Sexual Goals 2025

[Anonymousrob84]

This year, my wife and I have decided we are going to set some sexual goals for 2025. We grew a lot in the last year. 23 went from barely playing, to her playing a lot, playing solo, playing bareback, me cleaning her up, and her getting a regular “boyfriend”. I have historically played the strictly stag role but I want to switch it up some.

Here are my goals for 2025:
1. Blindfold her and have three or four guys come into the hotel room and take turns with her.
2. Be more dominant. Research and work on it along with impact play and shibari.
3. Have sex in the same room with another couple. No touching necessarily but have sex in the same room.
4. I want to, at least once, go full cuck. Cage, panties, humiliation from him and her. Forced to clean up. Verbal humiliation. All of it. Never done that before.
5. Have her pick someone and fuck them without me knowing and send me evidence of it after.

 

[pirahna104]

Number 3 can be fun. I've done it and it made me hornier than ever. Trust me, I wanted to swap, but didn't want to fuck up the mood.

 

[toolman2c]

This year, my wife and I have decided we are going to set some sexual goals for 2025. We grew a lot in the last year. 23 went from barely playing, to her playing a lot, playing solo, playing bareback, me cleaning her up, and her getting a regular “boyfriend”. I have historically played the strictly stag role but I want to switch it up some.

Here are my goals for 2025:
1. Blindfold her and have three or four guys come into the hotel room and take turns with her.
2. Be more dominant. Research and work on it along with impact play and shibari.
3. Have sex in the same room with another couple. No touching necessarily but have sex in the same room.
4. I want to, at least once, go full cuck. Cage, panties, humiliation from him and her. Forced to clean up. Verbal humiliation. All of it. Never done that before.
5. Have her pick someone and fuck them without me knowing and send me evidence of it after.

#4 sounds like a Big step, id like to follow up on how and witch on of #4 has the biggest impact on you, and on your Deserving wife..

 

[Anonymousrob84]

#4 sounds like a Big step, id like to follow up on how and witch on of #4 has the biggest impact on you, and on your Deserving wife..

I don’t know that she will be up for that but I want to try it at least once.

 

[Derekthecuck]

This year, my wife and I have decided we are going to set some sexual goals for 2025. We grew a lot in the last year. 23 went from barely playing, to her playing a lot, playing solo, playing bareback, me cleaning her up, and her getting a regular “boyfriend”. I have historically played the strictly stag role but I want to switch it up some.

Here are my goals for 2025:
1. Blindfold her and have three or four guys come into the hotel room and take turns with her.
2. Be more dominant. Research and work on it along with impact play and shibari.
3. Have sex in the same room with another couple. No touching necessarily but have sex in the same room.
4. I want to, at least once, go full cuck. Cage, panties, humiliation from him and her. Forced to clean up. Verbal humiliation. All of it. Never done that before.
5. Have her pick someone and fuck them without me knowing and send me evidence of it after.

Very brave. I love it!

 

[Anonymousrob84]

Very brave. I love it!

I’m not sure how I feel about it but I figure I owe it to myself to find out

 

[coastalkid]

I like your list, sounds like an adventure. You are obviously in a good place with your wife to envision such things happening. Most likely you wouldn't give yourself the opportunity to think about your list unless you were at a place where no matter what the two of you get into you felt safe and confident. If things are going well between you and your wife you should both reap the benefits of the work you've put into the relationship and have as much fun as you can while you can.

Just for curiosity sake, which of the things on your list do YOU think will be the most easily accepted and which will be the one she'll most reluctant to do. Hell, she could be fine with them all. 2025 is going to be really interesting. Has your wife made a list of her own? That might be interesting.

 

[cuck52]

#4 You're going to end up being forced to suck his cock. He going to cum in your mouth and fuck you in the ass. Then he's going pull his dirty cock out of your asshole and stick it in your mouth and make you clean it. If they let you cum at all they're going to make you eat your own cum.. Are you sure you're up for it? Remember if your wife likes it and you don't there is no going back after that. She may also decide she doesn't want to fuck a cocksucker, she may never fuck you again... Unless this is something you want and need, you're taking a big risk..

 

[Phun Times 727]

Those are some interesting goals, are they yours, her or collective as a couple? I am also curious if your goals for the year are part of an overall journey to an end goal later down the road that these get you to eventually? So Now that we are in 2026 did you manage to hit all of those, some of them?

Number 5 is the only one we have done and it happened in 2025.

Was 2024 or 2025 a more active year for you? I guess what I am asking is do you see it as a year to year growth in number of men or in the level of play or comfort level? We only started in 2024 and there were only three men in 2024, I say only and it sounds funny when you consider it was three men my wife slept with outside of our marriage but the number was three. 2025 saw some changes and for most of 2025 it was held at three again. Not the same three but two of the three from 2024 had some involvement in 2025. Most of the year was focused on the third person and it really looked like we we headed to three again in 2025 but the number jumped by at least two in the Fall. Long story but isn't exact. So I am going to say 2025 finished at five for us.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

So 2025 was for more active for us than ever before. As for our goals, we achieved goals 2, 3, and 5. There were some definite growing pains and some new explorations and dynamics but it was a really eventful year for sure e