My girl is a petite 33 year old asian, been together for almost 7 years and I’ve been having a fantasy of sharing her with other men for a couple of years now. I’ve been trying to convince her to be shared but she won’t budge. I tell her we can find someone who can last longer but she always turns it down and says no. Should I try to keep convincing her or just let it go and stay a fantasy? I do have dreams every now and then of her fucking other men. She is pretty vanilla when it comes to to sex/sexual things and I feel that contributes to her answer. Thoughts?
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Should I post some nudes of her to show how she looks? Let me know!
Your question isn't easy to answer. There are many reports and exchanges of experiences in the forum. I think that's valuable.
There are many reasons why a woman might not be convinced (or not right away). You have to find out the real reasons. It can be complex. The important thing is not to put any pressure on her, to make her feel good, and to show her that you love her. She needs to understand your motives. That's not always easy. Be patient, respect her, and show her that you love her!👍
Oh, and of course, the community is curious about your wife! Feel free to share pictures of her!😉
There are many reasons why a woman might not be convinced (or not right away). You have to find out the real reasons. It can be complex. The important thing is not to put any pressure on her, to make her feel good, and to show her that you love her. She needs to understand your motives. That's not always easy. Be patient, respect her, and show her that you love her!👍
Oh, and of course, the community is curious about your wife! Feel free to share pictures of her!😉
Thank you for the kind message! I always tell her she looks good and men would want her lol but I will definitely share a pic of her on here! Here’s a pic of her front view body!
OMG! She is so hot! Love petite asian wives!
I agree with dido333. When you first bring it up it's a lot for her to process. it's not something most women expect to hear. And her societal programming tells her it's not right, not normal. Plus, there's all the fears that go with it. Does this mean he doesn't love me? Is he trying to break up with me so that he can have sex with other women?
Even if she feels or knows your actions are pure, she still might have body issues that makes her feel unsexy or afraid at the prospect of having sex outside her marriage.
Lots to work on. But don't give up. It takes time. Start slow. Roleplay if she is open to it. Don't push too much. Make it fun, and fun for her. You have to make it such that she feels sexy and safe.
Thank you for the advice! I don’t even want to play with other women. Just want to watch her do some 1on1 play! Will definitely keep talking to her about it and assure her we can find someone trust worthy and will treat her good and all that stuff!
You'll do great! Lot's of great posts on here to help. My wife has been a hotwife for just over 3 years now. Took her 4-5 years to come around to the idea. Now she loves it. Feel free to DM me if you ever want to chat. Cheers!
She's sexy to look at, thanks for sharing those photos. Consider yourself lucky to have them as many wives won't pose nude for their husband, or even talk about the stuff we all like. You've told her what you are fantasizing about and hopefully told her in such a way that she understands it is about her as much as you and she can control what happens, with whom, how it will happen. There's one big DON'T for you. Don't make it a campaign and bring it up every time you have sex or talk about sex. Let it ride for a while and make sure she feels your love. Disregard the bullshit you read and see in the porno sites, it's bullshit, designed to sell videos and provide a nice income for the vendors.
If you make it an obsession and turn the screws on her you are assuring your dream will never become a reality.
Some wives never open up to play like we talk about here, but your wife is sexy as hell - enjoy her every chance you get. Have you ever asked her what she fantasizes about? When my wife and I were dating, I asked her that (we'd just fucked, had a glass of wine, and were waiting for me to get hard again). What she said blew a discussion I thought I had control of wide open.
If you make it an obsession and turn the screws on her you are assuring your dream will never become a reality.
Some wives never open up to play like we talk about here, but your wife is sexy as hell - enjoy her every chance you get. Have you ever asked her what she fantasizes about? When my wife and I were dating, I asked her that (we'd just fucked, had a glass of wine, and were waiting for me to get hard again). What she said blew a discussion I thought I had control of wide open.
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Thank you for the advice and I’ll definitely learn from this! And will definitely ask her about her fantasies! She is pretty vanilla when it comes to sex and is t that much of a sexual person so we’ll see what she says!
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