again. After we left she said she didn't believe she did that. She couldn't wait to fuck. About the fourth massage I started fucking her on the table. I leaned over and told her take him in her mouth. She literally grabbed his cock, pulled him over and sucked him till he came in her mouth. I couldn't believe how hot it was to watch her suck cock. The next one turned into a full blown threesome. When he came in her pussy she literally screamed she didn't believe how good it felt for another man tocum inher.

How lucky you are!! Hopefully, I get there with my lovely wife. This sounds like an amazing scenario for a couple. Your wife's body is sweet, too!

 

[lesajima12]

How lucky you are!! Hopefully, I get there with my lovely wife. This sounds like an amazing scenario for a couple. Your wife's body is sweet, too!

Absolutly. The threesome was amazing. Watching her being penetrated in her mouth and pussy and her enjoying was the best. There was another guy guy, a LMT who would eat her pussy for about 10-15 minutes after the massage.