Question for husbands and wives.
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There’s logic in there. My wife has admitted having a threesome with two guys in the past. I think she thinks that I would like to involve a female into the situation no matter how much I reassure her that isn’t the case for me.
We’re due to go on holiday soon and I’ve watched her dance and flirt with other men before on holiday so maybe that’s something to work on.
Years ago when I was dating my now wife we were out having a drin.k or 2.
We were mid 20s, she was divorced and evidently sowing her wild oats, all good.
It was our 3rd date, we'd slept together once(2nd date).
Alcohol has its effects...I was feeling pretty badass, we were kinda sharing sexy stories. She asked where the strangest place I'd had sex. Then I asked her if she'd ever been with 2 different guys on the same day. She said yea, one about 2am(fri) after a date then a different guy different date on Saturday night so technically yes. Then she asked if I meant at the same time. She got quiet then said yes. I about died. I pressed for when, how, etc. She said with a guy she dated and his roommate. I asked how many times....a few. I was blown away, I was kinda pissed and she knew it. Conversion was over.
We were mid 20s, she was divorced and evidently sowing her wild oats, all good.
It was our 3rd date, we'd slept together once(2nd date).
Alcohol has its effects...I was feeling pretty badass, we were kinda sharing sexy stories. She asked where the strangest place I'd had sex. Then I asked her if she'd ever been with 2 different guys on the same day. She said yea, one about 2am(fri) after a date then a different guy different date on Saturday night so technically yes. Then she asked if I meant at the same time. She got quiet then said yes. I about died. I pressed for when, how, etc. She said with a guy she dated and his roommate. I asked how many times....a few. I was blown away, I was kinda pissed and she knew it. Conversion was over.
I would never let my wife hook up with the same guy all the time. I know some couples are able to do that but there’s definitely a much higher risk of it causing issues or your wife potentially leaving you. If this guy fucks her really well and they start enjoying each others company it becomes less transactional. I enjoy sharing my wife but it’s purely based on physical pleasure and the excitement from it being taboo.
dinoo-2
Male
Isn't it pure coincidence that you met your current wife? I think so.
What I mean by this is that it is very human that falling in love with another woman (and v.v.) in completely different circumstances (such as being born in a different city) would therefore also have been quite possible.
This approach has always been mine. And my wife agreed. The question is how to deal with it.
My wife and I had only one rule (apart from hygiene):
if our marriage suffered from being in love then that relationship would be terminated.
We also knew full well that this would not be a 100 per cent watertight solution.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Even before our marriage I realized that my wife was not at all averse to attention from other men.
But I never blamed her for this behaviour. On the contrary, I was actually proud of her.
Decades later:
In what became our beloved club, on several occasions I saw that a certain chemistry existed or developed between a lover and her.
Believe me, that always did me very well because it also meant she could fully indulge in sex with other men and sometimes women.
More than once, I urged her to give free rein to her inner feelings. ‘Falling in love is so human that it would be a shame not to take advantage of it,’ I said.
With one (otherwise married) man in particular, I saw a different woman from the one I was married to.
How they interacted was the most beautiful, erotic, challenging and sometimes rough sex I have ever seen. I should add that he refused to put on a condom. So deep fucking was out of the question. It stuck to the head of the penis regularly disappearing into her pussy.
At one point, she pointed me to come closer.
I thought she was sliding her pussy over his huge cock.
She put an arm around my neck.
She: ‘You should know by now that I put his (i.e. not protected) cock inside me. I am in love with him and he with me.’ For a moment tongue kissed each other.
‘I couldn't stop myself from putting that dick inside me anymore. Kiss me if you feel as happy as I am now.’
I did not hesitate for a moment and as I kissed her, she started fucking him.
Then I left them alone to enjoy this event.
My experience......
What I mean by this is that it is very human that falling in love with another woman (and v.v.) in completely different circumstances (such as being born in a different city) would therefore also have been quite possible.
This approach has always been mine. And my wife agreed. The question is how to deal with it.
My wife and I had only one rule (apart from hygiene):
if our marriage suffered from being in love then that relationship would be terminated.
We also knew full well that this would not be a 100 per cent watertight solution.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Even before our marriage I realized that my wife was not at all averse to attention from other men.
But I never blamed her for this behaviour. On the contrary, I was actually proud of her.
Decades later:
In what became our beloved club, on several occasions I saw that a certain chemistry existed or developed between a lover and her.
Believe me, that always did me very well because it also meant she could fully indulge in sex with other men and sometimes women.
More than once, I urged her to give free rein to her inner feelings. ‘Falling in love is so human that it would be a shame not to take advantage of it,’ I said.
With one (otherwise married) man in particular, I saw a different woman from the one I was married to.
How they interacted was the most beautiful, erotic, challenging and sometimes rough sex I have ever seen. I should add that he refused to put on a condom. So deep fucking was out of the question. It stuck to the head of the penis regularly disappearing into her pussy.
At one point, she pointed me to come closer.
I thought she was sliding her pussy over his huge cock.
She put an arm around my neck.
She: ‘You should know by now that I put his (i.e. not protected) cock inside me. I am in love with him and he with me.’ For a moment tongue kissed each other.
‘I couldn't stop myself from putting that dick inside me anymore. Kiss me if you feel as happy as I am now.’
I did not hesitate for a moment and as I kissed her, she started fucking him.
Then I left them alone to enjoy this event.
My experience......
Find a married guy willing to join you and that takes him out of the equation of falling for her or trying to woo her too much. He’ll keep it in the sexual exploitation mode and enjoy the moment without the attachment.
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