In our earlier times in this lifestyle, Julie would send me for time-outs... Until I learned to control my orgasms... for example.. if during a threesome I would cum to soon from too much excitement and lack of control, she would send me to the bathroom, ..door closed while she would carry on with her bf alone, all I could do was listen... it did not take me long to figure out that if I wanted to be involved, I needed to get control of my orgasms... and/or get hard again real quick... lol.
Julie is also quick to give my ass cheeks a warming session when she feels I am not attentive enough...