Questions for husbands, what do you think while your wife is with another man

Back in my 30s, whilst working in Philippines, I fell for a Filipina in another city. We met, dated, and we slept together. But I overheard one or two phone calls and got a bit suspicious. I discovered her Yahoo chat and email passwords and everything was revealed. She had numerous boyfriends overseas sending her money. Before long I discovered she was also arranging to meet in hotels for sex, and money ofc. I had been fooled. But I liked her and couldn't confront her so I kept quiet and let it continue.

It was easy to know when she was meeting up for sex from her chat and emails. So I got used to spending evenings and nights imagining them fucking. It became a huge thrill even though I was full of jealousy.

Then one day I saw her tell a gf in her chat that a bf had a huge cock which gave her amazing orgasms for hrs on end. She said 10 is but Filipinas exaggerate so I guess maybe 8. This was mind blowing. Eventually she told her gf she'd stopped taking his money just to get more of his cock.

This laid the foundations of my later love of sharing my wife with her bulls
Great story! Enjoyed your comments about size and wive's exaggerating. My wife's ex was about 7" - 8" she said, "maybe a bit larger, and it felt so good inside me, but I couldn't live with him any longer." A typical story, I think. She was so happy to be out of that marriage that my 5.5 was worth putting up with (she said that to her sister). Based on her comments, I knew her ex was about 6" - 7" - still noteworthy in the heirarchy of cock size.
 
The sense of excitement I feel when she's out, is the greatest feeling ever. It's that fluttering in my stomach, the sense of unbridled excitement, at times in the past, I've literally punched the air in joy, just thinking about how much fun he is going to be having with my wife. And the excitement for her in being satisfied by a different man. If it's the first time she has met him, then that feeling is even more intense. It's such a great lifestyle, and I feel so lucky to have lived like this.
 
The sense of excitement I feel when she's out, is the greatest feeling ever. It's that fluttering in my stomach, the sense of unbridled excitement, at times in the past, I've literally punched the air in joy, just thinking about how much fun he is going to be having with my wife. And the excitement for her in being satisfied by a different man. If it's the first time she has met him, then that feeling is even more intense. It's such a great lifestyle, and I feel so lucky to have lived like this.
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Great story! Enjoyed your comments about size and wive's exaggerating. My wife's ex was about 7" - 8" she said, "maybe a bit larger, and it felt so good inside me, but I couldn't live with him any longer." A typical story, I think. She was so happy to be out of that marriage that my 5.5 was worth putting up with (she said that to her sister). Based on her comments, I knew her ex was about 6" - 7" - still noteworthy in the heirarchy of cock size.
I think most women would be happy with 5 in their marriage if they had a good supply of 7+ with others. My one regret about that ex gf is not having seen her in action. I'd have loved to have witnessed that moment when she spread her legs to let him in, or more likely when she got on all fours to let him mount her
 
I feel envy but I also find it extremely sexually exciting. My wife loves sex and has a fascination with cum, the more she gets the more she wants. Its hot when I'm left decorating the house or doing the garden or fixing her car and she is on a date my mind races with the thoughts of what she is getting up to. I know the things she does with me and I know she certainly is not holding back with him.
 
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I feel envy but I also find it extremely sexually exciting. My wife loves sex and has a fascination with cum, the more she gets the more she wants. Its hot when I'm left decorating the house or doing the garden or fixing her car and she is on a date my mind races with the thoughts of what she is getting up to. I know the things she does with me and I know she certainly is not holding back with him.
My wife also loves cum. She is obsessed with seeing men ejaculate. She says her bulls are all different
 
My wife is out for the night with another man. I know they are having sex but I think what exactly are they doing. I think about this every time she goes on a date. I get hard a masturbate several times while she is out. I do cum hard and a lot. Tonight I have been thinking about more than just Tonight's guy but thinking about how many guys have cum in her and how much cum it has been. That thought just made me harder and I shot more cum than usual. Does this happen to you other husbands?
YES!!!!
 
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My wife also loves cum. She is obsessed with seeing men ejaculate. She says her bulls are all different
Yes my wife loves seeing a man ejaculate. In the heat of the moment my wife said "I want cum everywhere, over my body and even in my hair.." My wife loves me to finish cumming over her body as she said that she loves to see my arms tighten and my cock pulsing as I finish off.
 
The way she could indulge in sex with other men always touched me deeply. After all, then I knew she was enjoying herself and that was exactly what I wanted to achieve.
When I talked to her about it, she would say that this surrender also came from her heart, that it was not played.
She: "I know you like seeing me like this, but am convinced that I enjoy it so terribly myself. I realise very well that this looks like selfish behaviour, but then when I can look at you for a moment and see how excited you are, I just feel encouraged."

And I found that last one totally exciting because those were the events where boundaries seemed to be crossed. Like being fucked staggeringly hard and deep, to the point of being painful.
She: "Pushing those boundaries of what is just barely acceptable is so terribly exciting. The nice thing about it is that there are actually no such limits. At least until now. It's staggeringly horny that you can, nay often have to, witness that. That I can be that other woman than the one you married. The most wonderful thing is that we can talk about it so openly afterwards.

One example out of many.
The day after visiting that club, she finally came to the living room.
She stood in front of me and asked me to be rough with her pussy.
Three to four times she told me I was not doing it hard enough.
I did not want to hurt her but that was exactly what she wanted.
When I reluctantly treated her really roughly, she said
"That was exactly what a man did to me last night. Every time he asked if he wasn't going too far, I tongue kissed him. Auromatically he understood to go one step further. Until I came unimaginably hard."