Question: How many.......

[Azncouple21]

I assume 99% are guys/husbands are on here sharing their experiences and fantasys.
Has your wife/female partner ever initiated being a hotwife?
How many Wives/females have said to their partner (male) "I love f--king other guys...."opposed to guys saying "I love watching you fuck other guys...."

 

[Azncouple21]

Thats a tough post to read.
Ive been married 3 times and my first wife cheated then left me for her "cousin". I met the guy plenty and never thought anything of it until she was out of the country dealing with family business, came back and said "im moving out....." I found out she left me for him when I got bill from the emergency room with his name on there. She wasnt smart enough to change the address so when they sent the bill, i confronted her on it and she told me F off.

 

[candaulasie]

my chinese wife always tells me at the moment i am about to enter her that she would prefer to fuck a chinese cock, fitting her perfectly, more pleasure, no pain, which makes me harder and bigger

 

[Azncouple21]

my chinese wife always tells me at the moment i am about to enter her that she would prefer to fuck a chinese cock, fitting her perfectly, more pleasure, no pain, which makes me harder and bigger

My current wife is Philipino and loves bbc

 

[Charles]

I suppose every couple is different but my wife tends to be on here a lot more than I do. I can't say either of us has ever uttered those two phrases but she's probably come closer. It could probably be construed that she initiated being a hotwife when she cheated with a coworker. I didn't see the affair coming as things were great on the home front and we were having sex pretty much daily.

I found out about the affair completely by chance and when I figured out with who and where I went over to his place to confront them. I ended up seeing them fucking on the living room couch through the open front door and completely froze up with a million things running through my mind until they finished. At that point I turned around and left, neither of them knew I was there.

I was in complete denial as to what I'd seen by the time she got home and I didn't confront her. For the next several weeks things continued to be great on the home front and she continued the affair. Each time I thought she was with him I'd go over to confront them and they were always fucking when I got there. I'd freeze up and lose my nerve every time and somehow convinced myself it wasn't her by the time she got home.

Finally there came a night that she accidently fell asleep at his place and didn't come home. I was worried sick when I woke up alone and finally accused her of cheating when she did get home. She broke down crying and admitted to it without me even having to admit what I'd seen. When she finally stopped crying we actually had a very civil conversation.

They had been fucking for about 8 months at that point. Mostly during their lunch break since he lived close to their office and once or twice a week when I worked late. Despite us having a great sex life she said she was always horny and wanted more which is why she had strayed. Her sex drive has always been higher than mine.

She also admitted that even though our sex life was great he was a lot more experienced and sex was a lot different with him. He was 36 at the time and we were 20. Based on what I'd seen when they were together I knew this to be true. He fucked her roughly in dozens of positions while I made love to her in the missionary position for the most part. She was a lot more vocal with him moaning loudly and talking dirty while we were a lot more quiet so as not to wake our son. Admittedly from what I'd seen she always looked happy when she was with him and despite the heartache it caused me that made me kind of happy for her.

She said she loved me more than anything but for all those reasons didn't want to give up sex with him. Surprisingly I agreed to let the affair continue. For the most part they continued getting together for nooners and on nights I worked late. I no longer had a reason to check up on her and let her do her thing. She was always in the habit of relaxing in the tub when she got home so I never had to worry about getting sloppy seconds. She likes giving but not receiving oral so creampie cleanup was never an issue either. There was no change to the frequency of our love making and gradually it no longer bothered me that someone else was fucking her.

That was many years ago. We opened our marriage after that affair ended and did a lot of swing together and solo through our 30s and into our early 40s. I've seen plenty of men fuck her and it's never really been a turn on for me. She has developed a number of kinks over the years that she really gets off on but I don't particularly like. These days I prefer to let her play alone as I don't enjoy seeing her treated like that. She's happy and content and that means much less drama for me.

Thank you for great, well thought out responses. What is it that she gets off on that you don’t like to see? What do you not like about it?

thx

 

[jusme]

I assume 99% are guys/husbands are on here sharing their experiences and fantasys.
Has your wife/female partner ever initiated being a hotwife?
How many Wives/females have said to their partner (male) "I love f--king other guys...."opposed to guys saying "I love watching you fuck other guys...."

With my exwife it was more "last night when we were drinking late I pulled this guy, do you mind?".
With my exgf it was "he looks nice, can I try him?".
With my present wife she tends to find someone after vetting them thoroughly she says "can I go out tonight?" Then the morning after if she doesn't come home until around 12noon I know she has met up with them.

 

[Turtle]

Have texts on my profile. My wife is into it

 

[Quarky]

Closest I ever got was with my much younger gf and bro. She was about 17, me 23 and bro 25. I was the only cock she knew, we were both virgins when we met so were super horny and fucked like rabbits. We were playing strip poker and she was losing, badly! She was down to her panties, trying desperately to cover her D cup tits...his eyes were popping out of his head...bro is such an asshole there's no way he was fucking her so I closed it down!

Shit story but 100% true!

 

[Quarky]

Closest I ever got was with my much younger gf and bro. She was about 17, me 23 and bro 25. I was the only cock she knew, we were both virgins when we met so were super horny and fucked like rabbits. We were playing strip poker and she was losing, badly! She was down to her panties, trying desperately to cover her D cup tits...his eyes were popping out of his head...bro is such an asshole there's no way he was fucking her so I closed it down!

Shit story but 100% true!

By the way, she admitted she loved the attention...never took it further tho with anyone else.

 

[Azncouple21]

With my exwife it was more "last night when we were drinking late I pulled this guy, do you mind?".
With my exgf it was "he looks nice, can I try him?".
With my present wife she tends to find someone after vetting them thoroughly she says "can I go out tonight?" Then the morning after if she doesn't come home until around 12noon I know she has met up with them.

Hot

 

[Charles]

You're welcome. She's very submissive and gets off on being degraded. She likes rough sex, choking, spanking, hair pulling and whatnot. She's also very into bondage and anal.

And these are not things that you want to see? I think it is fantastic that you let her experience her desires, even if it is hard for you to see.

I have to admit, my wife had an experience with a lover where he called her names like “slut” and did spank her and was a little rough with her but not abusive. She said that she became more passionate with him when her called her his slut. She LOVED it, but it is a mind bender to have another man treat your wife this way. Life is a journey!!

 

[Jsking31]

Ours started as my wife wanting to have a threesome. It ended up being with one of her ex boyfriends. That continued and here we are. She loves having a regular boyfriend. So unsure which side we fall in. I think we both had a desire in the beginning.

 

[antonio13]

I initiated a direct conversation but as it turned out my wife always wanted it and gave me some signals as she said recently.

 

[Ht805cpl]

My current wife is Philipino and loves bbc

Same here Filipina wife loves black men

 

[CONST65]

I assume 99% are guys/husbands are on here sharing their experiences and fantasys.
Has your wife/female partner ever initiated being a hotwife?
How many Wives/females have said to their partner (male) "I love f--king other guys...."opposed to guys saying "I love watching you fuck other guys...."

My hotwife after several.years of marroage as alot of couples things get mundane after several years. ONE nighr afyer an intense sexual night the next morning she said that at tines she wondered what it woukd beije to be with another man we discissed it and she went out and got picked up and tvat night she had sex with another nan that was 5 years ago now shes a hotwife and have a few regular guys plus an occasional puck up .It has been very rewarding for both of us . WE bith agree she could never go back to a one cock wonan

 

[Ht805cpl]

My hotwife after several.years of marroage as alot of couples things get mundane after several years. ONE nighr afyer an intense sexual night the next morning she said that at tines she wondered what it woukd beije to be with another man we discissed it and she went out and got picked up and tvat night she had sex with another nan that was 5 years ago now shes a hotwife and have a few regular guys plus an occasional puck up .It has been very rewarding for both of us . WE bith agree she could never go back to a one cock wonan

Interesting how it happened so quickly, for us I got the ball rolling by talking about swinging or swapping as it was once called, we started out with another woman then several the first introduced her too, in time she said hey you are getting to play with lots of woman I want to play with another man, so I made it happen, the first was a black friend not planned to be a black guy just happened that way, but many years later she has said many times I want or I need another man and I always find her one. Funny how the table turns from me wanting it to fuck other women to her wanting to fuck other men. Today she has said many times I only like to fuck black men so I’m the only non black man she ever fucks.

 

[nariah1957]

I assume 99% are guys/husbands are on here sharing their experiences and fantasys.
Has your wife/female partner ever initiated being a hotwife?
How many Wives/females have said to their partner (male) "I love f--king other guys...."opposed to guys saying "I love watching you fuck other guys...."

1st time shared was after a card night. Most had left leaving just me, my wife and a male friend. I initiated it by suggesting strip poker. 2nd time shared was wife wanting to do it again.

 

[Ht805cpl]

1st time shared was after a card night. Most had left leaving just me, my wife and a male friend. I initiated it by suggesting strip poker. 2nd time shared was wife wanting to do it again.

As I always say careful what you wish for! Sometimes it is hard to go back to normal what ever normal is. I like that idea strip poker led to sharing wife but I guess if everyone is naked it would only be natural.

 

[nariah1957]

As I always say careful what you wish for! Sometimes it is hard to go back to normal what ever normal is. I like that idea strip poker led to sharing wife but I guess if everyone is naked it would only be natural.

Very true. Once a wife has been fucked you cant un-fuck her. I was always turned on by 1 girl 2 men porn and I loved reading about wife sharing in Penthouse as a teenager but never thought I would actually do it. That night strip poker was just a fun thing to do and to show her off. Didn't intend to become a cuck. But once we were naked I wanted the next step and one thing led to another. Wife never objected as each step was reached so the night ended with another man inside her. Luckily it turned out well for us.

 

[Ht805cpl]

Very true. Once a wife has been fucked you cant un-fuck her. I was always turned on by 1 girl 2 men porn and I loved reading about wife sharing in Penthouse as a teenager but never thought I would actually do it. That night strip poker was just a fun thing to do and to show her off. Didn't intend to become a cuck. But once we were naked I wanted the next step and one thing led to another. Wife never objected as each step was reached so the night ended with another man inside her. Luckily it turned out well for us.

Yea I really get it. Not sure sharing your wife with another man makes you a cuck perhaps just a guy who enjoys the 3some experience. Our beginning was with another woman and in time a 3 some with another guy and we took turns taking her over and over all night watching each other, in time that turned into couples play and then so small group play, but for me the hottest is always watching her fucking another man or a group of them, knowing at the end of the night she is going home with me.