Question for experienced caged couples

I am looking to talk or discuss questions I have about males being caged. I am looking to cage my husband he is well hung, and have many questions about sizing, and long term effects, and erections causing pain. Would someone with some experience please message me?
I wish I could help you out my queen.
We both know I don’t measure up to qualify any helpful advice.
 
I am looking to talk or discuss questions I have about males being caged. I am looking to cage my husband he is well hung, and have many questions about sizing, and long term effects, and erections causing pain. Would someone with some experience please message me?
I'm only caged when watching my wife, I find 3-4 hours is plenty. If I start to get hard it can get uncomfortable. I do find it better to be caged when watching though Wouldn't want to be a long term wearer or a permanent wearer, no way
 
My hubby has been caged for about ten years on and off, mostly on. He’s tiny so I have him in the smallest we can get, I used to love making him hard so it caused him discomfort and would peg him to make him cum. Wearing for so long hubby can’t get hard anymore and he can now only cum from pegging or anal from my bulls….

Sian. Xx
I am so envious of your husband.
 
My hubby has been caged for about ten years on and off, mostly on. He’s tiny so I have him in the smallest we can get, I used to love making him hard so it caused him discomfort and would peg him to make him cum. Wearing for so long hubby can’t get hard anymore and he can now only cum from pegging or anal from my bulls….

Sian. Xx
Sian thank you, that is my concern, I do not want him to loose his erection or his big size I just want to restrain him now and then while I’m with my lover as well as I want to see his big dick swell in the cage as he becomes erect. Non erect he is big but erect he almost doubles in size so it would be a painful experience I think. So I am assuming you start with the size best for him and in time you graduate down as he shrinks.
 
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I'm only caged when watching my wife, I find 3-4 hours is plenty. If I start to get hard it can get uncomfortable. I do find it better to be caged when watching though Wouldn't want to be a long term wearer or a permanent wearer, no way
Yes this what I am thinking but afraid of my devilish ways I may want to leave it on longer and longer. Often I am with my lover for two days so I’m wondering if that is too long to keep it on. I’d love to see him spurting his juice caged watching that is when I know he is enjoying it. I’ve tied him up on chair unable to touch him self and watch him cum so I think it might have same effect. Do you experience ejaculation while caged watching your wife? This is all so new to me.
 
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Yes this what I am thinking but afraid of my devilish ways I may want to leave it on longer and longer. Often I am with my lover for two days so I’m wondering if that is too long to keep it on. I’d love to see him spurting his juice caged watching that is when I know he is enjoying it. I’ve tied him up on chair unable to touch him self and watch him cum so I think it might have same effect. Do you experience ejaculation while caged watching your wife? This is all so new to me.
No never ejaculated in it, that's for later when released. Does your husband get hard watching you. I do (or did) the secret is not to get too hard which does get easier when watching regular like I do every week
 
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No never ejaculated in it, that's for later when released. Does your husband get hard watching you. I do (or did) the secret is not to get too hard which does get easier when watching regular like I do every week
Yes he gets super hard both watching or being in the living room listening knowing his wife is fucking another man. He is on the large size so I would hate to ruin that as I love when he takes me after my bf leaves.
 
Sian thank you, that is my concern, I do not want him to loose his erection or his big size I just want to restrain him now and then while I’m with my lover as well as I want to see his big dick swell in the cage as he becomes erect. Non erect he is big but erect he almost doubles in size so it would be a painful experience I think. So I am assuming you start with the size best for him and in time you graduate down as he shrinks.
Long term wear causing shrinkage or leading to erectile dysfunction is a myth, you have nothing to worry about unless there is an unsafe cage or practice done that causes physical harm. however that's the same risk of wearing jeans that are too tight or playing sports. Like anything else, male chastity is about common sense and most of the stories you will hear about someone being locked up permanently and never let out for months at a time is just a fantasy or pillow talk.

100% of the videos you see online of "husband has been locked for 3 months and finally let out" are completely made up. It's a great fantasy and I love to tease my husband that we will do that, but as with any kink/fetish/whatever shared between two people who respect and care about each other it's all about reality and moderation.
 
Long term wear causing shrinkage or leading to erectile dysfunction is a myth, you have nothing to worry about unless there is an unsafe cage or practice done that causes physical harm. however that's the same risk of wearing jeans that are too tight or playing sports. Like anything else, male chastity is about common sense and most of the stories you will hear about someone being locked up permanently and never let out for months at a time is just a fantasy or pillow talk.

100% of the videos you see online of "husband has been locked for 3 months and finally let out" are completely made up. It's a great fantasy and I love to tease my husband that we will do that, but as with any kink/fetish/whatever shared between two people who respect and care about each other it's all about reality and moderation.
Thank you for the information. You'd think for a wife or couple who's been in the lifestyle so long I'd know more about this topic, but unfortunately, I know little of it. I have seen men caged before at clubs but had no interaction with them. It is a topic we've been discussing, he's not too keen on the idea but I am, and as our life style today has moved to a borderline hot wife cuckold relationship, at least for the current time I am exploring ideas. This is just a role play game for us as all things we've been into. Like you said a Lifestyle or kinks shared among two loving people who have been together for a very long time.
again Thank you for your information.
Sue.
 
Long term wear causing shrinkage or leading to erectile dysfunction is a myth, you have nothing to worry about unless there is an unsafe cage or practice done that causes physical harm. however that's the same risk of wearing jeans that are too tight or playing sports. Like anything else, male chastity is about common sense and most of the stories you will hear about someone being locked up permanently and never let out for months at a time is just a fantasy or pillow talk.

100% of the videos you see online of "husband has been locked for 3 months and finally let out" are completely made up. It's a great fantasy and I love to tease my husband that we will do that, but as with any kink/fetish/whatever shared between two people who respect and care about each other it's all about reality and moderation.

So you're saying the poster above who says she's had her hubby locked for most of 10 years is lying?
 
So you're saying the poster above who says she's had her hubby locked for most of 10 years is lying?

I would tend to think so as well locked up all the time does not seem real or practical. There are things and times when not proper. Washing bathing using bathroom with pin in head visiting your Dr. for physical or emergency rm visits. I doubt anyone is locked up continuous. My concern was for him to be locked up for two or three days while my lover is with me not for a lifetime.
 
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I wear one when wife is playing with her bull, the longest I wore it was 2 days straight. My wife is like you and likes for me to reclaim her afterwards. It hasn’t caused any damage. It can feel a little uncomfortable when aroused, but also feels enjoyable and heightens my arousaul. I especially like when she teases my cage while she’s getting fucked by her bull.
 
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I am looking to talk or discuss questions I have about males being caged. I am looking to cage my husband he is well hung, and have many questions about sizing, and long term effects, and erections causing pain. Would someone with some experience please message me?
I have been self caged for almost 3 years now, daily, 24hrs. I do take it off sometimes to play with myself and I haven’t lost any length (not that I was big to start with) or the ability to get hard and cum. My wife doesn’t pay it any attention, she doesn’t care if I wear it but it doesn’t do anything for her. I enjoy it though and being a secret sissy it really helps to be caged when I dress and play.

I think it’s BS that wearing one causes you to lose length or ability, I don’t see any proof. I think age has more to do with that than anything else, health issues too.
 
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I would tend to think so as well locked up all the time does not seem real or practical. There are things and times when not proper. Washing bathing using bathroom with pin in head visiting your Dr. for physical or emergency rm visits. I doubt anyone is locked up continuous. My concern was for him to be locked up for two or three days while my lover is with me not for a lifetime.

>>I would tend to think so as well locked up all the time does not seem real or practical.

So because it "does not seem real or practical" to you, the rest of the world is lying. Got it.